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lilangel2905
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I Feel So Violated!!!
Posted: 01-20-05 15:58pm
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Omg if someone would have told me my
doctor would have to finger me... I would
have never got pregnant!!! I am now 37
wks... I just got back from the
doctors..... I gained 8lbs in one
week!!! Holly sh*t!!! The baby is now 6
lbs 2 oz... Thats good... But geezzsss I
feel so violated... He's like ok take a
deep breathe and push like you would push
a baby out... Ok ok wait a second...
Does he not remember I never had to push a
baby out before... Well I am 1cm
dialted... I guess thats good right? I
am kinda worried I don't go back till the
first of feb... My due date is the
ninth... I thought being this close you
go every wk... But this doctor decided he
is leaving town... Great what if I go in
labor next week... I know they would have
another doctor but I don't want this other
doctor to deliver my baby... You see he
delivered my little brother and he messed
up bad and almost killed my mom... So now
my mom is like no matter what you are
waitin till your due date... Yeah I see
myself just holding him in there... Geez
he is gonna come when he wants to...
Lol... Alright I am down b*tching... I
just didn't care for the dr to be putting
his fingers where they don't belong...
They should have a speacial tool for
that...
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Kia
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Posted: 01-20-05 16:02pm
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But a tool wouldn't do the job of feeling
how soft and dilated the cervix is.
I mean if you didn't want him to do and
internal you should say, you can ask for a
nurse to do it or for a nurse to be
present, but it really wouldn't be
practical to open you wide with a speculum
and go inserting lots of measuring tools
now would it. A nice sterile gloved lubed
finger 30 seconds job done!
Let me just add nothing is more
embarrassing than post hysterectomy
surgury finding you are having a period
then having 3 doctors looking up your
vagina (held open with a *huge* speculum)
with a torch just to proove it is a
period! *yuk* :oops:
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lilangel2905
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Posted: 01-20-05 16:07pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | let me just add nothing is
more embarrassing than post hysterectomy
surgury finding you are having a period
then having 3 doctors looking up your
vagina (held open with a *huge* speculum)
with a torch just to proove it is a
period! *yuk*
:oops: |
i take it that happened to you? That
would be embarrassing... You win!
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MyLoveBugs
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Posted: 01-21-05 00:12am
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When I was pregnant I always hated that as
well, but they of course have to do that
to see if you are dialated. Don't get
your hopes up though you are a 1 and could
stay that way for awhile. I was a 1 for
like 2 weeks I just wanted it to hurry up!
And when the day came to deliver I wish
that I was still dialted to 1 lol
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lusciouskiss16
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Posted: 01-21-05 04:59am
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I know how you feel.! Everytime I get
checked out..I always end up crying and it
always hurts me.! I hate it so much!!
:cry:
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Kia
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Posted: 01-21-05 09:33am
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On the subject of doctors fingers why why
why do they need to feel up your bum when
you have appendicitis? I think that is
kinda wrong. At least with having babies
they are feeling in the right place...
(i was 13 when I had my appendectomy) and
yess :blush: that was me after surgury so
degrading lol
mind you the good to come from it was I
lost so much modesty that I am now ok with
being fully naked with my partner hehehe
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lilangel2905
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Posted: 01-21-05 11:24am
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | mind you the good to come
from it was I lost so much modesty that I
am now ok with being fully naked with my
partner
hehehe |
i am married now since oct. 29th 2004.
And I still can't be fully naked with
him... I don't know why... I am just so
afraid that I would make him discussted...
I know I don't like to look in the mirror
why should I make him look at me? I wish
I was as comfortable as you...
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-21-05 11:32am
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I was like that when I was younger. As I
got older I realized that guys are just as
worried about their bodies as we are.
And they are just happy to have a naked
woman with them....Lol
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Krista Kai
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Posted: 01-21-05 12:58pm
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I wasn't really uncomfortable about being
naked til I got pregnant and started
feeling heavy and fat. I always liked
the beach and wore swim suits that were
the next to being naked. At least that's
what my mom and dad said. :lol:
but since I started packing on the preggo
pounds and inches I feel more like
covering up as much as I can. My bf says
he loves how I am and sure acts like it,
but I also keep feeling like he looks at
me different. And when we're together
and a nice looking girl walks by I feel
like he's looking at them and wishing I
was still like that even though he goes
out of his way not to be like that. I
used to be really proud of how I looked
but now I feel like a walrus next to other
girls and i'm always bugging him about it.
I know it drives him crazy but I can't
help it.
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lilangel2905
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Posted: 01-21-05 13:22pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | i was like that when I was
younger. As I got older I realized that
guys are just as worried about their
bodies as we are. And they are just
happy to have a naked woman with
them....Lol |
yeah I don't think my husband worries...
If he could have it his way he would never
get dressed.... He just walks around
naked when he wants... But he also has a
nice body... I was overweight way before
I ever got pregnant.... So this just
hasn't started... Only one person has
seen me naked... And I felt so
uncomfortable...
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-21-05 13:39pm
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I've always been in "pretty good" shape
but i've always hated my boobs so that was
why I hated doing the naked thing
before...Lol
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Krista Kai
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Posted: 01-21-05 14:47pm
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I used to be self conscious about my boobs
cuz when I started getting them I just
kept getting them til I got to be a 36d
and everyone at school - and I mean boys
and girls - stared at me like I was a
freak or something. I know it sounds
crazy but one of the first things I liked
about jeff was when we started dating he
was the first boy i'd gone out with who
looked at my face and not my boobs.
Funny thing is now i'm "boobier" than ever
but my tummy gives people something
different to stare at. :lol:
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-21-05 15:23pm
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I always had lil boobs (well 34b) and
all my girlfriends all had the gigango
d,dd's and that was my prob, then I
figured I was the only one who
cared....And I was right..Lol
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June4life
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Posted: 01-21-05 20:05pm
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Kia, when I had apendicitis (sp?) just
like... 10 days ago, they never stuck
anything up my bum!! Lol
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SamiNSunisMa
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Posted: 01-21-05 20:27pm
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| june4life
wrote: | | kia, when I had apendicitis
(sp?) just like... 10 days ago, they
never stuck anything up my bum!!
Lol |
lucky!
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SamiNSunisMa
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Posted: 01-21-05 20:27pm
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| june4life
wrote: | | kia, when I had apendicitis
(sp?) just like... 10 days ago, they
never stuck anything up my bum!!
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lucky!
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Kia
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Posted: 01-22-05 09:16am
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Lol maybe they changed their ways now,
mine was 13 years ago.
Oh and i've lived with steve for nearly a
year and it's only since soooooooooooooooo
many people have seen my bits that I feel
ok with steve seeing me all nakie lol
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Max_Mummy too be
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Posted: 01-22-05 15:34pm
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I put on 42 pounds since ive been
pregnant, apparently its normal for my
family though.
I feel like such a whale.
I never had a prob with being naked
before, but now I hate it.
I wont let garry see me naked, and now he
says he wont get naked unless I do...
Which is so unfair, coz he has a well
cute bum!!
I hate the doctors prodding and poking up
me, keep getting scared im gonna break
wind or sommin... Lol
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