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Who thinks I did a terrible thing?
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No
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 36%  [ 9 ]
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modelooks

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I'm not sure who the father of my baby is!!!!
Posted: 07-28-03 22:24pm

I'm really not positive who the father of my baby may be. I'm still pregnant and I just found out that I was pregnant. I'm not sure how far along I am neither. About 2 months ago around May 28th I slept with 3 different guys and didn't use protection. I never seen or talked to them again, but after that I got back with my boyfriend, and I've been with him ever since having unprotected sex. I'm kind of scared and I hope that it is my boyfriends baby.
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Georgie

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Posted: 07-29-03 07:51am

You are pathetic Twisted Evil Cool


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marie17

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Posted: 07-29-03 21:23pm

Look don't beat the girl up people make mistakes.

Look honey you need to start using protection. Getting pregnant isn't the only thing you have to woryy about when you have unprotected sex. Did you think about HIV/AIDS. One night of unprotected pleasure could leave you with a Short-lifetime of heartache and so many different medications you don't know what to do with them all. Think about sweetie, and remember you have to think about your baby now to. What is your little gonna do when mommy is to sick to take care of him?
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modelooks

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I have a question now!
Posted: 07-29-03 21:38pm

Is there anyway I can get some sort of dna testing while i'm pregnant to see if the father of my baby is my current boyfriend. Does anyone know or could they find out for me?
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marie17

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Posted: 07-29-03 21:50pm

umm actually I don't think the can do that until the babies born. But i will try to find out.
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modelooks

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Posted: 07-29-03 21:52pm

Thank you I need all the help I can get!
Cool
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marie17

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Posted: 07-29-03 21:59pm

well im here when ya need me Smile
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marie17

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Posted: 07-29-03 22:07pm

I just emailed to paternity experts and asked them they should respond back soon ok:)
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pinkcarloslove

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Posted: 07-30-03 04:58am

me i whould never do that but its life and life is not all pland out for you . you take it as it comes. you where having fun and did not think a lot of people do just that. i hope your bf knows about this ALL about this. i know my kids father is but he thinks it mite not be his. i went a whay for 3 to 4 weeks and when i was back fo just 6 days i found out i was [you know what] i know i did not "medical question up" on him but he thinks diffrent. i hope that make you fill better. Wink
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ramgirl06

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What's Wrong With You?????
Posted: 08-09-03 00:08am

First of all you should be mature enough to know not to have unprotected sex. That will get you no where except something you don't want!!! With 3 different people, now that is just terrible. I'm not trying to come down on you but you should be ashamed of your self Mad Mad a young immature teenager would do something like that. You get what you deserve Confused
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Mommy_2_b

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Re: What's Wrong With You?????
Posted: 11-19-03 14:28pm

You guys are being way to harsh on this poor girl! Everyone of us are humans and humans make mistakes not one of us is perfect. So maybe she did make a mistake she is going to deal with her problems and take her consequences just like anyone else. She came on here for help so dont be so harsh on the poor girl - sweetie I dont know if u still check this site or not but when I read this I couldnt help responding. I'm here for you!! Much love melissa

ramgirl06 wrote:
first of all you should be mature enough to know not to have unprotected sex. That will get you no where except something you don't want!!! With 3 different people, now that is just terrible. I'm not trying to come down on you but you should be ashamed of your self Mad Mad a young immature teenager would do something like that. You get what you deserve Confused
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:36pm

Melissa-i do here what ur saying but I also understand the other girls point-its a shame that girls have become like this nowadays-i mean,sleeping with 3 people like that is gonna lead 2 problems.Id neva do anything like that but, if she wants 2,thats up2 her & she'll b the 1 who has 2 deal with the consequences
liz x
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:47pm

I agree with liz. I mean sleeping with 3 guys and no protection at all. Common sense is to get a condom. And get tested. She could have caught something with these guys. And shes never seen them or heard from them, they might laugh at here when she asks for a dna test. I feel bad because that has to be kinda embarassing not knowing who the dad is out of 4 guys. But thats her. And its her problem. And her consequence. I dont know what else to say. I feel bad for her.
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Mommy_2_b

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:58pm

I understand that part too guys I just dont understand why people have to come on here and bawl her out about it. Im sure they could of put it in kinder words like the 2 of u did.
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:59pm

Thats true. I dont know why some peolpe lash out though. Anyways im sendin you an email in about 5 min.
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Mommy_2_b

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Posted: 11-19-03 15:01pm

Haha ok nikki i'll sign into that then :d lol I love getting emails from u guys! -most of my girls moved far away for university and dont have time to write.. Sad
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 11-19-03 15:03pm

I want an email....Lol!
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-19-03 15:06pm

Ok sent it! Your girls? Your friends? Yeah my friend hardly talks to me either
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insurancegirl

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Posted: 11-19-03 19:13pm

Arrow


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kitty_55

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Omg Guys!
Posted: 11-19-03 19:54pm

Holy caca you guys are sooo doing it mean to her for no reason..She did make a mistake and u probbly did too once in your life time..I made the same mistake she did...But I didnt end up pregant. All of you who were mean to her I think you need some help this is a place to get help not to be bicthed out...Hope u think before you type!!!!!

Alison
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