Hey guys....I need your help...I'm 18 and
boyfriend is 21 he has a very high sexual
drive ...It seems that it's the opposite
....We have sex around three times a
day...But it's all about him...I know he's
very good in bed but i'm so cold I don't
even have fun...Sometimes I try to get
over that ...But it never happens..Like
now he's away from me ...I know that I
miss him and sexually need him...But I
never have fun...Even masturbuating...I
feel it's something boring and I feel
tired from that...Do you know anyway that
can get me into the thing...
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tete
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2005 Posts: 12
Posted: 01-06-05 12:25pm
In my opinion you really need to talk to
him. There seems to be a big lack in
comunication! What you're saying is that
basically your sex life is "all about
him", and that's just not the way it's
supposed to be.. Sex is supposed to be
good for both of you, it should be fun!
Does he try to give you pleasure?? I
think you should find a way to
"investigate" each other, to talk about
sex and find out what you both like,and
never do it just because he wants you to.
That way it will never improve, and you
have a right to have a great sex life too!
Not sure this will help you, but I
tried!
Good luck
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tete
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2005 Posts: 12
Posted: 01-06-05 12:26pm
In my opinion you really need to talk to
him. There seems to be a big lack in
comunication! What you're saying is that
basically your sex life is "all about
him", and that's just not the way it's
supposed to be.. Sex is supposed to be
good for both of you, it should be fun!
Does he try to give you pleasure?? I
think you should find a way to
"investigate" each other, to talk about
sex and find out what you both like,and
never do it just because he wants you to.
That way it will never improve, and you
have a right to have a great sex life too!
Not sure this will help you, but I
tried!
Good luck
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bubbly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: montreal
Posted: 01-06-05 15:59pm
Thx tete...But my problem is not with
him..It's just with my I never have
pleausure even with other guys,....And I
don't even like masturbuating
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sunny03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 28 Location: New York
Posted: 01-17-05 16:43pm
My friend had the same problem, she came
to relize that she is not enjoying sex no
matter who it is.. So she decide to try
girls and you know what she loves it and
now she's a lesbian. So think about
that...Hope I helped
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bubbly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: montreal
Posted: 01-19-05 09:57am
I don't think being a lesbian is what I
want ...I'm straight and I want to stay as
I am..
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bubbly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: montreal
Posted: 01-19-05 09:57am
I don't think being a lesbian is what I
want ...I'm straight and I want to stay as
I am..
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bebii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 23 Location: MINNESOTA,
Posted: 01-20-05 22:53pm
You should probably spice it up a lil bit
to make it more exciting then maybe youll
enjoy it better. Try having sex
elsewhere besides the bed and around the
house. Do something exciting that you
might get introube for ex. Sex in the
car, park, lake etc. Just something that
might excite you more to enjoy and have
fun.
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