Only For Men With "Penis Problems" Posted: 01-20-05 21:51pm
I've seen this alot as of late, being
posted here and as for not only
experiencing the problem myself, I have a
solution too.
Having a problem staying hard where you've
never had this problem before? No, it
does not mean you are impotent, and it
doesn't mean you can't get hard! It
doesn't mean your penis is broken...And...
It doesn't mean you need viagra, or these
expensive pills that companies are trying
to shove off on you.
Before consulting a doctor, you have to
consider that this problem might simply be
a "mental" thing. Yes, I know myself how
embarrassing it is to go to a doctor and
say "help! I can't get an erection!"
alot of times, the reasoning behind not
being able to stay hard, is because you're
nervous. Another reason is because you're
thinking too much about making your penis
hard, or keeping it hard...And even
thinking too much about pleasing your
partner.
...When you go off into kissing your
girlfriend, or lover....Your mind is in a
different world. You become erect for a
long time because you aren't concentrating
on your penis being hard. Even when you
lay naked with each other and make
out...Your penis is hard because you
aren't thinking about it.
And then finally when the time comes to
start having sex with the woman, you go
limp. Why? Because it's no longer as
natural and non-chalant as it was when you
were making out with the woman.
You have to concentrate on the "feeling".
How does her mouth feel when she's giving
you oral? How does her vagina feel when
you're inside of her?
You have to stop concentrating on what
makes you hard, and what keeps you
hard.....
...And you have to start "using" the
woman. It sounds crude, but hear me out.
You have to move your hips...Or even move
her hips the way you want to move them.
It doesn't make you a selfish lover,
because more often then not...Using a
woman to get yourself off actually
satisfies the woman.
My own girlfriend in fact, has an orgasm
when "i" cum...Because she says she loves
the fact i'm getting pleasure from her.
Another technique is to preform oral on
your lover.......Go ahead and get her off.
Maybe once, or even twice whether it's
with your finger, your mouth...Or with
your penis.
Once you've gotten her off...You shouldn't
need to worry about pleasing her anymore.
That's when you move her body to suit your
needs...And more often then not...Your
partner will be willing to let you move
her this way, and that...To satisfy
yourself!
Stop worrying so much about pleasing
her...Until you've gotten into the routine
of this.
And don't worry, there will be alot of
times that this will happen down the road.
Even "i" experience a problem getting
hard with my lover from time to time. But
she understands my problem. And she still
loves me, despite it.
If you have any questions, feel free to
reply to this topic and ask me....I'll be
happy to help you out to the best of my
ability.
