Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Venting!! Posted: 01-21-05 20:36pm
My ex and I split up in august. Oddly
enough he got me pregnant in october. I
never told him and don't plan to. I want
him out of my life. He keeps calling and
everytime he does; he says the most
hurtful things until I start crying and
then he is always like I gotta go bye. I
am sick of it. I feel nothing for him. I
just want it to be over with. He also
seems to always be where I am before I get
there too. He has a girlfriend also I
can't believe it doesn't bother her. His
friends call me too just to say ignorant
stuff to me. I also found a really nice
guy who cared about me and the baby. My
ex and his friend managed to break us up
within a week of him finding out. I hate
him so much. Has anyone had an experience
like this? I am over him but am now
wondering if he is over me? How can I get
rid of him?
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 01-21-05 22:34pm
It sounds to me like your ex is harassing
you. You should go about finding
informtation about a restrainting order
(sorry if I misspelled that word). I
could be wrong about it but it just sounds
like it to me. I hope I helped you any
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 01-21-05 23:49pm
For one, if he calls, hang up on him.
Next, get a restraining order to get him
to either back off or get the law on his
rotten tail. That way, he can go do
something else instead of being obsessed
with tormenting you. He frankly sounds
like a shithead that could turn into a
stalker if you don't stop this.
So call the police and ask how to set up a
restraining order, or simply ask them to
go and check him out for you. That alone
might get him to back off. Most such
jerks are cowards who get scared if
somebody else confront them on their lousy
behavior.
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 01-22-05 00:04am
Thanks for the advice. I hang up on him
all the time. He just keep calling back.
I need to think about getting a
restraining order.
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 01-22-05 00:34am
There is a way to block a number from
calling back when you have some phone
companies. It is *-something-or-another.
Instructions should be somewhere in the
front of the phone book
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 01-22-05 11:07am
steen
wrote:
there is a way to block a
number from calling back when you have
some phone companies. It is
*-something-or-another. Instructions
should be somewhere in the front of the
phone book
or you can call the phone company and add
the feature on if you do not have it.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 01-22-05 20:24pm
Change your numbers or block his
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lil_blaze2004
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Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 6492 Location: ,
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Posted: 01-24-05 10:09am
I had that prob with one of my exes and it
got to the point where I moved to a
completely diff city and changed my number
and stopped talking to anyone that talked
to him. Hopefully you won't have to go
to that extreme but.... I still won't
put the phone in my name cause I don't
want him finding me (and it's 6 years
later)
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 01-24-05 10:19am
I recently on my cell had a problem with a
number calling me and there used to be a
way to automatically block them... Now
you have to discuss it with your local
phone store... Sometimes the option may
be to block otherwise they just have to
change your number... Which wont be a
hassle and is automatic
