Joined: 08 Oct 2003 Posts: 54 Location: St. Louis, Mo
Need Some Support! Posted: 10-27-03 12:53pm
Hello all,
i'm back again.
here's the story. A week ago I met a guy
and over the weekend we made out, and even
though we didn't have sex things went to
far. I don't want to have sex until I
really love him, and i'm still a virgin.
I really like him though, but every time
we get together all we do is make out.
I'm going to tell him that we need to
start over, that none of the stuff ever
happened. That we need to act like we've
never even had a first kiss yet, but he's
really hard to resist. And he's so
passionate!
we even admit to each other that we're
going to fast.
Help guys! I don't want to go to far, and
I need some help to keep me strait path!
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donalles
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2003 Posts: 3 Location: pittsburgh,pa
Posted: 10-27-03 15:26pm
What do you mean act like things had never
happened? It easier said than done. I
think you should just let him know that
you have not actually had sex yet and you
value that. Just see where it goes
because if he is not the one you want to
lose your virginity to you probably should
stop leading him on by going to only
second base because sooner or later he
will be up at bat for the home run. Catch
my drift
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sarahauntie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2003 Posts: 54 Location: St. Louis, Mo
Catch My Drift? Posted: 10-27-03 19:39pm
Well, what I mean is that we go on a date
and pretend like it's our first. You
know, start with the hand holding, and a
kiss on the cheeck. We did make a rule
for no french kissing, but we kind of
broke it. I've already told him that i'm
a virgin, and he said that that was no
problem. I wasn't the only one who said
that we need to take it slower, he said so
himself. He said that he wants to get
close , that he eventually wants a
girlfriend. We just seem to have trouble
controlling ourselves, it's not just me!
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SandQueen
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2003 Posts: 5
It's Not Just You Posted: 11-07-03 21:01pm
That is what it sounds like, you seem to
like him, and not like being a virgin.
Take your time and maybe back off a little
bit... Nothing says romance like a little
mistery.
we even admit to each other that we're
going to fast.
