Please Read And Answer Soon!!!!!!! Help!!!!!!! Posted: 10-27-03 23:35pm
I wrote on the pregnancy forum and only
got one responds so far it was very
informational but I was hoping for more
feedback hopefully you all can help me
out!!! Please!
I'm 18 years old, I got my period on sept.
24 my boyfriend and I had sex everyday
after that for 11 days until oct. 5. I
have not received my period since then
(they are usually irregular), I have kind
of been stressing about it, so I was
wondering many things.... First how long
can your period be delayed for by stress?
Second what are some uncommon symptoms of
pregnancy and third how long should I wait
to honestly think I may be pregnant and
then take a test to confirm that? I have
had some common symptoms headaches,
backpain, peeing alot, bloating (not so
much now but about 2 1/2 weeks ago), sore
nipples mostly and a little around the
edge of my breast aswell, cramping about
two days ago (i thought I was going to get
my period that night or the next day,
never did), I can eat a lot and not get
full, my abs are sore (just starting
today) kind of like its the day after I
just did a real good ab workout. I am
hoping to be pregnant, so i'm scared to go
get a pregnancy test and get the negative
result.
Please someone anyone......As many people
as possible, please get back to me as soon
as possible with as much info as you can
provide!!!!
Thanks!!!!!!!
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babybooz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Freddy NB, Canada
Some More Advice... Posted: 10-28-03 07:09am
Take a darn test girl! Lol you want a
baby, then stop wasting time. If you
arent, then you may be able to as we speak
but instead you are online getting
advice!! Secondly, those symptoms can
occur this soon. Every woman is
different... Thirdly, stress does delay
your period. Been there done that last
month. I had all the same symptons. You
are going to think you have all these
symptoms as long as you think you might be
pregnant. Happened to me, and only for a
week. I thought I was... And I wasnt.
So as soon as you get this, get a test
with your guy, and have sex!
Sarah
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-28-03 09:25am
Well I cant answer all of your questions,
but since nobody else is answering any of
them I figured I would give you something
to go on. First off your period can
probably be all together late because of
stress...Try not to stress sweetheart..You
can take a test right now...If you arent
pregnant try again. I will tell you
something that I did do, because I really
did want to have a baby, at first every
time we had sex I thought that I could get
pregnant but I learned that the first nut
is always the best, so we had sex once a
day everyday instead of eight times a
day..Being sarcastic....Why do you want to
have a baby so bad? If you period were
always irregular it is probably going to
be harder for you to concieve by the
way...Please take a test or visit the
doctor....Keep me updated
mesmerize(stacie)
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klc616
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2003 Posts: 17
Posted: 10-28-03 10:42am
Unfortunatly I can't have sex with my
boyfriend for a while now, we only stoped
having sex on the 5th because the police
came to his house on the 6th and arrested
him he is now locked up for a little. So
this is our only chance for me to be
pregnant for a while he should be out
within the next 5-6 months but I really
can't wait that long and I don't want to.
So if I understood correctly, stress can
totally delay my period from coming this
month? Wow, how much stress to I have to
be under for that to happen. To be honest
I really don't feel stressed at all....
Like she said your peroid can be very
delayed at times.... Don't stress too
much. Symptoms would not be occuring yet
so don't go on that. Give it time and see
what happens.
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babybooz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Freddy NB, Canada
Oddly Enough.. Posted: 10-28-03 20:07pm
Ok, let us get this straight. You want to
be pregnant with a man that is behind
bars? Unless he was accused of a false
offence, I dont think that you should be
having a baby at this time. Why would you
want to go through 5-6 months of pregnancy
alone? While the dad is in jail? Just
asking a few questions about your
situation, in which you dont have to
answer. I'm only curious...
Sarah
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-28-03 21:06pm
Well I dont know you, but what you are
saying is making me wanna say, I think
that you should slow down and I dont think
that you should be wanting to have a baby
at this time. I had a baby with a person
how has been behind bars, and he had just
gotten out, but he was commited to me and
changed for us. Will yours do that. Be
caareful sweets, you are messing with two
lives now!! Well three!!
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babybooz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Freddy NB, Canada
Mesmerize Posted: 10-29-03 11:57am
Thats some good advice. She has to keep
in mind, the possibility of this guy and
if he is good "daddy material"... The
baby needs a dad. In most cases, the
biological one "should" be the best one...
He not always is.
sarah
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-29-03 12:09pm
I agree with sarah and mezmerize. You
dont really want someone whos behind bars
for a while do you? Especially during a
pregnancy, when hes supposed to be there
for it. Having a jailbird really isnt
worth it. But you had it the 24th so
because of a little stress you just might
only be late. But you should go ahead and
take a test. Be careful and good luck.
Really think about if this is the guy you
want to be with.
