Hi my name is kelsey and I am 14 yrs old
and I weigh 135 and I am sooo digusted
with my self I hate me. I have been
bulimic for a while and I just dont no
what to do any more. I just have to
loose more weight inoder to be happy with
my self. Im so pathetic I have done this
to my self since I was in the 7th grade
now im in the 9th and im so sick of those
skinny skinny girls I just want to be one
of those skinny girls. And I a m spanish
so I have those thick theighs and butt and
I hate it cause they make me look fat and
I have a small waist so even though that
is small I still have to buy a bigger size
:cry: I am lie a size 7/8 and I want to
be a 3/4 so I have a looooonngg way to go
id rather die than look like what I do!!
:cry: I justr want a way to be healthy
again does any onbe have any ideas I would
love it if you would respond!!
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Nikia
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2003 Posts: 74 Location: Wisconsin
First Off You Aren't Really Fat Posted: 02-01-05 21:06pm
You just think that you are. When I
weighed this much at your age, I thought
that I was fat too. You aren't
underweight though either so it would be
safe to loseweight as long as you did it
in a healthy way. Being bulimic is not
healthy. It probably isn't helping you
lose weight either because your body is
confused. Stop throwing up and start
exercising and eating a balanced diet.
When I started running in high school, I
got down to 115 by the end of the first
season and had no problem staying there as
long as I kept running. The other thing
is that you might not be truly happy with
your body when you lose weight either.
For example, I lost a lot of weight
recently and am back down to my running
weight and think that I look awful. My
waist did not lose much weight and there
is no fat on my hips or thighs making me
look straight up and down instead of curvy
when I was heavier.
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 02-09-05 20:47pm
Latina girl with a thick bum and thighs.
Wait until you're 18 and guys will be
tripping over each other to talk to you.
Believe me.
However, 135lb isn't fat at all... Not
even close.
In the end, all that matters is if you're
happy, and apparently you're not. So go
see a your local dietician and find out a
good plan for you to lose weight. By the
way, your metabolism will raise and you'll
burn more calories / lose more weight if
you eat tiny meals throughout the day...
Bullemic just makes things worse. :)
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hurt28
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Dec 2004 Posts: 49 Location: lowell
Hey Posted: 02-10-05 16:11pm
Hey what u said made me laugh lol.....Wel
lately I have been happy and im kinda
loving it so I think I just have stop for
real and I i hvent really felt like I
wanna thow up...And im not over eating
yah......So I think I am finally cured:)
well I really cant type now soo I say more
later ok bye
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Miami2211
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 13 Location: AL
I Fatt Posted: 03-31-05 21:15pm
I was wondering will I gain weight. I
have stoped eatign for two days nad
decided to eat some roman noodles. Do you
think I will gian weight
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hurt28
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Dec 2004 Posts: 49 Location: lowell
Re: I Fatt Posted: 04-05-05 17:22pm
Hey im sry I tried to go on the site but
it wasent working:( any way umm it depends
ob how much of the noddles u eat that has
alot of carb hun I would eat sumthing less
carbs/calories!!!!
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Moojie Koo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 20 Location: Western Australia
Fat! Posted: 04-06-05 00:10am
By not eating for two days then eating
noodles does not sound very healthy at
all. The only way to loose weight then
maintain a healthy weight is to eat small
but reagular meals thru out the day.
Starving yourself will only make you end
up eating more later! Cutting out carbs
in the afternoon, eating lots of fruit and
vegies and lean meat and incorporating
some regular exercise is the easiest way
to go. You will not only start dropping
the kilos, you will be healthy on the
inside. Throwing up not only puffs your
face up, it also is terrible for your
teeth and makes you feel exhausted and
discusted in yourself. If you are healthy
on the inside you will glow on the
outside. Trust me, been there and done
all of it! You can do it!
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kim12
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Apr 2005 Posts: 14 Location: sf, ca
Hey Posted: 04-06-05 01:53am
I'm 20. When I was your age..I did not
have bulimia but I was very self cautious
about my weight. I tried going on
without eating as long as I could last.
There were days where I only ate crackers.
It was especially bad before my proms.
I know what it feels like when your sick
en tired of seeing a bunch of skinny
skiiny girls..But the things is that too
many girls who obssess over the issue of
being "fat" are not even fat!!!! Don't
compare yourself to anyone out there.
You are yourself...And that's your
identity..Why try to mimic or be like
another?
Bulimia is serious.. I mean throwing up
may get rid of the stuff in your tummy,
but it has many side effects if it
continues on and on. You need nutrients
from healthy foods and the acid that you
are throwing up are no good for your
digestive system..Nor your teeth!!!!!
I just saw something on tv on bulimia. A
girl had a heart attack from lack of
potassium. Luckily, she survived, but
she had signs of osteoperosis, and was
told her teeth would fall out at still a
young age. (lack of calcuim.)
eat healthy and excercise. Its the best
way to go! Always!
