Im 14 An About 90% Sure Im Pregnant... Posted: 10-27-03 20:18pm
I had sex with my boyfriend, im 14 and he
is 16, he didn't wear a condom, he said he
would "pull out", well I find out the next
day he never did an I think im pregnant, I
dont no if I should tell my boyfriend, we
have talked about it if I ever was and he
said he doesn't want me to get an abortion
he thinks there wrong, but im so younge.
And I dont no how long I have to wait to
find out an I need some questions
answered, so if anyone is kind enough to
share there thoughts, please do, I could
use any truthful help.I have so many
questions an no answers.
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 10-27-03 21:04pm
Hey sweetheart!! Calm down! First of all
im not going to judge you and tell you
should have used protection even tho you
should have but anyways too your pregnancy
well theres a big chance you could be
pregnant! When was your last period?
When is your next? Lets start out by
that....You should test a couple days
after your period has missed usually in
the mornings I here the hgc level(hormone
in pregnant woman) is much higher
then....If it comes out negative there is
still a chance you could be pregnant thats
when you will want to take another one and
if its still negative you need to go to a
doctors or a family practice center or
planned parenthood and have a blood test
to find out for sure! If you have anymore
questions please do not hesitate to pm me!
Good luck! Keep me posted!Much love and
god bless!!!
Basically everything she said is correct.
Calm down. Give it time. If you miss
your first peroid you can take a home preg
test and it should be pretty accurate.
Nothing say's you have to be preggy
though. Calm down and just take it as it
comes..... I wouldn't just yet talk to
him about it. That is just my personal
opinion though. I would wait it out a
little.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-28-03 09:45am
Wait it out..Take your time...Learn from
this experience....Do you want to have a
baby...Like my mom used to tell me, put
the condom on yourself...Stop when there
face turns colors!! Make a smart decision
sweetheart...
Mesmerizeu15
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 10-29-03 13:12pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-28-04 12:56pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-29-03 14:45pm
You need to wait if your next period is
late and take a test. You are so young so
why are you having sex!!!!? I hope this
is only a scare for you and if it is, get
on birth control, get some condoms or stop
having sex until you are older. You are
too young to deal with the consequenses.
Goodness you are only 14. Please be
careful from now on. If you are really
late, then get a blood test to find out.
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shone2003
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Oct 2003 Posts: 11 Location: louisiana,westbank
Posted: 11-01-03 22:26pm
Hi everyone,my name is rashone and im
sixteen. Im kinda in the same boat as
her. It all started like this me and my
boyfriend had sex on the 20th hes 18. He
didnt use a condom that time but he said
he was sure, positive that he pulled out.
So I was waiting for my period to come
down and on the 31st it came down but im
not sure if its my period or vaginal
bleeding I mean I get cramps and
everything it seem normal but I still have
second thoughts so do you have any opions,
thoughts, or things you think I should do
I would really appreciate it. Thanx alot.
Hugs kisses.
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Wings are blue
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2003 Posts: 435
Posted: 11-02-03 09:11am
Rashone,
was the bleeding any different from
your period? If it wasn't a normal cycle
for you then maybe you should be a little
concerned but if it wasn't any different
than your normal cycle then I wouldn't
worry about it. If it's bothering you
that much just go buy a home preg. Test.
That's the only way you're really gonna
know. Good luck!
Angie
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conniejt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2005 Posts: 1 Location: kansas city
I Was Fifteen When I Got Pregnante Posted: 12-24-05 20:53pm
Hi dear I was fifteen when I had my first
child and I kept her she is now six I am
now 21 I stayed in school and finished.
If you need anyone to talk to email me.
Conn
iejtrue@hotmail.Com
