I Just Want to Crawl Into a Hole, Please Help Posted: 01-07-05 23:36pm
Hey, well I am 16 year old and I have very
bad anxiety. Ive had it scince I was 6
and it began after my uncle molested me.
I just dropped out of high school about a
month ago. My dad said I can but I have
to get a job. I figured a job has to be
better than school, you get paid. Well,
I start monday and this is my first job
and I am so scared I dont know what to do.
Everytime I try diffrent meds. They
either make me depressed or I cant sleep.
I dont know what to do. Please help or
leave a comment, anything. Thanks!
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zeta1212
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: usa
I Just Want to Crawl Into a Hole, Please Help Posted: 01-11-05 13:06pm
I think you should go back to school ,
quiting school is going to give you more
anxiety in the long run , because when it
becomes time to take care of yourself you
might not be able to get a good enough job
without a diploma . The real world of
working is not easier then school , and
many people are not acknowledged for doing
a good job.. That is probably why you
are still scared . Don't rush growing up
, go back to school and when you graduate
you will feel good that you completed
something on your own . You obviously
need help with your past , if you havent
spoken to someone then maybe you should .
We all need a shoulder to cry on and a
teenager can not handle it on their own .
Your first step is asking for help , and
you did that , kudos to you . Be a
teenager as long as you can .. And get
help.. More people then you know get it
and if they don;t they need it
Last edited by zeta1212 on 01-11-05 15:16pm; edited 1 time in total
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san54
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2003 Posts: 227 Location: Virginia
I Just Want to Crawl Into a Hole Posted: 01-11-05 16:19pm
Please go back to school and get some
counseling. You are just a teenager and
stress and anxiety go with it. Couseling
can take years especially with what
happened to you. In order to get
somewhere today you need an education.
Please don't stop. I will be thinking of
you. :wink:
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XLyingWispersX
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: NJ
... Posted: 01-12-05 00:27am
Hey, I just wanted to say that I am
gitting my ged and I have not gotten
counceling for what happened to me...My
family didnt even get him locked up. They
did nothing about it...I still have to see
him at holiday and stuff to. Its very
hard for me...And if I do go to
councling..And tell them they will send
him to jail and my family will be
ruined...I dont even know what to do
anymore.
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zeta1212
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: usa
I Just Want to Crawl In a Hole Posted: 01-18-05 08:36am
Put him in jail , thats where any man that
can do that to any woman or girl should
be. Your worried about breaking up the
family ? Any parent that lets someone get
away with doing that to there daughter
should be put away with the the guy who
did it . This is your life, if this man
truely did something to you then give him
what he deserves . Put him away before he
hurts another innocent person.
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zeta1212
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: usa
I Just Want to Crawl In a Hole Posted: 01-18-05 08:37am
Put him in jail , thats where any man that
can do that to any woman or girl should
be. Your worried about breaking up the
family ? Any parent that lets someone get
away with doing that to there daughter
should be put away with the the guy who
did it . This is your life, if this man
truely did something to you then give him
what he deserves . Put him away before he
hurts another innocent person.
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cham_1967
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Perth Western Australia
Counselling Option Posted: 01-26-05 02:16am
Hi,
i know by the sounds of it you have been
given many medications to try but have you
thought of getting into a counselling
group, you would be suprised that you
arent the only person with these anxieties
although they are very valid responses to
what happened to you.
I dont think it will matter whether you
are at school or at work your anxiety
levels are based on what I believe is your
inability to trust people based on someone
who should have been able to be trusted
betraying you like that.
Your faith in human nature and your own
judgement has been shattered, the grieving
process at losing that part of yourself at
the moment that the abuse happened may not
quite be over for you.
I really believe you should look into
getting into some counselling to talk to
someone who most times has been through
what you hav been through.
Hugs
lis
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robotman21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 17
Screw Regular High School - Alternative Charter School? Posted: 01-27-05 05:58am
Look, regular high school is one of the
most vicious places for a person with
anxiety. Horrible horrible enivoronment.
I don't blame you for wanting to leave.
I also get a sense that are one of the
"enlightened" ones who realize that
everything you're doing in high school is
actually pointless; and indeed you are
correct. It is pointless....
I think you want to get the high school
degree however, that's one thing that'll
help you out in the long run... A lot of
people can get by in the entreprenuerial
world, or career world with a high school
degree; very few succeed without the bare
minimum.
There are charter schools, alternative
schools available which I would look into
if at all possible. Otherwise, I suppose
as horrific as it may be roughing out
traditional high school might be worth it.
You already have spent so many years to
get to where you are.
