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Q: Pregnant 18yr Old Need Help Please
asked by: s2k on January 12th, 2005
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Please I need some help here.... Ok im a guy... So obviously not pregnant... My gf is not the pregnant one either but my gfs sister is pregnant and I need to know what to tell her we are relativly close but I cant believe it! I am not the father or nething she has a bf and yea "it" suppoesdly broke and I need some help here on what to say to comfort her she is good friend and my gf is also upset please help. Thanks a billion
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jessamyn
replied on January 12th, 2005
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How old is she? Can she handle a baby? Is she working? In school? Graduated? Will the dad stick around?
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Tazzy D
replied on January 13th, 2005
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jlee77 wrote:
all you can do is be supportive. Go with her when she gets the test, give her pep talks, you and your gf (her sis) be there for her. Now are you sure there is not more to this story? You were quick to say "i'm not the father"!! I'm not accusing, just asking! Sometimes things are incinuated by what is written. :o) is she sure she is pregnant? Will her bf support her? Either way she will need her family the most. And tell her if her bf does not stick around, she can do it herself. And tell her to jump on in here. Everyone here is great, non-judgemental and willing and happy to answer all her questions, and support her as well.

Good luck you all of you. Support her!!!!



ditto
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s2k
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Wel...
Ok yea im quick to say im not the fatehr just to make sure we all have the story straight I didnt mean for it to sound jerry springer,,, but yea her boyfriend of only like 2 months tops not even says hed be happy and he would stick around but I dont think he gets it.... Hes the father and well yea... She went to the hosptial last night and they said its too soon to tell but we pretty sure and well her parents = very religious not even joking she would be disowned by her family I cant believe it cos I myself not religios at all still dont eblieve in premarital sex thats only for myself I dont concern myself with the actions of others but her family is insanly strickt about that. Dont worry about sounding accusive if thats a word... I understand I only said that just so u know the story... All that happened was simple case of broken condom.... Ack this is no good!
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jessamyn
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Um can you answer my questions?
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Nikki n Rudy
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Jess, shes 18 (shes the one hes talking about in the post) :smiles:
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s2k
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Oops
Yea um sorry... Shes 18... Still in college as like a dental hygenist and I dont think shed be able to do it on her own with her boyfriend hes poor himself and only in grade seven had to drop out to work.. Sorry
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jessamyn
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Hes a seventh grader? Did I read that right? What?
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s2k
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Yup
Yea hges in seventh grade... Same age but he had to drop out of school for some reasons that im not entirly sure... Hes an evangelous (christian reborn) and his dads an alcholac.... So yea.. Thats the story behind that one
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jessamyn
replied on January 13th, 2005
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What the hell is an 18 year old doing with a seventh grader anyways I dont care how cruel this sounds but if she does keep that baby she needs to think realistically and give him/her up for adoption
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i2cuteforhim
replied on January 13th, 2005
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When I was in 7 grade there was this one guy hwo was like 17 and he was in the 8 grade. I dont think he had any friends just for the simple fact that he was 17 in the 8 grade.
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jessamyn
replied on January 13th, 2005
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A 7th grader is like 12!
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s2k
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Yea hes the same age as the girl he had to leave school but he came back to complete his education hes actaully like a few months older
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jessamyn
replied on January 13th, 2005
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Okay then someone with only a 7th grade education how great of a role model is that?
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i2cuteforhim
replied on January 13th, 2005
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How is he going to finish his education?? Dont they have an eage limit in high school?
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on January 14th, 2005
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i2cuteforhim wrote:
how is he going to finish his education?? Dont they have an eage limit in high school?

after 21 they must go to adult school.
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unknowngirl504
replied on January 14th, 2005
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Hahaa...This has to be the most confusing topic yet!! Lol...I see what he's saying. When I was in the 8th grade there was a 17 year old in my class. I guess you can come back to school at any age under 18. At my senior high school there was a 22 year old graduate. He wasn't the smartest of the bunch but he put forth the effort...........................Dependabl e on a child's life? I dunno...All I can say is see how he acts when the parents get involved...If he stays by her side...He's a good man..If not, than adoption might be the best idea. Reguardless of his actions everyone needs to be 120 percent supportive of her and her decision.
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