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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:16pm
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| pinkbaby
wrote: | | for real, huh. Well my mom
said that you can put unknown for the dad
on the birtch certificate...If you dont
want him involved. If you do that, you
can get welfare if you needed. But if
the daddys name is on there, they will go
after him for collections first. Then
they might see his age and ask questions.
But I always watch maury and they do
paternity test and things, and they said
there is nothing anyone can do unless your
legal guardian has a problem with his age.
Do you want his name on the bc? I on
the other hand want luis's name on the bc.
I just dont know what actions they would
take, I dont want him to be
deported...Then I would have to move to
mexico! |
or marry him
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:17pm
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Could you say that he's your brother?
Thats who im saying al is, lol, 'cuz he's
gonna be in there.
And yeah sometimes they can be real nosy
and crap and research. I applied for cash
aid and they wanted to find him! I said I
didn't know who he was and didn't really
care, but they insisted. They wanted to
file a court date and find him and crap.
Thank goodness I didn't give his last name
and cancled the cash aid.
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:18pm
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | kaigela
wrote: | | but wouldn't they know if I
was lying or not? By saying "i dont
know the rest of the information". Do
you think they'd wanna research on him
& stuff? |
no how could they... I did that with my
first child. |
ohh so you put his name down and then just
said you didn't know anything else about
him?
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:20pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | they want my baby to have
his last name. And they want his name on
there for proof he's the father so we can
sue him for child support if he decides to
back out on
me. |
your baby can have any name.. You can put
tom dick harry as the babies name and they
dont question the name
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:20pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | they want my baby to have
his last name. And they want his name on
there for proof he's the father so we can
sue him for child support if he decides to
back out on
me. |
thats a good point. I will just be
screwed on that. My mom wanted me to tell
my case worker that I had a one night
stand and didnt know the dad so we could
still get child support with none of the
fathers info having to be on the bc.
Thats too embaressing though. He would be
like dumb hoe hah.
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:22pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | could you say that he's your
brother? Thats who im saying al is, lol,
'cuz he's gonna be in there.
And yeah sometimes they can be real nosy
and crap and research. I applied for
cash aid and they wanted to find him! I
said I didn't know who he was and didn't
really care, but they insisted. They
wanted to file a court date and find him
and crap. Thank goodness I didn't give
his last name and cancled the cash
aid. |
thats exacly what happened to me. I
called my mom after I got out of the
office and told her everything they asked,
thats when she said tell him you had a one
night stand. And I was like no! I lied
my asss off and just cancelled everything.
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:24pm
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | kaigela
wrote: | | they want my baby to have
his last name. And they want his name
on there for proof he's the father so we
can sue him for child support if he
decides to back out on
me. |
your baby can have any name.. You can
put tom dick harry as the babies name and
they dont question the
name |
lmao! So what did you do w/ your first
child? Just put the fathers name and said
you didn't know the rest of the info?
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:27pm
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[quote="kaigela"]could you say that he's
your brother? Thats who im saying al is,
lol, 'cuz he's gonna be in there.
I dont think they would believe hes my
brother. Hes really dark, and im a
walking glow stick. And his family is
really traditional and freaking huge. Ill
be in walmart and someone I dont even know
will come up and touch my stomach "ohh
meja, poquito es tu bebe" or whatever, and
im like luis who is that, and hes like oh
my moms, borthers, sisters, aunt. Im like
what? Yaaa, the whole waiting room is
gunna be filled with mexicans.
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:28pm
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Lmao aww! Hmm. Say he's your step
brother!
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:29pm
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Look the best thing I can recommend is
call the hosp. Were you will be
delivering and ask to speak to the birth
registry. And they can help explain the
laws there
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:31pm
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Im not so worried about it now that im
laughing about it. Ill just tell them im
in too much pain and I dont remember
anything. You think they will believe me?
Is al the babys daddy?
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:31pm
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| pinkbaby
wrote: | | kaigela
wrote: | | but wouldn't they know if I
was lying or not? By saying "i dont
know the rest of the information". Do
you think they'd wanna research on him
& stuff? |
thats the part im afraid of. They could
be asssholes and take it to far, or they
could be like whatever. That out of
state thing is a good excuse actually. I
would believe it. Will he be at the
hostpital? See, I could say I dont know
like tazzy said, but he will be there,
wouldent they ask
him? |
they dont have to know who he is.. You
could say he is your boyfriend, and hes
not the father. It is up to you and how
you feel.
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:32pm
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Good idea! You should say that! Lol.
Say your in too much pain or drugged up or
whatever & yes al is the baby's
daddy.
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:32pm
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | look the best thing I can
recommend is call the hosp. Were you
will be delivering and ask to speak to the
birth registry. And they can help
explain the laws
there |
thanks for all your help. I know it might
seem like I didnt listen to any of it, but
I did. I just always have a what if
question...
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:33pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | tazzy d
wrote: | | kaigela
wrote: | | but wouldn't they know if I
was lying or not? By saying "i dont
know the rest of the information". Do
you think they'd wanna research on him
& stuff? |
no how could they... I did that with my
first child. |
ohh so you put his name down and then just
said you didn't know anything else about
him? |
yep I met him in a club... Made me sound
fast but oh well
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:33pm
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Same here. Bah. I dont know what to do,
lol.
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pinkbaby
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:35pm
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Nvm tomorrows thursday...
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:36pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | tazzy d
wrote: | | kaigela
wrote: | | they want my baby to have
his last name. And they want his name
on there for proof he's the father so we
can sue him for child support if he
decides to back out on
me. |
your baby can have any name.. You can
put tom dick harry as the babies name and
they dont question the
name |
lmao! So what did you do w/ your first
child? Just put the fathers name and
said you didn't know the rest of the
info? |
i just put the state he was from and his
name... That was it
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:38pm
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I would say me no speak english but then
they will bring a trans. Damn this state
lol......
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