I accidently fell in love with a girl, I
met her 6 months ago, work with her and
hang out with her occasionaly, we act like
best friends towards each other...And she
has a bf, I have talked to both of them
about the relationship, its sounds like
they should break up in my
opinion...Anyways.. I feel like I should
tell her I love... But im afraid this
would ruin something or everything..I am
really afarid of the consequences.
Thoughts, feelings?
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cor unum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 01-18-05 05:13am
Well, only you know the answer to that
question my friend...But if this
relationship is going to fail then bide
your time. Don't jump the gun, they may
still work things out. I can't say if you
love her or not, but if they break up tell
her that you have always been interested
in dating her. Love is a strong word and
can scare people away if said early in a
relationship or in your case before a
romantic relationship even starts. As to
consequences, they happen whenever you
make a decision. You have consequences
when you choose not to tell her.
Consequences are good and bad.
Regardsless of which it is, you need to be
totally comfortable with those
consequences before you make an active
move. For instance she may want try a
romantic relationship or not and have a
hard time being friends with you. Then
again it may not have such a huge impact
on your friendship. You know her, I
don't. Just be prepared and accept what
could happen. Best of luck!
