Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 33 Location: Ontario Canada
Looking Forward to Marriage Posted: 01-02-05 00:21am
Hello
i have been going out with my boyfriend
for almost 4 months now, but we've known
each other for 3..
And I *really* liked him from the moment I
met him, if I had known what love was than
I might have even loved him at first
sight
and recently we've been talking about
marriage, children, buying a house...
Its really weird for me since until we got
together I was quite different... Didnt
have any plans about wanting children or
getting married, but while we've been
together i've really grown into myself and
have now realized that I want to be
married and have children by the time I am
30 (i'm almost 20 now)
am I just infactuated with him? Or is it
real? I really want it to be real but
can you have such strong feelings for each
other after only 4 months?
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 01-08-05 23:40pm
I had the same feelings as you. I am
sorry but I don't think it is real. Wait
a while and get to know him a little
better then you can make a good desicion.
My ex and I had made plans like that and
they turned out horrible. I am now 14
weeks pregnant and he left me and is now
doing someone else. Just be careful about
what you are getting yourself into.
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 01-29-05 19:08pm
Lilgoth - i'm glad you're asking these
questions now. Yes, it's infatuation..
But that's not a bad thing. It's normal
and healthy.
Give it time and don't get ahead of
yourself. If you're going to have
children, then by all means... But not
something to put on the table until you've
been together longer, with a stable
relationship (preferably marriage), and
both financially stable.
Sftbllchika - i'm sorry to hear that... I
find it annoying how many guys are like
that. I've dated a number of girls that
are in, or were in your position. Lots
of single moms out there, and a lot of
them are awesome girls too... Just don't
get taken seriously in the dating scene
once a child is involved. Some guys get
scared, and run away. Good luck to
you..
