Just wanted to inform those who helped me
and answered my q's in the beginning of my
pregnancythat on christmas eve I lost my
baby at 10weeks, I had to go through a
d&c not fun at all! So my christmas
was sad and hard to be happy, my birthday
was yesterday i'm 30 now and it was so
hard to be happy & i'm not getting any
younger! How does this type of thing
happen? I thought I did everything right!
I am just wondering if anyone else has
ever experienced a miscarriage with there
1st pregnancy? I want to try again
asap....Can anyone give me some
advise......Some encouragement...... I
just need some strength cuz i'm running
out!! Please if anyone has time could you
sent me some uplifting news tohelp me pick
up and keep going, let me realize that
there is hope and my next pregnancy might
just be sucessful!! I just sit here and
ask myself why? Why me?! :cry:
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1stTimeMom2Be
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Im Here For You Hun!!! Posted: 12-29-04 23:24pm
I cannot say that I know what u are
feeling becuz I havent been through that
but I can just imagine...Im here for you
and I have been just like u've been here
for me....You will get ur blessing soon
enough...If its meant to happen then it
will sweetie...But like I said i'm always
here if u need someone to talk to about
anything...Take care hun...
Angel
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snowball
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Posted: 12-30-04 00:34am
I am so sorry, when I had a misscariage I
asked myself those same questions and it
took me a while to get over it. I was
told when I was younger I could not have
children then I was pregnant then 6 months
later I had a misscariage and it led to
problems and I had to have a hysterectomy.
I know what you are going through and
each day will get better and when you are
ready you will try again.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 12-30-04 09:20am
First off let me tell you how sorry I am
for your loss.
Lida, I don't know how "uplifting" this
is but, I had 2 miscarriages and now on my
3rd pregnancy I will be 14 weeks tomorrow.
Everything is fine with me and the baby.
I too was freaked out when I got preggo
this time thinking the worst will happen,
but so far so good. I still worry but my
doc tells me this far along usually there
is a 95% chance that everything will be
fine. My mom had 5 miscarriages before
having me (one was actually christmas eve
also) miscarriages are common, i'm sure
everything will be fine with any future
pregnancies. Best of luck to you.
:hugs:
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-30-04 10:35am
I have had 3 mis. 1 leading to a d&c
and no it is not easy and it is very hard
to deal with but that doesnt mean that you
cant get pregnant again. I lost my baby
in nov and jan we found out I was pregnant
again and I carried zachary until I was 32
weeks. So it is possible. Just lift your
head up and know that it is not your fault
or anything that you have done or did. My
doctor told me mis. Happen because there
is ow was something wrong with the baby.
It is just a sign that our body does to
let us know. Btw im very sorry for your
loss and I feel your pain. May your
friends family and god be with you in your
time of need
My mom had a miscarriage before she had me
and then 2 yrs later she had my brother.
My best-friend had a miscarriage w/her
first and was pregnant again 3 months
later. She is now 32 and her child is 3.
It is not too late and you will have a
baby when god decides it is right!
Goodluck sweetie and god bless!
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