How old is she? Can she handle a baby? Is she working? In school? Graduated? Will the dad stick around?

ditto

Ok yea im quick to say im not the fatehr just to make sure we all have the story straight I didnt mean for it to sound jerry springer,,, but yea her boyfriend of only like 2 months tops not even says hed be happy and he would stick around but I dont think he gets it.... Hes the father and well yea... She went to the hosptial last night and they said its too soon to tell but we pretty sure and well her parents = very religious not even joking she would be disowned by her family I cant believe it cos I myself not religios at all still dont eblieve in premarital sex thats only for myself I dont concern myself with the actions of others but her family is insanly strickt about that. Dont worry about sounding accusive if thats a word... I understand I only said that just so u know the story... All that happened was simple case of broken condom.... Ack this is no good!

Um can you answer my questions?

Jess, shes 18 (shes the one hes talking about in the post) :smiles:

Yea um sorry... Shes 18... Still in college as like a dental hygenist and I dont think shed be able to do it on her own with her boyfriend hes poor himself and only in grade seven had to drop out to work.. Sorry

Hes a seventh grader? Did I read that right? What?

Yea hges in seventh grade... Same age but he had to drop out of school for some reasons that im not entirly sure... Hes an evangelous (christian reborn) and his dads an alcholac.... So yea.. Thats the story behind that one

What the hell is an 18 year old doing with a seventh grader anyways I dont care how cruel this sounds but if she does keep that baby she needs to think realistically and give him/her up for adoption

When I was in 7 grade there was this one guy hwo was like 17 and he was in the 8 grade. I dont think he had any friends just for the simple fact that he was 17 in the 8 grade.

A 7th grader is like 12!

Yea hes the same age as the girl he had to leave school but he came back to complete his education hes actaully like a few months older

Okay then someone with only a 7th grade education how great of a role model is that?

How is he going to finish his education?? Dont they have an eage limit in high school?

after 21 they must go to adult school.

Hahaa...This has to be the most confusing topic yet!! Lol...I see what he's saying. When I was in the 8th grade there was a 17 year old in my class. I guess you can come back to school at any age under 18. At my senior high school there was a 22 year old graduate. He wasn't the smartest of the bunch but he put forth the effort...........................Dependabl e on a child's life? I dunno...All I can say is see how he acts when the parents get involved...If he stays by her side...He's a good man..If not, than adoption might be the best idea. Reguardless of his actions everyone needs to be 120 percent supportive of her and her decision.