Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Venting!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 01-21-05 20:38pm
My ex and I split up in august. Oddly
enough he got me pregnant in october. I
never told him and don't plan to. I want
him out of my life. He keeps calling and
everytime he does; he says the most
hurtful things until I start crying and
then he is always like I gotta go bye. I
am sick of it. I feel nothing for him. I
just want it to be over with. He also
seems to always be where I am before I get
there too. He has a girlfriend also I
can't believe it doesn't bother her. His
friends call me too just to say ignorant
stuff to me. I also found a really nice
guy who cared about me and the baby. My
ex and his friend managed to break us up
within a week of him finding out. I hate
him so much. Has anyone had an experience
like this? I am over him but am now
wondering if he is over me? How can I get
rid of him?
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 01-21-05 20:53pm
Why do you bother to talk to him if all
hes gunna do is make you feel bad? Just
ignore his and his friends calls. It
sounds to me like your not over him, and
hes not over you...
If you were over him, you wouldent care
about him having a girlfriend, and you
wouldent care about what he had to say
about you. I always claimed I hated luis
when I was mad at him. I was
just...Mad.
And if this guy was over you, he wouldent
have tried breaking up you and your new
guy. He wouldent bother calling you, or
having his friends call you. Hes trying
to get under your skin, and it seems to be
working.
I think that you should tell him your
pregnant. That could change alot of
things. Maybe he knows your pregnant, and
is being a problem cause he thinks
"someone else got my girl pg" I know but a
bit of your situation, but from what I do
know, it sounds like you both still have
feelings...
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 01-21-05 21:02pm
I will always have some kind of feelings
but I don't care about his girlfriend I am
happy for the both of them. I also know
for a fact he doesn't know about the baby
because no one knows except me, my doctor
and my parents. I haven't told anyone and
I am not big enough yet for anyone to
notice. I feel better now though since I
got it all out. Thanks
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 01-21-05 22:33pm
I totally understand where you're coming
from. But if hes the father of your child
and he doesn't know and finds out later it
can be far more worse. He sounds like an
immature little punk, but he still has the
right to know and if he finds out later on
he could use it against you and try to get
custody, even if you think he wont want
anything to do with the child, you have no
idea.
