Did u call the authorities... Im going to plug an order for protection (ofp) again.

Girl, I say he need's to go!! That is how it starts. Please get out of that situation before he actually does hurt you!! We are here for you!!

what? K what happened? They doesn't sound like something he would do. I'm just sitting here in shock... I don't know, i'll im you later girl. I hope you're okay.

Okay.... Now its time to really make that choice.... Once he does that everytime he gets pissed off he will do that or worse or something similar. You dont need that type of stuff. I know it is easier said then done and it is always hard to make a decision like this, but the best thing to do is walk away and find someone who really cares about you, or stay single which ever one you prefer. Good luck hun and pm me if you want to talk

Thanks. Lana is right when saying it doesn't sound like him at all. I don't know exactly what I am going to do... I will keep you guys posted.

[edit: sorry, in this post I assumed that porchelvr was pregnant. She didn't say anithing about that herself]

ok, this could be serious. When he reacts that strongly to you needing rest when you are pregnant, and especially if he could just go to another computer, then there is trouble.


It might seem moderately scarry now, but I am going to add a really scarry statistic here. The most common cause of death among pregnant women is homicide by their s.O.


If he can not handle the changes now that you are pregnant, it is also likely that he can not handle the big changes that occur after the baby is born.

This is serious stuff. You might still consider your options at this time, but guaranteed, if this continues then it is time to get out, and at that point rather than later. Don't take it lightly. What he did constitutes *assault* and is a crime. Possibly, because you are pregnant, it is elevated to *aggrevated assault.* guys get thrown in jail for this, particularly because of the forementioned statistic.


At least set up an emergency plan. Talk to your family or a close friend so you have a place to go if you need to. See if you can leave extra sets of clothes and a bit of money at your safe place. It might never be needed, but that's a lot better than you running for your life without a goal or a plan some day. You *need* a backup plan at this point.

has this happened before???? And what do u mean u guess you got yours???

O kay wait a minute 1st off she not pregnant well atleast its not confirmed yet. All her test come back neg. But still it doesnt give anyone the right to push shove or hit you in any way shape or form...

Sorry, I was the one assuming that porchelvr was pregnant. That might nit be the xase; certainly she didn't say so, now that I re-read her post.

That's disrespectful and thats abusive! You need to call the police or something! Im serious!

I had a relationship that started that way and in the end I almost ended up in the hospital!! If a family member of mine wouldn't have walked in, it would have been bad. His grabs and little pushes over time turned into punches and bleeding! Take care girl and we are all here for you!!

An order for protection is easy to obtain and served within 48 hrs usually by poh-leese

Thanks everyone. No I don't know if I am prego or not, that's a long complicated story. I didn't want to post wondering if I was or not because well...I just wanted to know first...

I talked to him about it today and I don't know. I don't think it will progress, but I don't know for sure.

I will let everyone know what happens with it all.

I think it is a bad situation all together!! No man should ever raise a hand in anger to a women!! I would've kicked his butt out. Goodluck hun and I hope you are right and it stops there. Make sure he knows how unacceptable what he did was and that there are consequences if it ever happens again. If you need to talk shoot me a note. I'll be home on thurs. So when you want meet up for lunch or something?

Are you in texas now??? I am off all next week let me know what is going on...

If you pm me I will give you my phone number and we can make plans from there.