Why Am I Horney Alll the Time??? Help Posted: 01-12-05 00:47am
Well,
ive been with my boyfriend for a year
and 1/2 and I have never had an orgasm..I
use to fake it until I told him about a
month ago...Being I cant get off I am
horney all the time...And he gets
frustrated with me...And it upsets me.
He says just go masturbate with your
massager...But then I feel lonley...I dont
know..What should I do? Please help!
Thanks
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Why Am I Horney Alll the Time??? Help Posted: 01-12-05 16:05pm
Try having your b/f masterbate you, or
help you while you do it. He may be
interested in doing himself while you do
it, too. :wink:
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Jazzmine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 01-23-05 12:18pm
You have probably grown so used to the
feel of masturbation that partner sex is
just too different and your brain gets
confused by the different sensory feelings
and you get nervous and that shuts off
your orgasmic reflex.
This happens to men very frequently,
especially guys who masturbate alot and
are heavily into porn. The body/brain
gets to prefer masturbation over
intercourse and they either can't get, or
lose their hard-ons when having
intercourse or, in some cases they can get
hard but can't ejaculate inside the
girl.
So you have a female version of this. The
thing to do is to try with your boyfriend
to duplicate what you do when alone.
Bring the massager along next time you are
with him and show him how to use it on
you. Once you have had an orgasm with
him doing this you can then move on to
other things with more confidence.
You might even buy a "pocket rocket" a
mini battery operated vibrator which you
can use on yourself while he is inside
you.
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ShannonLynn1980
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Simi Valley, CA
Viva Cream Posted: 01-25-05 21:59pm
Try a small drop of what is called "viva
cream." it feels amazing, kind of like
menthol. It's also a lot of fun. I am
addicted to my vibrators too, so I try not
to use them more than a couple times a
month, and b.O.B. (battery operated
boyfriend) is my only partner right now!!!
Imagine how difficult that is.
Anyway, my advice is try the cream with
your partner. My guess is that you get
off clitorally rather than vaginally. If
you don't know, then you have the fun task
of playing with him until you find out.
Some women are able to get off both ways,
but from what I understan, it's pretty
rare.
At any rate, keep us all posted.
Ps
try watching porn for some new ideas. You
can either watch it together, or alone.
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