|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Arggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 01-07-05 17:03pm
|
|
|
|
Major vent,im so annoyed right now. My
b/f was ment to c me tonite, but I havent
been able to contact him for the past two
hrs.He goes to bed at lyke ten and its ten
now. I ring his mob but it just rings and
rings, he done this the other night, but
his excuse was he didnt have any credit.
Im starting so not to trust him. I was so
worried the other day that some thing had
happened to him. But the last text I got
from him was saying he was going out wth
out me tommorow and staying round one of
his gurl friends houses. I cant believe
he would do this. But I can now
understand how trust goes out the window
so fast its really made me think.
P.S
aaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
pps . Sorry gals
|
|
|
|
|
 |
|
Krista Kai
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2004
Posts: 380
Location: Virginia
|
Posted: 01-07-05 17:14pm
|
|
|
|
|
Aww, klo, it totally sux he's doing you
like that. When you think about it the
weird thing about trust is how easy we
give it and how easy we trust people but
how hard it is to ever get back once its
broken. If you totally trust someone and
then they do you wrong, no matter how much
you wanna trust them and no matter how
good they are after that there's always a
little voice in the back of your brain
wondering if they're gonna do it again.
I guess we really wanna trust people so
bad sometimes we give them too much trust
too soon and then get hurt when they break
it.
I hope everything works out for you.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
|
Posted: 01-07-05 17:49pm
|
|
|
|
|
I trust no one. Not even my husband.
They say you cant have a relationship
without trust, but I beg to differ. My
relationship is just fine lol. Besides
jose has no room to try to cheat. I have
him on a very very short leash. You need
to take control and not let the guy have
his way with everything. Let him know
your mad and your not gonna put up with
it. Thats what I would do
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-07-05 17:51pm
|
|
|
|
|
Thanku so much,i have finlly heard frm
him. Givin me some excuse sayin I must
have not got his texts. I just feel so
low right now. I no exactly what u mean
bout the trust thing.. But then he's
never cheated on me. The thought of
commitment sceares him though so not sure
what to think right now..
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
|
Posted: 01-07-05 17:54pm
|
|
|
|
|
So hes not committed to you? How exactly
does it scare him? You shouldnt feel low,
you should make him feel low for making up
excuses. What u need to do is question
him and then re-phrase your question to
confuse him so that way you can catch him.
Cheer up, most guys are just dumb.
You should say something like
"so you didnt get my texts? How could you
not hear your phone ring? Why didnt you
answer? What were you doing? Let me
check your phone then."
things like that. Dont let him get off
the hook easily
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-08-05 06:17am
|
|
|
|
|
Belive me ive tried..He said his mob was
on silet and he was watching a film
texting from another mobile. But im so
dont belive that. I text him loads last
night sayin so is this worth it, I no you
dont care about me as much as you usedto
or you would have just been around herer-
no questions!. But he hasnt text back and
he's at work now. Guess I wont c him for
ages. Oh.Ill get over it I suppose, men r
dumb! Hehe, thanks gals for cheering me
up a lil. :cry:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-08-05 06:20am
|
|
|
|
|
| ~*klo*~
wrote: | | belive me ive tried..He said
his mob was on silet and he was watching a
film texting from another mobile. But im
so dont belive that. I text him loads
last night sayin so is this worth it, I no
you dont care about me as much as you
usedto or you would have just been around
herer- no questions!. But he hasnt text
back and he's at work now. Guess I wont
c him for ages. Oh.Ill get over it I
suppose, men r dumb! Hehe, thanks gals
for cheering me up a lil.
:cry: |
oh and the commitment thing, well he just
hates talking about the future, and says
even moving in with each other is sceary.
He wont even think bout that sort of
thing, he doesnt want to get married till
he's 27,engaged at 26. So really I dunno
wat im doing here.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
|
Posted: 01-08-05 09:44am
|
|
|
|
|
Here is what you are doing here. You are
hanging out with a loser coward. Time to
tell him to grow up or get out.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-08-05 15:00pm
|
|
|
|
|
Maybe ur right, he's out now clubbing wth
other people, didnt invite me. So yeah
maybe I should some thing about this.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-08-05 15:25pm
|
|
|
|
|
I had a bit to much to drink,i text him
saying so you wanna just be friends? He
said is that wat I want or what I think he
wants? And maybe we need to talk, should
meet up tommoz or monday.
Im thinking how can he be so calm if he
does care?! It doesnt add up, last time
he wanted to talk we made up but no
answers met, he cant talk person to
person. I feel so stupid for even leeting
him into my life, and so stupid for
putting up with this. Am I one of those
girls that put up with rubbish? Please
tell me what you think?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-08-05 15:57pm
|
|
|
|
|
He text me sayin we should just be mates.
He dont see the point in apoligising. So
thats it guys.. The end of me and and
ttc.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
laura_girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004
Posts: 173
Location: Montreal, Quebec
|
Posted: 01-08-05 16:11pm
|
|
|
|
|
I'm very sorry to hear that. Have a good
cry and call your girls over for a
chocolatefest. Hopefully soon you will
meet someone who will treat you properly
and be a wonderful father for your child
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-08-05 16:42pm
|
|
|
|
|
Thanks, ive done the calling. I just cant
c me with any1 else. But got to be
positive I suppose.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004
Posts: 618
Location: Arizona
|
Posted: 01-08-05 21:02pm
|
|
|
|
|
Its weird how guys think. Thats how it
was with me and my bf before we hit our 6
month mark. We were together, but didnt
really care what eachother was doing.
Sometimes he would say he would call, but
wouldent, and I would just be worried
(what if he got in a accident, arrested,
or in a fight) but he thought I was being
nosey. Then I would do it to him (not
intentionally) and he would get all
worried, but when we would talk, he would
yell at me. I stopped worrying, and then
he asks me "why dont you care?" im like
uuughhhh. Either way I do, its wrong.
Well, that was a long time ago. The more
you hold on, the closer youll get. Weve
been together 4 years in april, and we
would never even think of going out
without eachother. If hes worth it, just
hang on, things will get better. But if
hes not, then let him go now, before
things get worse and youll get hurt more.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
Posts: 353
Location: eng
|
Posted: 01-09-05 05:53am
|
|
|
|
|
Thanks that made alot of sense..I managed
to get a few words from him last night.
He finally text me at 3 am, saying he
missed me and we should just have a break,
but by this point I was just fed up. Now
ive kind of figurerd out what it is..
Mainly time. He doesnt have,. I would
like to c him more but not visa versa! So
dunno yet..
|
|
|
|
|
