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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-19-05 23:05pm
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| jlee77
wrote: | | that's great and dandy if
you don't want to birth. Then make sure
you **do not get pregnant** and all will
be peachy and keen. But when you become
pregnant and abort cause you don't want
babies, your selfish. End of story.
Finite. Finished! Get it my
dear? |
yes I am making sure I am not pregnant
health question!! I'm on birth control
and rarely have sex but if I get pregnant
I will probably abort because pregnancy
does not fit into my plans right now and
it would ruin my chances of getting a
career. So what if i'm selfish.. So be
it.
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foreverblue
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005
Posts: 577
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Posted: 01-20-05 06:50am
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For steen plz read my reply and answer
thanx
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mom2trevor
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2004
Posts: 694
Location: VA
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Posted: 01-20-05 11:51am
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Bd--so you run all over these boards
yelling that abortion isn't selfish and
then you reply to jlee "so what if i'm
selfish, so be it"...So you admit then
that abortion is selfish? It's about time
you admit it.
For someone to say that they don't want to
birth a baby is really sad and I feel
sorry for you too because that is just
cold and heartless...I on the other hand
would never want to have my baby ripped
limb from limb from inside my body just
because I felt like it...
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:06pm
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| mom2trevor
wrote: | bd--so you run all over
these boards yelling that abortion isn't
selfish and then you reply to jlee "so
what if i'm selfish, so be it"...So you
admit then that abortion is selfish?
It's about time you admit it.
For someone to say that they don't want to
birth a baby is really sad and I feel
sorry for you too because that is just
cold and heartless...I on the other hand
would never want to have my baby ripped
limb from limb from inside my body just
because I felt like
it... |
no.. I have just given up on trying to
convince you all so I am saying.. Whether
it is selfish or not.. So what?? The
law allows us to be selfish in many ways..
Deal with it.
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:08pm
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| bd1012
wrote: | | mom2trevor
wrote: | bd--so you run all over
these boards yelling that abortion isn't
selfish and then you reply to jlee "so
what if i'm selfish, so be it"...So you
admit then that abortion is selfish?
It's about time you admit it.
For someone to say that they don't want to
birth a baby is really sad and I feel
sorry for you too because that is just
cold and heartless...I on the other hand
would never want to have my baby ripped
limb from limb from inside my body just
because I felt like
it... |
no.. I have just given up on trying to
convince you all so I am saying..
Whether it is selfish or not.. So what??
The law allows us to be selfish in many
ways.. Deal with
it. |
but the law is,nt the be all and end all
there has to be a inbetween .
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:12pm
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What? I don't care about your morals..
You live by your morals.. I live by mine.
Sorry :roll:
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:17pm
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| bd1012
wrote: | | what? I don't care about
your morals.. You live by your morals..
I live by mine. Sorry
:roll: |
fair play I would,nt dream of telling
anyone to live by my morals i,m just here
to debate and put my oppinion across.
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:22pm
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Well you are sitting their telling us..To
"don't have sex" "you're a prostitute if
you have sex" "don't do this" "don't do
that".. It's very aggravating!!
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:25pm
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| bd1012
wrote: | | well you are sitting their
telling us..To "don't have sex" "you're a
prostitute if you have sex" "don't do
this" "don't do that".. It's very
aggravating!! |
as I said it,s your life bd I did,nt want
to offend you but you keep taking my posts
as a attack I did,nt say do,nt have sex
because it,s wrong but because it sounds
like your doing it out of guilt .
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:27pm
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| jlee77
wrote: | | i don't ***think*** you
should have sex if your intentions are to
abort should you get pregnant.
There....Is that
better?! |
yes.. Very much so :d
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:31pm
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| bd1012
wrote: | | jlee77
wrote: | | i don't ***think*** you
should have sex if your intentions are to
abort should you get pregnant.
There....Is that
better?! |
yes.. Very much so
:d |
bd can I ask you a question without you
getting angry and being offended ?
Are you scared of being pregnant?
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:43pm
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This will surprise you very much but no..
I am not scared of pregnancy.. Sometimes
I wish I were pregnant. :shock: I hang
out on a few preggo sites and I just wish
that I was apart of the mix.. Know what
it is all about. I just want something
diffrent and truthfully, I don't want to
abort if I got pregnant but it would
really not be good for me to be pregnant
right now. I really need the job I have
right now and you can't do it while your
pregger but if I lose it.. I will be
frozen... I need the money to get on the
road because if I don't... I will be
screwed because no one will be able to
take me to work..No one and i'll be stuck
in one spot. If I could think of a way
to get around that then maybe I would
carry the pregnancy. When I come on
here.. Talking about pregnancy like I
do.. I am fighting for others people
rights.. I am not talking about myself
but for others, I try to show you that
life is not black and white but not all
the time when I talk about pregnancy likes
it's bad.. Am I afraid of it.. Do you
understand?
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 12:52pm
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| bd1012
wrote: | | this will surprise you very
much but no.. I am not scared of
pregnancy.. Sometimes I wish I were
pregnant. :shock: I hang out on a few
preggo sites and I just wish that I was
apart of the mix.. Know what it is all
about. I just want something diffrent
and truthfully, I don't want to abort if I
got pregnant but it would really not be
good for me to be pregnant right now. I
really need the job I have right now and
you can't do it while your pregger but if
I lose it.. I will be frozen... I need
the money to get on the road because if I
don't... I will be screwed because no
one will be able to take me to work..No
one and i'll be stuck in one spot. If I
could think of a way to get around that
then maybe I would carry the pregnancy.
When I come on here.. Talking about
pregnancy like I do.. I am fighting for
others people rights.. I am not talking
about myself but for others, I try to show
you that life is not black and white but
not all the time when I talk about
pregnancy likes it's bad.. Am I afraid
of it.. Do you
understand? |
i do understand it is,nt actualy pregnancy
or motherhood you are afraid of but the
responsibility and restrictions that it
brings .But looking back over your posts
do you understand why you come accross as
being hard hearted and angry ?
It is very sad that you really do,nt want
to terminate if you get pregnant but you
just ca,nt see any other way at the moment
but a child does,nt put restrictions on
you for life and things do have a habit of
falling into place. Can I ask you please
if you ever do get pregnant do,nt just run
out and get a termination please check
what help you can get if you did decide to
continue the pregnancy first. Please
do,nt misunderstand me i,m not trying to
change your veiw it,s just that you sound
a little cinfused to me and may just
regret it if you need to chat feel free to
pm me I have to go to fat club now but
will be back later.
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msrosie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2005
Posts: 369
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 01-20-05 15:18pm
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| fishx
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then I really do feel for you
rosie. |
no need to. I am perfectly comfortable
being childfree. :)
rosie
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 15:20pm
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| msrosie
wrote: | | fishx
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then I really do feel for you
rosie. |
no need to. I am perfectly comfortable
being childfree. :)
rosie |
then if that is what you want then i,m
happy for you diffrent strokes for
diffrent folks an all that.
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msrosie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2005
Posts: 369
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Posted: 01-20-05 15:21pm
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| jlee77
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but fine then, your selfish, at least you
admit it. |
now, can you admit that *you* are
selfish?
Rosie
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-20-05 16:07pm
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| msrosie
wrote: | | jlee77
wrote: |
but fine then, your selfish, at least you
admit it. |
now, can you admit that *you* are
selfish?
Rosie |
why??? Because she created a life and
decided to keep him and love him??? Oh
jlee, you selfish b*tch you.... :roll:
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msrosie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 369
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Posted: 01-20-05 17:08pm
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| lil_blaze2004
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why??? Because she created a life and
decided to keep him and love him??? Oh
jlee, you selfish b*tch you....
:roll: |
most people have kids for selfish
reasons.
*everyone* is selfish, to some degree.
It's not necessarily a bad thing.
Rosie
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 01-20-05 17:10pm
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I happen to think it's selfish to have
kids.. Snatch someone out of peaceful
serene nonexistance into this harsh noisy
world just so you can have someone to play
with. That's another reason I am iffy
on having kids. Maybe I will, maybe I
won't.. Idk.
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 01-20-05 17:14pm
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I do,nt personaly think it is wrong to
want children I also do,nt think it,s
wrong not to want children .What I do
think is wrong is to terminate a pregnancy
because of a mistake why should one
individual pay for the mistakes of
another. The perfect solution would be
for every goverment to issue free birth
control through out the world but alas we
wo,nt get that unfortunatly.
(please note this is not fact only an
oppinion).
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