Well as a lot of your know my first
ultrasound was done yesterday the baby is
truely amazing the little thing was doing
little flips and it was cute! Well I know
ya'll said she would hopefully break when
she saw it! No she didnt! They took
blood from me and found out I have gonerea
which I already knew and told the doctor
that and told her I had gotten a shot and
that for it but they called today to tell
me that I need to come in for another shot
and antibiotics...My mom went completely
phsyco seriously she was like you could
die from this I was like mom theres a slim
chance at that if you are getting it
treated shes like well you arent acting
like you know you are such a sleeze and so
is he....I was like okay...First of all if
we were sleezes we would have um never
taken care of it or taken care of
ourselves thing is we did have use condoms
just the one broke yes we knew he had he
got treated took his antibiotics we
thaught he was good and I guess he gave it
to me when he nutted that time and I gave
it back to him I didnt think I had it I
dont know im soo confused w/ my mom im not
worry about the other I can get that
treated okay...Its just my mom and the
rest of my family im sooo tired of being
surrounded by all this negativity I feel
soo depressed I dont know what to do
anymore any advice??
Jen
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babybooz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Freddy NB, Canada
Tough Times Posted: 10-28-03 07:24am
All you can do is hold your head up... Be
responsible, stay on good terms with
everyone. Make the right decisions,
respect yourself, your bf, your soon to
come baby, your friends, and family. You
need them during your pregnany, not
mention your whole life!! Stay positive.
Smile.
Sarah
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-28-03 21:14pm
I think that you need to stay posiitive, I
will admit when you said that my eyes
rose, and it made me scared for you. My
mother is hiv positive, so I know what
people are going through except yours
isn't as serious. I think that you need
to stay positive, have a good time in your
life, enjoy pregnancy, dont let her get
you done, take care of yourself and what
you need to do, and dont depend on anyone
else.
I am here for you if you need me,
we are here for you if you need us!!
Stacie
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-29-03 12:22pm
Jen just keep happy. Dont let nothing get
you down. Always look at the positive
side. Dont waste your time frowning.
Just smile even if it hurts. Dont let
your mom bother you ok? You know what I
do? I watch tv (something funny) and eat
a bowl of ice cream! Makes me forget
everything! Like the other day on mtv
this show called wildboys or something and
these 2 dumb guys were looking at animals
and it was like a ram but it was called a
"kudu" (koodoo) and hes all "look, a kudu"
and the other guy was looking at the
ground and he says "what do you think that
is?" and hes all "kudu doodoo" and I was
laughing and laughing. I thought it was
funny. The was they say it like a bunch
of dorks! But anyways, do fun stuff and
keep cheerful ok? Hope I made sense or
helped a little bit
Well, my best friend is white and she got
preggy for a black guy 2 years ago. Her
mom flipped on her. Kept tellign her that
that person baby would never be welcome in
her house and stuff. Meghan was only 15
and so depressed. Now meghan is 17 and
a'mya is 2 and her mom loves that baby so
much. Once dana saw her granddaughter she
fell in love and color didn't matter and
so give you mom time. She may come
around. Pray for her. Pray for you. And
keep yourself well for your baby.
