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JAJC76

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Normal to Be Nervous Before the First Time?
Posted: 01-13-05 23:58pm

My girlfriend and I are so close to having sex actually she was mad we did not do it the other night. I want to but am nervous and scared but I shouldn't be right? I'm the guy and shouldn't be nervous or scared right? Also i'm 28 do you think that is contributing to my nervousness?Thank you ja
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Posted: 01-14-05 04:56am

Absolutely not! This is normal and I respect you for that. Just make sure you use safety methods for std and pregnancy. Be gentle and let her guide you to what she likes. This will make it more pleasant for you both.
She may be more experienced that you, so allow her lead you.
You may not be the first one to do her, but believe me, this is a hell of a better deal that being the first guy. I would rather be with one that has had another before me. At my age, there're not to many virgins left out there and if there were, I wouldn't want to have sex w/ them.
Good luck, be gentle and be safe! :)
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