I am 21 years old and just found out I was
preg by 3 home test are they right? Me
and my boyfriend aren't married yet but we
have been with each other for 3 years im
so scared my dad is going to kill me .
All I do is cry this is a first time thing
for me and I don't know when to tell my
parents im guessing im 6-8 weeks preg.
What should I do??
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
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Posted: 01-08-05 19:06pm
Hi there! Congratulations! Have you
told your boyfriend? Go get a blood test
from the Dr. To find out for sure
a.S.A.P. So you can get started on on
pre-natal vit. And care. Why would your
dad kill you, you are 21 y/o, he might be
happy for you, I do realize that you will
always be his little girl but now you will
be giving him his grandchild, someone to
really spoil rotten. Are you crying
tears of joy or just in shock or just
maternal tears.
The best to you and yours!
Sandy
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esteeg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004 Posts: 106
Posted: 01-08-05 19:21pm
Hi there,
i am 20 and got pregnant also. Do you
still live at home? How is your
relationship with your dad? My dad and I
never really got along, that's why I moved
out from home when I was 15. I moved to
cali a couple of years later and met my bf
here. After two years we got married (not
only immigration puropses) and I got
pregnant in our wedding night... I
thought that my dad will never talk to me
again - he hated me for getting married -
but when I told him, that I was pregnant,
he went and got a bottle of wine to
celebrate with my mom! He is actually
really happy and is looking forward to the
baby! He'll even fly out to the us in
summer to come see us and say hi to the
baby! I never thought that my dad would
be so cool with it, he really surprised me
and the whole rest of the family! Is your
family really religious? My husband's
family is, that's why it was good that we
got married, but if that is not big of a
deal in your family then it should not be
a problem... Why do you think your dad
would kill you?
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sky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 411 Location: oklahoma
Re: Please Hellp Preg Posted: 01-08-05 20:46pm
callie8323
wrote:
i am 21 years old and just
found out I was preg by 3 home test are
they right? Me and my boyfriend aren't
married yet but we have been with each
other for 3 years im so scared my dad is
going to kill me . All I do is cry this
is a first time thing for me and I don't
know when to tell my parents im guessing
im 6-8 weeks preg. What should I
do??
are you and your bf happy? Thats really
what matters. I was 18 when I got preg.
I was in oklahoma, and called my dad in
cali., he cried, then hung up and called
back after he calmed down. I think he
realized I was an adult, already married
and its what I wanted. He came around and
now he hates that hes so far away and
doesnt get to see my kids enough. Im sure
if he knows this is what you want then he
will be happy 4 you. Good luck and
congrats!!
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 01-09-05 04:23am
Why would you parents be upset your an
adult in a steady relationship?
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milie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 12 Location: salt lake utah
Posted: 01-11-05 00:51am
Congrats and dont worry your parents will
understand your baby is a great blessing.
I am 19 and I wish I was pregnant, I ve
been trying but nothing yet you are very
lucky!!!
