BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 01-25-05 14:09pm
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As I said in my other posts....I am soooo
far from being perfect!!! No~i am not
married. I have been with my boyfriend
for 3 years. Beleive me christian-like
does not meen "perfect"!!!! Lol! So
yes, the daddy is in the picture very much
so....We're sort of figuring out what to
do right now as far as marriage goes...His
and my parents are both very supportive of
us (not necessarily thrilled yet!) and are
helping us 100%!!
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
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Posted: 01-25-05 14:16pm
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Even the most christian, of christians
(does that make sense?) arn't perfect! I
was just wondering, because the way you
talk, it'd seem like you were someone
who'd wait until marriage to have sex. I
think its great that your boyfriend is
still in the picture, and good luck with
the pregnancy! How is it going so far?!
Pretty smooth? I had a horrible
pregnancy, but an awesome labor. I said,
I guess god felt bad that i'd gone through
so much, that he let me have an easy
labor.
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 01-25-05 14:20pm
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Lol!! Yes~marriage is the "ideal"
situation, however not everything works
out the way we plan now does it!?!?!
Sometimes I feel bad I can't be a better
example, but I guess in a sense it can
help other's relate and see that you don't
have to be "perfect" to love god and be
considered a christian!!
I was fine untill the end of week 6, and I
started getting horrible morning
sickness(and lunch, and dinner, and night
sickness!!) it's really starting to fade
now, I think it's my vitamins that make me
feel so bad!! I'm so scared for delivery
but I still have a while to go!!
Thanks!!
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
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Posted: 01-25-05 14:23pm
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It probably is the vitamins. My friend
kace got horribly sick off of them. But
me, I had morning sickness up until my 8th
month, 24/7. Then at 34 weeks I went into
premature labor and had to be flown to a
different city because my town doesn't
have a nicu (its a small town in alaska)
and I had to stay there for 5 weeks, then
they flew me back to my town at 36 weeks
and I had my daughter at 38 weeks, all
together it was a 2 hour labor. I got to
the hospital a little after 10pm on the
5th of november, and had my daughter at
10:50.
But I need to take my boyfriend to work,
i'll be back on when I get back :)
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 01-25-05 14:25pm
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I really hope I don't have sickness for
that long!!! I'll see you around!!
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
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Posted: 01-25-05 15:39pm
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It was horrible! I couldn't eat anything,
and the first 3 months I wasn't gaining
any weight! I was 133 lbs when I had my
daughter!
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
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Posted: 01-25-05 16:04pm
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sandyallen
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Posted: 01-25-05 16:04pm
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Last edited by sandyallen on 01-25-05 16:27pm; edited 1 time in total
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sandyallen
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Briansbaby
Posted: 01-25-05 16:08pm
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Have you spoke w/your doc about something
for your sickness and it will not effect
your pregnancy, it will just help make
your pregnancy stronger as you do need
your strength w/your bundle of joy. I
don't know you but you do sound stressed,
of course, I could be wrong, I am one of
these imperfect humans also, lol.
It is great just having a significant
other, me and my husband now, lived
together for 13 years, helped to raise his
two kids, we have been married now for
almost 6 years.
I had an ex-husband, we never got along
being married but got a divorce and we got
along fine, sometimes that piece of paper
is really strange.
I don't have a religion, I have a
relationship w/the man above.
I am not 100% for abortions but their are
a lot of times, I see a need and I believe
in choice and a right, this is why I am
pro-choice, we will always have a choice
whether it be legal or illegal.
The best to you!
Sandy
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 01-25-05 16:11pm
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Thanks! Yes, I plan on talking to my Dr.
At my next app't...I swear the only stress
in my life is this debate forum!! Lol!!
Nice to meet you!!! Yes I agree, there
is always the choice of having an
abortion.....But I don't believe it is
right.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 01-25-05 16:34pm
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It might be wrong in your eyes but it is
right in others. We are not living in
there shoes.
Life would be dull if we were and felt all
the same way. We would not be here on
earth.
Sincerely,
sandy
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 01-25-05 16:42pm
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Oh, I agree!! Life would be dull!!
Peacefull but dull~lol!
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:04pm
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| where_is_the_line
wrote: | | it is not an issue of who is
more important, but rather who has more on
the line. |
in that case, you would
also have to say that if a life can be
saved by giving blood, then giving blood
should be mandated. After all, giving
blood is quite routine and safe, while
bleeding to death is putting the person's
life on the line.
So are you for forced blood donations?
Can the state force you to give blood
every 4-6 weeks whether you want to or
not?
And what about your kidney? You only
need one. And a live donor faces less
risk than does a woman giving birth. So
to save the 50,000 people who die while
waiting for a transplant every year, can
we force people to give a kidney, even
against their will? After all, the
person dying from kidney failure after
years of dialysis has *a lot* more at
stake than you who can live just fine on
one kidney.
So who has most on line, and how far can
the law go in preserving the one with most
at stake?
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:05pm
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| gero
wrote: | | give it a rest, steen. You
are going to have a tough time convincing
prolife people here that abortion is
justifiable no matter what excuse you
throw out. |
likewise, so are you also
saying that prolifers should be giving it
a rest?
Or are you just trying to have a more
one-sided prolife view presented here?
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004 Posts: 920 Location: UK
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:06pm
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I personaly belive that if it was
something that you did to cause the person
to need a kidney then yes you should be
forced to give up one of yours and yes it
would be great if everyone had to give
blood every month.
Please note this is only an opinion
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:08pm
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| where_is_the_line
wrote: | | as it stands today, american
women have the legal right to obtain an
abortion in all 50 states, through all
nine months of pregnancy, for virtually
any reason at all. This has been true
since january of 1973 when the supreme
court declared that autonomous abortion
rights are built into the constitution,
and that any legal barriers which prevent
mothers from aborting their children are
unconstitutional. |
<
span class="postbody">this claim is false,
as this is (1) not what the roe vs wade
description stated, and (2) all 50 states
have restrictions on 3rd trimester
abortions.
Did you see any benefit in posting such a
claim?
Or did you get it from somewhere without
providing the source (aka. Plagiarism)?
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:11pm
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| fishx
wrote: | | i personaly belive that if
it was something that you did to cause the
person to need a kidney then yes you
should be forced to give up one of yours
and yes it would be great if everyone had
to give blood every
month. |
ah, but that is not what
line stated. Line's specific claim was
that it is not a matter of fault, but
solely about "who has more on the line"
and we are not talking about what is
"great." certainly, if there was no need
for abortions, just like with any medical
procedure, then that would be "great."
the issue in line's post, however, was who
wins out when there are competing
rights.
So the question thus is posed to you as
well. Is it really the "most to lose"
issue that gives the right?
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004 Posts: 920 Location: UK
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:23pm
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Termination has no winners only losers
who decides whose got the most to lose?
Please note this is only an opinion
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:45pm
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| fishx
wrote: | termination has no winners
only losers
who decides whose got the most to lose?
Please note this is only an
opinion |
and your opinion is not
shared by the woman who terminates her
pregnancy, as she clearly feel that she is
better off with the abortion than without
it. So what is the relevance of your
opinion? It sure has no meaning to the
woman who seeks an abortion.
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004 Posts: 920 Location: UK
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Posted: 01-25-05 17:50pm
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Awww whats up steen picking one liners
again .
Please note this is fact,
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