Me and luis live with my mom kinda...Well
we live in the "guest house"
she said that since im not working, she
wasnt gunna make luis pay rent untill
after the baby is born. But what I found
out she ment is shes gunna start making
him pay more after the baby is born.
She accidently seen some speakers and the
amp he bought for the truck, and got all
pissed cause he hasnt paid rent yet. So
she was health forum to me that if he
hasnt paid by the 1st, shes making him
leave. I dont know what shes thinking
(like im gunna be like, ok bye luis) if he
leaves...Im going with him.
I wanted us to get our own place...Not
around her. Cause shes just gunna hold
that over our heads, but luis thought it
would be to hard expecting a baby. So we
stayed. And im frusterated.
Should I tell her...If he goes, I go too?
Or should I insist on getting our own
place? Ive lived off by myself, but ive
always had 2 roomates...Im scared.
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 01-21-05 22:30pm
Well how old are you first of all? Are
you old enough to be on your own? If you
are then I definitley think you should try
and find your own place. If you're not
old enough to be on your own, and your
only option is to live with your mom then
i'd tell your boyfriend that paying rent
so that he can stay and be with his
girlfriend and child is a lot more
important then some subwoofers. He needs
to realize hes gonna have a baby soon and
pretty much every penny you have needs to
go to that child.
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 01-22-05 15:59pm
Ya, im old enough to be on my own. Ive
been living on my own...Well with people
since I was 15. We already have
everything we need for the baby, like more
than everything, its kinda ridiculous.
She just piissed me off cause our rent is
not even due till the 1st. Then said she
would "evict" him, like I would stay...But
I wouldent be paying rent anyways...It
just doesnt make sence.
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 01-22-05 18:31pm
Well if you guys have everything you need,
then you should definitley look for your
own place. You have a baby on the way,
and your of age so its the best thing for
you and your family. Also though your
boyfriend needs to be buying things you
guys need, not want. Thats a big thing.
I had to talk to my boyfriend about that
because we were so broke when kylie was
born, and now we're doing fine because I
explained to him that our daughter is more
important then video games and such. I
hope things work out for you though.
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 01-23-05 13:14pm
Haha...I know what you mean. He always
wants to buy new rims and tires, and im
like noooo, youve barely had them for a
month! And there like freaking
expensive!! He just gave our xbox to his
little brother, after he spent over $200
on it, so video game spending is not a
problem. I guess.
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 01-23-05 13:28pm
He should have sold his xbox and got money
for it, then go stock up on some diapers
so you have some when your babys born.
Lol.
My boyfriends always trying to buy
basketball shoes, and video games. And
the shoes he wants are like 165 dollars..
Im like there shoes. We had to talk about
that kinda stuff a lot because before I
had my daughter we had over 10,000 in the
bank, and then I went into premature labor
and had to be flown out of my town to a
better hospital, and at that point we had
6,000...When we got back to my hometown we
had 100 and bills to pay. We're doing a
lot better now that he realizes our child
is much more important then material
things. :) I hope things work out with
your mom, and I hope you guys get your own
place so you don't have to stress out
about stuff like that!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 01-23-05 15:56pm
How much is she asking for? Why cant you
just pay it?
You know you cant work while pregnant
hun... Plus it gives you something to do
:)
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 01-23-05 16:20pm
We can pay it, and we do...
Thing is, its not due till the 1st, she
just freaked out cause she saw the
(expensive) stuff we bought, and made
false accusations, it made me mad.
I can work, but when I was working, I
drove like 40 miles one way...
(we live really far from everything)
$170 every 2 weeks in gas was a little
ridiculous I thought.
And I gave my car to my brother after I
quit cause he totalled his :)
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 01-24-05 10:04am
Have you ever been close to your mom.
Because then if you was close to your mom
you need to respect her because it is her
place after all. But you do need to get a
place of your own. That would be the best
thing. I know there is alot of people who
likes being close to their mom because she
will be there when you need a mother to
talk about your kids. I hope this helps
you any.
