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kittykatt218
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2005
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Location: Mount Vernon, Wa
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Help!!!
Posted: 01-09-05 23:40pm
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Hi!
I'm 17 and i'm pretty sure i'm pregnant.
I had a period on time, but it was really
light and only lasted 3 days. I've gained
6lbs., my breasts are really sore and
getting hard, i've been eating alot of
fish lately and I usually hate fish and
i've been almost rediculosly moody. Does
that sound to anyone else like i'm
pregnant? This, however, is not even the
begining of my worries. My parents hate
my boyfriend to the point where they put a
restraining order on us and there's
nothing I can do because i'm a minor until
the 19th of may. My mom told me that if I
ever got pregnant she wouldn't support it,
she wouldn't pay for it and she wouldn't
love it in any way. I have no idea what
to do and i'm scared to death. My
boyfriend is being really supportive and
thinks we should run away together until
after I turn 18 so that then we can't get
in trouble for being together, we can get
married (which we planned to do before we
knew) and my parents won't try to make me
do something I don't want to do. What
should I do??
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sky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004
Posts: 411
Location: oklahoma
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Posted: 01-10-05 00:15am
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It sounds like you could be pregnant, I
would go get a blood test from your local
free clinic or take an hpt just to make
sure. Its great that your bf is
supportive, and it sounds like you want to
have this baby, and thats great! As far
as your parents go I dont think they would
be able to make you have an abortion or
anything, and your due date will be after
you turn 18 so youre an adult!! If your
bf is over 18 im not sure if your parents
can press charges or not, as long as it
was consentual I dont think so. As far as
your mom it will be her loss, but im sure
she will come around, no one can resist a
baby especially their own grandchild. I
hope everything works out for you
congratulations and good luck!!
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sky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004
Posts: 411
Location: oklahoma
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Posted: 01-10-05 00:31am
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Okay ya thats weird I read the one in teen
pregnancy too!! Now im confused. :?
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Max_Mummy too be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2004
Posts: 238
Location: Hampshire- England
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Posted: 01-10-05 10:25am
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If your 5 weeks now, you will be 5 months
pregnant when you turn 18 (i think, im
not that great at math) I would not
suggest running away until your 18,
because its just not a great idea when
your pregnant.
Hope it works out.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 01-10-05 15:26pm
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Hun if you are pregnant stop eating fish
please!
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Re: Help!!!
Posted: 01-10-05 17:34pm
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| kittykatt218
wrote: | hi!
I'm 17 and i'm pretty sure i'm pregnant.
I had a period on time, but it was really
light and only lasted 3 days. I've
gained 6lbs., my breasts are really sore
and getting hard, i've been eating alot of
fish lately and I usually hate fish and
i've been almost rediculosly
moody. |
this could be from many
different things. I would suggest
taking a test to figure this out. But
for one, stop eating fish. They are
high in mercury which can harm the embryo
and fetus. Secondly, I hope you are
talking your folate.
| Quote: | | my parents hate
my boyfriend to the point where they put a
restraining order on us and there's
nothing I can do because i'm a minor until
the 19th of may. My mom told me that if
I ever got pregnant she wouldn't support
it, she wouldn't pay for it and she
wouldn't love it in any
way. |
have you talked with them
about what will happen afterwards?
Because if they alienate you to much, then
they lose both you as a daughter and also
their future grandchildren. Are they
really that hip on imposing their will
onto your life? Perhaps you should
point that out to them?
first of all, before you
panic, get a pregnancy test. Then talk
with your parents about whether they are
so insistent on hating your boyfriend that
they are willing to lose you in the
process. If he ends up being the one
you want to marry, then they either have
to adjust to that or simply not have you
in their lives anymore. I am surprised
that they haven't figured that out yet.
Perhaps you need to remind them?
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005
Posts: 433
Location: Houston, TX
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Posted: 01-10-05 21:24pm
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I eat fish sticks, is it bad?
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-10-05 22:01pm
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| babymama2005
wrote: | | i eat fish sticks, is it
bad? |
well, they are mostly cod
and shag, so they should be ok. No
salmon, no flounder or halibut, nothing
from a lake.
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: Houston, TX
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jessamyn
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Posted: 01-11-05 00:49am
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And no sushi I had to give it up I was
very sad
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-11-05 17:48pm
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A, yes. Nothing raw (yes, sushi is
darned good. Unfortunately, the closest
is about 150 miles away)
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-12-05 09:19am
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| steen
wrote: | | babymama2005
wrote: | | i eat fish sticks, is it
bad? |
well, they are mostly cod
and shag, so they should be ok. No
salmon, no flounder or halibut, nothing
from a lake. |
my doc told me salmon was okay in
moderation and actually good for me and
the baby because of the omega-3.
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004
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Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-12-05 11:16am
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | steen
wrote: | | babymama2005
wrote: | | i eat fish sticks, is it
bad? |
well, they are mostly cod
and shag, so they should be ok. No
salmon, no flounder or halibut, nothing
from a lake. |
my doc told me salmon was okay in
moderation and actually good for me and
the baby because of the
omega-3. |
that depends very much on
where it is from. Farmed alaska salmon
are out. Certainly, salmon from the
great lakes is completely out (even
non-pregnant people shouldn't eat those).
North-atlantic slamon are mostly ok.
For pregnant women, omega-3 is safer as
supplements, either as fishoil
capsules(these are checked for mercury) or
flaxseed oil capsules.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-12-05 11:19am
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As most cdn salmon comes from the north
atlantic I guess i'm ok. :)
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-12-05 11:29am
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | as most cdn salmon comes
from the north atlantic I guess i'm ok.
:) |
yes. Remember to read
the labels. Most salmon have their
origin listed.
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004
Posts: 225
Location: Arlington, TX
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Wow!!!!!!
Posted: 01-12-05 16:20pm
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Wow I am amazed
posted: 01-10-05 11:00am
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i know I told every one I have a problem
with haven a orgasim but I met a guy that
could and I am soo happy about it ...With
him on top no less ... And I did cum when
I was riding him he is the only guy I
wanna be with ;)
is this the same guy that got you
pregnant??????????? Or, was it the guy
that may have had hiv? :roll:
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004
Posts: 225
Location: Arlington, TX
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Help
Posted: 01-12-05 16:23pm
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By the way, who paid for your last
abortion?
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004
Posts: 225
Location: Arlington, TX
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Kitty2luv
Posted: 01-12-05 16:36pm
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Experienced user
joined: 22 oct 2004
posts: 834
location: ma crib
I have something to say
posted: 11-15-04 12:20pm
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i kno I have had a abortin and I am truly
sorry for killing my baby but it was fro
the best all I wanted since then was to
forget about it but its hard when u are
still looking for the baby's daddy 2 be
with there is a chance in hel that we will
ever speak again
if you do have $$ isnt really a excuse to
abort a baby find away there is wel-fare
wic or other programs out there make the
right decison so it dont hurt u fir the
rest of yr life
rape if u were arped im sorry but that is
a def reason to get one
how did you pay for this one?
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jessamyn
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Posted: 01-12-05 16:39pm
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Dont bring up abortion go to the abortion
forum for that!
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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004
Posts: 1528
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Posted: 01-12-05 16:54pm
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Waiiit kitty2luv is kittykat too? Jeez
will a mod check?
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