Help!!!i Lost Someone I Love... Posted: 10-28-03 08:25am
I am so in love with this man and have
been sense I got to know him and
everything, about 4 weeks ago we went
through some hard times and he left me, we
still talked and everything but were not
together. He left for toronto for work
and never called for 10 days....He really
hurt me, so I befriended this really nice
man. We hung out a couple times but never
did anything, I never had any intention of
doing anything, so I don't understand why
I lied to my man. When he came back from
toronto he came to me first thing to tell
me how much he loved me and wanted to be
with me. I told this other guy that and
he got really mad, I didn't understand
because I never led him on and I never
wanted anything other than a friend. My x
boyfriend met him and thought something
was going on because of the way the other
man was acting. When he asked me about
him I lied and told him we had never hung
out alone. To sum it all up they ended up
talking and now my x wants nothing to do
with me because I lied. How do I make it
up to him, I love him so much and I know
he loves me to. I am so scared I going to
lose him.
Does anyone have any advice anything I
really need him back in my life I am emyty
without him, how do I make him believe
that???????
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-29-03 14:34pm
Well you do have to try then. Apoligize
and make your efforts seem worthwhile.
Tell him how you feel and how you are
sorry. But he left you and you needed a
friend. That was it. Let him know you
love him. Hope it helps.
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phil dennison
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 71 Location: illinois
Posted: 11-16-03 22:30pm
He is not god. Get anthor man. He don't
trust you. Just an excuse to get rid of
you. There are 5,000,000,000,000 people
on the earth, don't lose your sleep. You
are special. I know why, because you have
feelings.
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TX_momy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 120 Location: TX
Hi Posted: 01-05-04 21:19pm
I think just because you "hang out" with
your "friend" you can tell your man or ex,
and explain that you are sorry, but hey
!!! Dont forget that he (underlined) was
the one who did'n call for 10 days, who
knows what he was doing? Did he ever give
you a good excuse? I don't know how long
you guys been togeter or how old you are
but in for real, you did'n do much just
talked to this guy.... Maybe he did
something wrong and now he is thinking
that you are... If you know what I mean.
Just sit down and talk about it . Let us
know how it went...
