Ok evan and I really want his daugther to
be up at the hospital when the baby is
born so that she can see her right away.
I don't want her in the room during labor
and delivery because I don't want to scare
her, but I really would like her there
like right after. The problem is that I
feel I should help talk to evan's ex-wife,
because this is after all my labor and I
don't want her to feel like I am trying to
take her daughter away. However evan
thinks this is a bad idea and just wants
to talk to her by himself, am I pushing?
Should I just let him handle his ex-wife
and should I just back off and stay out of
this?
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 01-06-05 19:30pm
Eh, I understand where your coming from.
But if I was her, I would feel a little
weird about you talking to me. I dont
know what kind of person she is, but im
really jealous. And its apperant they
arent together anymore, but she might feel
obligated and or uneasy. I would be more
understanding if only he came to me.
Actually, I would be pissed if his new
girl came to me, I would feel like I was
being attacked or they were rubbing it in
my face. I dont think she would think
your trying to take away her daughter or
anything though. I dont know, he knows
her best, so I think you should respect
his request.
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a2ck418
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2004 Posts: 146
Posted: 01-06-05 19:55pm
Ugh, I know you are both right, its just
sooo aggrivating you know? I want to be
mature about this and sit down with her,
but I know she is livid with me still
about the whole situation. I guess I need
to grow up and listen to evan about this
though huh? Lol
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untraceablekiss
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 32 Location: Austin, TX
Posted: 01-06-05 20:46pm
Stay out. You are asking for drama if
you butt in. Let him deal with it.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 01-07-05 13:32pm
Yeah just let him handle it, I know if
someone came to me about my daughter, I
would not be a happy camper. Im sure he
can take care of this one on his own, if
she donest want to-then maybe you can try
talking to her
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Lilmommyof4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2004 Posts: 45
Posted: 01-07-05 13:54pm
Just let him handle it. Everything
should be fine!
