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pups
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I Am Scarred And Worried
Posted: 01-04-05 21:48pm
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Hi! My name is samantha and I am 19 years
old. I am writing to anyone who who
listen and hopefully be able to give me
some advice. I believe I may be pregant
and it scares me very much. I should not
get my period for like 5 more days though
I just feel very werid and hae a stong
feeling I am pregnant. These are my
symtoms...Boops hurt, horrible lower back
pasin, cramps, and heaachs. As I write
this I must tell u I never get any form of
pms also I am on the patch, though we all
know it is never 100%. I am going to the
doctor on friday though the thoughts going
though my head are driving me nuts, do you
think it is a real possibility or just in
my head. I would love for someone to
respond and maybe that can help to calm my
nerves. Thank you so much in advance hope
to talk to someone soon!!
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:06pm
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Aw its ok hunnie. You will know soon
enough...And whether or not you are
pregnant or not, you will always get
support here from us. You will be
ok....When was the last time you had
unprotected sex?
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Heres the Deal
Posted: 01-04-05 22:10pm
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I know this sounds unsual but I am highly
allergic to latex, so me and my bf never
use condoms. Though I can say befor we
ever did anything we got tested togeather
and are both clean. So after going on the
patch we figured all was ok. I have never
had a scare like this befor. Last month I
got my period though it was really really
light almost like spoting. Though I never
really thought anything of it till this
past week when I started to feel so sick
all the time.
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:16pm
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Hmmm...Well it looks like unfortunately
you are going to have to play the waiting
game and wait for your period to come! If
it doesnt, then test away and let us know
what the results are!
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pups
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:25pm
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Thanks so much for talking to me its men
more then words can explain I feel so
alone and scared right now. I just dont
want to tell or worry my bf even though I
have a feeling he is thinking it due to he
keeps joking that im acting pregnant(all
the symtoms) and that fact that he insists
on going to the doctor with my friday(even
though he knows I dont want him to).
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sarahsweet
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Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:28pm
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Well thats what we are here for! You are
never alone hunnie. At least he is being
supportive you know?? Thats a good thing!
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:32pm
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I know it should be a really good thing,
but I feel that if I am I would want to
find out on my own first. I just dont
know how I will handle the news so I
rather know so I can think for a bit befor
telling him and seeing how he reacts.
Though if we are both there and I am then
we will find out togeather. Was your bf
with you when u found out??
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
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Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:36pm
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Aw, I understand sweetie. No.....I took
it while I was at work, and I really didnt
completely think I was pregnant...And
boom, I was. So I went home right away
and showed it to him, I didnt have much
time to think even before I told him, I
just had to tell him! And he reacted
fine. He just smiled and told me
everything was going to be ok, adn that we
would get through this.
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:39pm
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Aww that really sweet. I hope that my bf
would have the same reation. I really do
live him so much and we do one day want to
have children togeather. We want to get
marreid we want to have it all. We are so
pathitic have our whole lives planeed
togeather just I didnt expect to face this
for many more years. We both wanted to go
though college first. I am such a worry
wort and I dont even know yet...
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:39pm
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Aww that really sweet. I hope that my bf
would have the same!reation. I really do
live him so much and we do one day want to
have children togeather. We want to get
marreid we want to have it all. We are so
pathitic have our whole lives planeed
togeather just I didnt expect to face this
for many more years. We both wanted to go
though college first. I am such a worry
wort and I dont even know yet...
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:40pm
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Sorry I sent that twice by accident
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Krista Kai
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2004
Posts: 380
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:42pm
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Samantha I know hmw you feel. At least
you'll know one way or the other friday.
I know that doesn't make you feel any
better right now, but at least you won't
have to wait much longer - like about 60
hours. No matter what, this is a great
board and the people here are really good.
Good luck to you!
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sarahsweet
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Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:45pm
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| pups
wrote: | | aww that really sweet. I
hope that my bf would have the same
reation. I really do live him so much
and we do one day want to have children
togeather. We want to get marreid we
want to have it all. We are so pathitic
have our whole lives planeed togeather
just I didnt expect to face this for many
more years. We both wanted to go though
college first. I am such a worry wort
and I dont even know
yet... |
i know how you feel! I wasnt planning on
this for quite a while myself! I wanted
to finish college..Get a teaching job, and
be well off before I got pregnant, but you
know what? We get suprises everyday, and
either way, you will be fine dear.
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:46pm
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Thanks so much you made me feel alot
better. Best of luck to you and your
baby!!
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:47pm
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O that was more that one person talking
sorry best of luck to both of you!! I am
going to school right now to be a
teacher!!
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Krista Kai
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2004
Posts: 380
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:51pm
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A teacher? Cool, that's what i'd like to
be some day too. I love kids and i'd
love to be an elementary school teacher.
What kind of teacher are you studying to
be?
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:54pm
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I want to teach disabled babies(the ealier
there education starts the better for
them). Like down syndrome and autistic.
So many people in the world treat them so
horrible. I hate anyone who treats them
bad should be ashamed of themselfs. They
are people too just have a harder time
learning thats all.
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Krista Kai
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2004
Posts: 380
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 01-04-05 22:58pm
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Wow, i've really gotta admire you for
that!! Good luck with it!
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pups
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-04-05 23:00pm
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Thanks!! I am sure you will make a great
teacher some day. And I am sure you will
treat you baby so mny wonderful things
when he/she is born!!
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Krista Kai
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 380
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 01-04-05 23:01pm
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Aww, thanks! :) all you can do is try,
and i'm gonna try my best.
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