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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-20-03 07:01am
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Nikki - by my girls I meant my friends yes
we all grew up in the same apartment
building and then I got pregnant and they
left lol. Nice huh 
kitty - I understand what your saying
:but: <-- caps not everyone was mean.
Although one person was and they said
"only a young immature teenager would do
that" hello!!!! I think there are plenty
of young women or even women in there 40s
that have made this mistake!
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 55
Location: P.A
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Hey
Posted: 11-20-03 08:40am
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No, you can't get a test till after you
have the baby. If you get the test you
need all 3 guys there so you can know. My
bd denied my daughter because he has 2
kids at the age 18. But I know in my
heart he is. Anywho... Does your
boyfriend know this or you were 2 scared 2
till him. Next time just use your brain
alittle. Go on depo after your child is
born it is easier. Good luck!!! :d
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
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Location: P.A
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Hey
Posted: 11-20-03 08:43am
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No, you can't get a test till after you
have the baby. If you get the test you
need all 3 guys there so you can know. My
bd denied my daughter because he has 2
kids at the age 18. But I know in my
heart he is. Anywho... Does your
boyfriend know this or you were 2 scared 2
till him. Next time just use your brain
alittle. Go on depo after your child is
born it is easier. Good luck!!! :d
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ne-ne
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Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 32
Location: PA
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No Its Not
Posted: 11-20-03 09:11am
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I think you made a mistake but everyone
make mistakes. I think you should talk to
your boyfriend if he doesn't know. If he
stays with you then he truly loves you. I
dont believe in abortion so do let your
boy friend influence you about that one.
But you learn from your mistake and dont
do it next time. This time around be
thankful if your boyfriend stays with you
because I was in the almost same situation
and my boyfriend and I was fight so we
ended up not together but sometime I miss
him but you will get over that too because
your baby will be your priority.
Hope this help
mom at 13
ne-ne
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sparklypixie12
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-20-03 12:57pm
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13? Im tying joses sisters legs together.
I cannot have her having a baby. Shes 13
going on 14. Oh goodness.
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 11-20-03 18:25pm
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Nikki-i agree.Mom at 13,thats crazy!
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ramgirl06
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Joined: 08 Aug 2003
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Location: charlotte nc
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What Were You Thinking
Posted: 11-20-03 21:21pm
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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-21-03 06:53am
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Ramgirl06 - that last post I can agree
with much more than your first one - sorry
if I flipped about it I just couldnt
imagine being pregnant and in a situation
like that looking for help and getting
torn to shreads by people you dont know -
much love melissa
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lilbabygirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2003
Posts: 1
Location: Pa
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Hey
Posted: 11-21-03 22:19pm
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I think you did make a mistake but we all
do it in our life. But you will learn to
deal with it. I am 17 years old with 2
kids one is 2 years old the other one is
only 9 months. I had my first one at the
age of 15. I just had him 2 days after my
birthday. But they become your first
thing in your life. How old are you? Are
you still in school? If so keep going. I
am still in school. I am still with my
babies dad. Both of my kids are from the
same dad. So if your man loves you even
if the baby is not his he will be with you
and that baby because he loves you and
because he wants that baby to have
somebody to love. Did you tell him about
the whole thing? If not I think the best
thing to do is tell him because you do not
wait until the last thing to do. Because
he will definitely leave you. And if you
do not want that just come out and tell
him. Well I got to go. If you got any
question just write me.
Love alwayz rosalina
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glitter8370
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2003
Posts: 135
Location: bc canada
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Simmer Down..
Posted: 11-22-03 03:12am
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Hey
hey guys I dont think wat she did is that
bad.. She is young and we all make
mistakes. I do not think it was right to
jump to calling her stupid and immature..
So to those of who said things like that
smarten up she came her for help not to be
beaten down mentally...
Christina
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 11-22-03 18:55pm
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Yes their is a test you can take while
your pregnant but it could put your baby
at risk
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how could you act
some immature. I'm not going to be mean
about it, but you should be old enough to
know right from wrong by now. Sleeping
with them boys I know was a mistake. How
do you think your boyfriend is going to
feel when he find out that not his child,
or how you think the child is going to
feel growing up not knowing who their
daddy is 
.That
is some terrible s***. 
i'm not going to be mean about it, but
you've got a lot of growing up to do and
you need to do it quick fast and in a
hurry