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Q: Venting!!
asked by: sftbllchika06 on January 21st, 2005
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My ex and I split up in august. Oddly enough he got me pregnant in october. I never told him and don't plan to. I want him out of my life. He keeps calling and everytime he does; he says the most hurtful things until I start crying and then he is always like I gotta go bye. I am sick of it. I feel nothing for him. I just want it to be over with. He also seems to always be where I am before I get there too. He has a girlfriend also I can't believe it doesn't bother her. His friends call me too just to say ignorant stuff to me. I also found a really nice guy who cared about me and the baby. My ex and his friend managed to break us up within a week of him finding out. I hate him so much. Has anyone had an experience like this? I am over him but am now wondering if he is over me? How can I get rid of him?
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littlered
replied on January 21st, 2005
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It sounds to me like your ex is harassing you. You should go about finding informtation about a restrainting order (sorry if I misspelled that word). I could be wrong about it but it just sounds like it to me. I hope I helped you any
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steen
replied on January 21st, 2005
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For one, if he calls, hang up on him. Next, get a restraining order to get him to either back off or get the law on his rotten tail. That way, he can go do something else instead of being obsessed with tormenting you. He frankly sounds like a shithead that could turn into a stalker if you don't stop this.

So call the police and ask how to set up a restraining order, or simply ask them to go and check him out for you. That alone might get him to back off. Most such jerks are cowards who get scared if somebody else confront them on their lousy behavior.
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sftbllchika06
replied on January 22nd, 2005
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Thanks for the advice. I hang up on him all the time. He just keep calling back. I need to think about getting a restraining order.
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steen
replied on January 22nd, 2005
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There is a way to block a number from calling back when you have some phone companies. It is *-something-or-another. Instructions should be somewhere in the front of the phone book
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Tazzy D
replied on January 22nd, 2005
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steen wrote:
there is a way to block a number from calling back when you have some phone companies. It is *-something-or-another. Instructions should be somewhere in the front of the phone book



or you can call the phone company and add the feature on if you do not have it.
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jessamyn
replied on January 22nd, 2005
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Change your numbers or block his
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lil_blaze2004
replied on January 24th, 2005
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I had that prob with one of my exes and it got to the point where I moved to a completely diff city and changed my number and stopped talking to anyone that talked to him. Hopefully you won't have to go to that extreme but.... I still won't put the phone in my name cause I don't want him finding me (and it's 6 years later)
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jessamyn
replied on January 24th, 2005
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I recently on my cell had a problem with a number calling me and there used to be a way to automatically block them... Now you have to discuss it with your local phone store... Sometimes the option may be to block otherwise they just have to change your number... Which wont be a hassle and is automatic
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