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bd1012
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Surrogates
Posted: 01-08-05 15:52pm
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Ok.. I want to know how many of you
prolife people have been surrogates?
Please.. No answers from prochoicers
until every prolifer on here has
answered..
Also if you have not been a
surrogate..Will you in the future?
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-09-05 00:03am
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I've been gone for 6 hours and not a
single reply to this post? A simple yes
or no would suffice.. Sheesh.
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FISHX
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Posted: 01-09-05 11:32am
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What if you do,nt yet know whether you are
pro choice or pro life can we still
answer?
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-09-05 11:39am
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I guess. I mostly want people who lean
on the prolife side.
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FISHX
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Posted: 01-09-05 11:54am
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| bd1012
wrote: | | i guess. I mostly want
people who lean on the prolife
side. |
ok no problem I can wait till you have
more response if you would prefer.
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-09-05 12:01pm
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Well since none of them answered this
thread I am assuming that no.. They have
and never will be a surrogate. I know
they have read this post because they have
posted in other ones. Until you guys
answer.. I am assuming the answer is no.
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FISHX
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Posted: 01-09-05 12:11pm
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Surrogacey is something I have thought
about but unfortunatly I realise that I am
to selfish as I do,nt think that I could
carry a fetus/ baby for 40 weeks and not
get attatched to it . So sadly I had to
decide against it as it would not be in
the slightest bit fair to the couple
involved.I hope this starts the comments
coming in for you bd. It really would be
good to hear the views of both pro lifers
and pro choice . Sorry if it is,nt what
you wanted bd but there you have it i,m
just to selfish.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-10-05 10:20am
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No I have never been a surrogate and don't
plan on being one. I too would get too
attached to the child growng inside of me.
What does this have to do with
abortion??
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-10-05 11:42am
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You mean you wouldn't bless a poor
infertile couple with a child because you
would get too attached? How selfish of
you! If you think that you would get too
attached to adopt it out then what about
the woman who you want to force to reman
pregnant? What if they become too
attached after a while and can't give it
up but at the same time.. In no way can
afford it or aren't mentally stable for a
child? And if you're going to say "well
they shoudn't of had sex".. Then fine..
People make mistakes.. I personally don't
consider sex a mistake but i'll play your
game.. People do give into temptation and
they make mistakes.. A born child
shouldn't have to suffer for it! And
no.. It does not suffer during abortion
because it doesn't know a thing and if it
does.. It is over pretty quickly though I
doubt it feels or understands what's going
on.
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FISHX
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Posted: 01-10-05 11:44am
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| bd1012
wrote: | | you mean you wouldn't bless
a poor infertile couple with a child
because you would get too attached? How
selfish of you! If you think that you
would get too attached to adopt it out
then what about the woman who you want to
force to reman pregnant? What if they
become too attached after a while and
can't give it up but at the same time..
In no way can afford it or aren't mentally
stable for a child? And if you're going
to say "well they shoudn't of had sex"..
Then fine.. People make mistakes.. I
personally don't consider sex a mistake
but i'll play your game.. People do give
into temptation and they make mistakes..
A born child shouldn't have to suffer for
it! And no.. It does not suffer
during abortion because it doesn't know a
thing and if it does.. It is over pretty
quickly though I doubt it feels or
understands what's going
on. |
hey I never said I was pro life or pro
choice and I admit that I am to selfish
giz a break.
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-10-05 11:45am
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I was responding to the other people..
Not you :wink:
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FISHX
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Posted: 01-10-05 11:46am
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-10-05 11:58am
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Lolololololol--bd you just always make my
day with your antics.... It's not being
selfish....It's called love. Maybe one
of these "kids" who don't want to be
burdened with a child could be a surrogate
for these couples.
Maybe if my sister couldn't have kids
(which she can since I have a niece and
nephew) I would but.....
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-10-05 12:08pm
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It's selfish.. All you are caring about
is your self in this issue.. Don't you
understand? Woman are supposed to be
breeders and then breed for others who
can't! If you can't handle being a
surrogate..What makes you think others
can.. The same thing that you can't
handle is what you're expecting other
people to do like it's nothing. Btw.. I
was being sarcastic about the "woman are
breeders" thing :wink:
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-10-05 12:14pm
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It;s very hard being a surogate i'm sure.
That's why I would never be one for a
omplete set of strangers. Like I said
maybe if it was a relative or something or
maybe if I did not want any children of my
own.
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bd1012
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Posted: 01-10-05 12:18pm
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Well neither do people who experience
unwanted pregnancies becuase the only
difference between surrogacy and those who
experience unwanted pregnancies is that
surrogacy is on purpose and to a
predesignated couple.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-10-05 13:06pm
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| bd1012
wrote: | | well neither do people who
experience unwanted pregnancies becuase
the only difference between surrogacy and
those who experience unwanted pregnancies
is that surrogacy is on purpose and to a
predesignated
couple. |
hunh????????? I think there is a huge
difference between wanting to create a
life and wanting to take the chance for
one away.
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steen
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Posted: 01-10-05 13:15pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | bd1012
wrote: | | well neither do people who
experience unwanted pregnancies becuase
the only difference between surrogacy and
those who experience unwanted pregnancies
is that surrogacy is on purpose and to a
predesignated
couple. |
hunh????????? I think there is a huge
difference between wanting to create a
life and wanting to take the chance for
one away. |
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-10-05 13:51pm
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Nothing is an easy decision. But what
does adoption have to do with "taking a
life" I said "i think there is a huge
difference between wanting to create a
life and wanting to take the chance for
one away."
i wonder what ms. Rosie would think. I
read her bio off her personal site and it
said she had been adopted. I wonder if
she would have rather been aborted.....
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meagainstthewotld
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Posted: 01-10-05 13:53pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | nothing is an easy decision.
But what does adoption have to do with
"taking a life" I said "i think there is
a huge difference between wanting to
create a life and wanting to take the
chance for one away."
i wonder what ms. Rosie would think.
I read her bio off her personal site and
it said she had been adopted. I wonder
if she would have rather been
aborted..... |
sorry lil blaze got to call you on that it
was out of order getting so personal the
same question can be asked of us all how
would we feel if we were aborted,to be
honest we wouldnt feel anything.
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