Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Kemptville Ontario
I Got Pregnant And Didn't Tell the Father Posted: 01-06-05 09:49am
In the summer I decided to have casual sex
with a hot guy that lives at the campsite
that I camp at, he was the first person
and the only person that I have had sex
with, well I got pregnant and when I was
almost 3 months pregnant I miscarried, and
I didn't the father of my baby that I was
even pregnant until about a month after I
miscarried, now he is very angry with me
because he said that I lied to him, things
will never be the same between us ever
again, and I am heartbroken because I am
madly in love with him......
Please I need the support I never got
jelissa
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cor unum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 01-18-05 05:29am
Jessica,
i'm sorry but I tend to side with your
male companion. You should have told him.
It is not the sole responsibility of the
woman to deal with pregnancy; it takes
two. What if you carried the child?
Think about it for awhile. Why did you
hide it from him? To me it sounds like he
would have been responsible for what you
and he did.
In short, if you love him be honest with
him especially about something that life
changing. You have a lot of talking with
him to remedy this, so good luck. In the
future make sure to use he pill, a condom
and spermicide (you can buy condoms laced
with it or separately).
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Jelissa McCullough
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Kemptville Ontario
Posted: 01-18-05 12:25pm
I know you are right I should have told
him, if I did carry the baby I would have
definitly told him but I got scared
because I found out that he has a
girlfriend. I know he would have taken
the responsibility because he is
responsible but he lives 40 minutes away
from me so I figured it wouldn't change
anything if I did tell him, but I guess I
was wrong, it was just all to hard for me
to deal with, it's pretty scary being 16
and pregnant.
Thankx for your advice
