I just told my parents last night that i'm
pregnant. My mom took it well but my dad
and my sister didn't. I was just
wondering what some of your parents
thought and how long it took for them to
come around.
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 10-24-03 21:05pm
Angie,
I just told my parents last friday and no
one in my family took it well my mom
called me a doing it tramp and said im not
keeping it that im irresponsable and that
I cant see my boyfriend ever again and yah
thats how my parents took it! Im glad
your mom took it pretty well im sorry
about your dad and your sister im sure in
a few weeks they will adjust to the
situation and get used to it sweetie!
Keep us posted! Good luck! Much love and
god bless!!! Oh by the way welcome to the
boards the girls here are great! If you
need anything just pm me or any of the
other girls they give great advice!!!
Jen
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
I Feeel Ya Posted: 10-25-03 08:52am
I told my mom and she just thought that I
was telling her so that she would sign for
me to get married and she still didnt
believe me for like a week or two until I
showed her the preg.Test and then im going
to the doctor monday and I ll be able to
show her a sonagram so, but I think she
believes me now, but to me it really dont
matter what anybody else thinx, this is
mine and chris's baby, not anyone else's
ya know?
Take care, keep us posted on ur
pregnancy'
pregnajordan
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 10-25-03 11:25am
Hey sweetie, its normal for parents to
take it harshly for the first little bit
you are there lil girl still remember.
Its a bit of a shock but most parents come
around! Myself I had to tell my now
in-laws not my own parents b-cuz they're
not with us anymore. Anywho scott and I
told them and they were excited lol.
They've been trying to convince us to have
kids since I was 17 and he was 19 lol now
im 19 and hes 21. Give them a little
time and hopefully it'll get better
~melissa
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-27-03 10:51am
It took my mom until just a few months to
get over it. And my son is now 6 months
old. My mom got so bad that she go
involved in crack cocaine. Some of us
aren't as lucky as others..Like me...I am
praying for you , and I think that you are
a very strong person for accomplishing
someting like that, it take a lot of
courage...Good luck!!
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minerwater
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-27-03 13:19pm
All parents will get over it. And if they
don;t, their love isn't strong enough. We
are all humans, its a natural thing..Just
have to deal with it. I hope to god that
when I have children they dont' have kids
a teens but if they do, i'll be there
eventhough i'll be disappointed not
because of what happened (noone can
controll it if you are having sex) but
that thier lives will change too early but
I would be supportive and made sure they
finished school and went on to
college..I'd be there 100% to make sure
they would have the best life no matter
what.
Hey, my mom had me at almost 17years old.
I came out well, although she was an
irresponsible mother.
Oh well, some of us are made to be
mothers, some not.
I look at it this way: you are their baby.
You cannot expect your parents to
immediatly love the idea of you have a
child while you are still so young. If
you tell your parents that you are preggy
and they through a party, something is
wrong. Parents are entitled to be upset,
angry, and even hurt. But in time most,
not all, but most, parents get over it,
accept it, and possibly even learn to (in
caps) love it!
