Im 14 and im dateing a girl that I have
already went out with a couple of months
ago. She dumped me before because she
said I was to "clingie" now shes going out
with me because she still likes me, as
long as I try not to be "clingie" my
problem is I feel really rejected, we have
been going out for almost a month and I
have only seen her once. We talk every
day on msn but we never see each other.
Every weekend I ask her to do something
with me and she say's "maybe" or "proble"
and every weekend she ether sits at home
and makes up a stuped excuse y she cant
see me. Or she goes over to her friends
house who only lives 5 minets away (my
girlfriend likes 30 minets away) and they
both always go do other things. It has
been almost 4 weeks sence iv seen her, I
try every weekend to get her to do
something with me and every time she says
maybe I sit at home waiting for her to
call or something for the whole day. I
thought maybe it was cuz we dont have good
conversation or something when we talk on
msn every day? But I always keep the
conversation going I really try hard at
it. But she wont put any effort into
talking to me when I have nothing to say
or seeing me on weekends or week days .
Im always available. Im just really sick
of her waisting most of my weekends
thinking that I will see her when I never
do. I really care about her.. She's all
I think about every day and I dont ever
want to break up with her. But I dont no
what I should do???
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Raziel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 01-23-05 17:05pm
Ok heres my input.
Im 19.. Ive had expiriance.. If shes
gonna keep ignoring you, then is she
acting like a girlfriend? If not.. Then
why is she yours? If you always get left
at home on the weekend waiting for her to
call.. Then just stop calling her and
call another friend to go hang out with.
If you want to try something heres another
thing.. Take another one of your friends,
a female friend, and start hanging out
with her often. See if your girlfriend
notices or gets jelous.. If she doesn't
even notice then I say screw the whole
thing and get single again.
