Joined: 29 Dec 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Rock Island
Should I Or Not? Posted: 12-29-04 21:28pm
Hi,im hailee and im 13years old and I want
a baby. Is this a good idea or not?
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sky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 411 Location: oklahoma
Posted: 12-29-04 21:37pm
Im sorry, but that is a ridiculous
question! If youre here asking people if
you should have a baby, then you obviously
question it yourself, and you know the
answer. Im not at all trying to be rude,
but c'mon youre 13!!
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ftmommy201
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Posts: 178
Wait!!! Posted: 12-29-04 21:42pm
Hun if you are only 13 I would not advise
a baby!!!! I am 24 and im pregnant and
still not fully prepared!!! And at 13 you
have so much of your life ahead of you.
You have school, boyfriend's, all your
young stuff!!! Right now is the time that
you should enjoy hanging out with your
friend's and enjoy life. Once you have a
baby you can't really do those thing's
anymore!!! All of your time goes to a
baby and there is no more "you" time!!!
Please think with your head here and im
sure some other ladies on this post when
they respond to this will agree when I
tell you that at 13 having a baby,
espically if planned is crazy and will be
so hard on you!!!
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sky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 411 Location: oklahoma
Posted: 12-29-04 21:48pm
Well said ftmommy. I agree 100%. Iam 23
with 2 kids and one on the way, but ive
been married for 5 years! Believe me your
life will completely change!!!
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ftmommy201
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Posts: 178
Thank Ya.. Posted: 12-29-04 22:06pm
I figured I wasn't the only one who would
think this is crazy!! I just don't want
her to make a big mistake!! Hailee plz
listen to us when we tell you that a baby
is a "big" responsibility!!!! And no
matter how bad you think you might want a
baby, espically at 13 you are never really
ready!! There are baby's planned by
married couples everyday and it is still
hard on them!! So try to imagine yourself
at 13 with no life what so ever!! I hope
these post's will have some effect on your
decision!!!
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Re: Wait!!! Posted: 12-29-04 22:07pm
ftmommy201
wrote:
hun if you are only 13 I
would not advise a baby!!!! I am 24 and
im pregnant and still not fully
prepared!!! And at 13 you have so much
of your life ahead of you. You have
school, boyfriend's, all your young
stuff!!! Right now is the time that you
should enjoy hanging out with your
friend's and enjoy life. Once you have a
baby you can't really do those thing's
anymore!!! All of your time goes to a
baby and there is no more "you" time!!!
Please think with your head here and im
sure some other ladies on this post when
they respond to this will agree when I
tell you that at 13 having a baby,
espically if planned is crazy and will be
so hard on
you!!!
i agree with all of my life... Go to
school and do something else better with
your life.. Like sports or something.Go
skateing, or go to a movie something a 13
yr old should be doing. Man what is up
with you young children these days. Man I
could see if you came on here and said I
am pregnant.. But to come on here and say
you want a baby.... Kai help this girl
please.......................
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 642 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
Posted: 12-29-04 22:31pm
You're crazy!!! At 13, I was just
beginning to wonder my own body! I wasn't
into boys at that age. I mean, I was, but
not sexually or not even wanted a kiss.
Ew. I am 23, with a 3 year old and one
due in 21 days, if you know whats best for
you. Wait! I bet if you ask your mom
this question, you will get the same
answer!
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 12-29-04 22:34pm
I agree with the rest of you. Wanting a
baby and having a baby is two different
things, and no, you are not crazy.
Enjoy your life!
Sincerely,
sandy
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Health Angel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2004 Posts: 141 Location: Australia
Posted: 12-30-04 01:17am
13 is very young to be having a planned
pregnancy, its hard enough on those girls
who didnt plan to but have got pregnant.
Im 21 and I think im ready to have a child
but I have a job,im engaged to be married
and I think all I was worried about at 13
was my friends and boys lol I say enjoy
your teenage years think about kids when
you get a bit older and have time to enjoy
worrying about yourself.
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snowball
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2004 Posts: 159 Location: North Bay,Ontario,Canada
Posted: 12-30-04 01:51am
Hun you are to young to have a baby, at
your age you should be just having fun
with friends you shouldn't be in such a
hurry to grow up. Please wait it is a lot
of responsibility and you mise well say
good bye to going out with friends every
day and now and days everything is going
up in price. Just stay as you are and be
a 13 year old there is no need to rush.
I am done with advice on this subject! If
you truely thought it was right you would
not have to ask anyone! If you do need to
ask someone it should be your spouse or
significant other! I think this is very
childish!!
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 01-01-05 15:56pm
Is this the same person asking over and
over? Anyway.. My answer is no.. A
baby costs at least over 800 a month..
How much is your allowance? At 13 the
only job you could get is washing dishes
and that is what I do and i'm 18.. (hey..
Don't even.. I might get another job
soon :p ) and it is not a good job to do
when you are preggo.. Alot of bending
over and you get soaked everynight and it
makes your back hurt! I think you should
wait until you have a career.. Yes
career..Not a job. Buy one of those
think if over dolls or something.. Or
spend time with a teenager who is preggo
and/or has a child.. You will see.
