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scaredguy
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Hel Please!!! I'm Very Confused
Posted: 01-25-05 06:30am
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Hi I guess i'll just make it straight to
the point....My gf had her period on 18 or
19th of december and I had unportected sex
with my gf on dec 31st I used the stupid
pulling out method I din know it wasn't a
method until I read this forum-_- felling
totally like a jerk now.....Here's the
proble....She had spotting on the 13th of
january till 16th and had her normal
period till from 17th till 25.... Altough
it isn't heavy but it's normal....I'm very
confused that are those implantation
bleeding....But if it is..Then how come
she had a period which was almost 12
days-_- what is going on she took a hpt on
22nd but it came back negative....Please I
need help very much....I dunno waht to do
now....
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SamiNSunisMa
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Posted: 01-25-05 06:44am
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I really dont thinks he is, hpts are very
accurate
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Max_Mummy too be
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Posted: 01-25-05 06:50am
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If you are both that worried, get her to
have a blood test. They are 100%
accurate, I think.
But if she had her period, and the hpt
test said negative, I dont think she would
be.
But anything is possible.
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-25-05 16:54pm
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I dunno how to bring her to a doctor-_- as
she's only 16....I wanna know whats wrong
with her actually...How come she has such
a strange period this time??
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Max_Mummy too be
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Posted: 01-25-05 18:08pm
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It could be anything.
Exercise. If she's doing more or less
than usual.
Stress. If she is more, or even less
stressed than usual.
Growth. If she had a sudden growth
spurt.
Female company. If she's spent alot of
time around a group of females.
Eating. If she's eating more or less
than usual.
Sorry I can pin point exactly why she had
a sudden period.
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-26-05 06:05am
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I wanna know anyone else had this kind of
problems b4 and still being pregnant?
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mumof2
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Posted: 01-26-05 06:24am
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Hope this helps.......
With my first 2 pregnancies I had
threatened miscarriges, normal implatation
bleeding is spotting over a small amount
of time..... Normally any where between
20 minutes to 5 hours but it is basically
a smear of blood on the toilet paper or a
drop on your nickers....... T/m's are
slight bleeding that lasts for a few days
but is not as heavy as a period and is
bright red in colour........
T/m's can lead to full miscarriges ( as I
experianced with pregnancy number 3) often
the bleeding starts off light and as
spotting and lasts a few days...... Then
the full miscarrige happens and if it is
early enough in the pregnancy ie between
4-8 weeks often the woman feels nothing
more than the normal pains she would
experiance during her period, the only
indicator would be a prolonged
period....... Early miscarriges are often
complication free and if that is what
happened to your g/f there is no real way
to tell because you had not confermed the
pregnancy b4 the bleeding....... If she
bled and it was a s heavy as a normal
period and it was prolonged and the test
says not pregnant then there is almost a
99.9 % chance that she is not
pregnant....... Just take more care next
time and wear a condom!
Good luck
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-27-05 01:29am
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Thx for your imformations but her period
was not heavy-_- not like her normal
ones...Usually she uses 2 pads per day but
this time she only uses 1......-_- so
whats the problem?
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Max_Mummy too be
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Posted: 01-27-05 03:36am
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We cant tell you what the problem is, if
there is a problem, then she needs to be
asking a doctor.
Her period, well if she is stressing as
much as you are, her periods bound to be a
bit off this month.
Just chill, wait till next month and see
what happens.
Or if u cant do that, ask her to take a
blood test.
How does she feel about the situation?
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-27-05 03:46am
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I dunno how she feels...We've both kinda
worried bcoz of her strange period which
she never experienced b4
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scaredguy
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little_pineapple
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Posted: 01-27-05 19:16pm
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Then you should ask her how she
feels!!!!!!
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-28-05 02:04am
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Urm...She says she's not feeling strange
but isn't that some ppl doesn't feel
anything even they are pregnant-_-
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scaredguy
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MissMomma
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Posted: 01-29-05 04:56am
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Anything can happen..
Trust those 3 words..
I was spotting a lil bit, every 28 days,
gradually decreasing the amount every
month, then went to the doctor cuz I was
concerned.. And whizzle dizzle dazzle..
I was 19 weeks.. Dont ask how I couldn't
have possibly not known.. I just thought
those times I had morning sickness, I
thought it was the flu going around..
Other than that I didn't pay much
attention.. I was really athletic, which
meant I tried my best to pull myself
together during those times... And I was
also wondering where the extra weight came
from.. But now, i've got a healthy baby
boy, born 10lbs 1oz..... But, its always
safe to get her checked early, so the
doctor could monitor properly, have early
prenatal care...
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jessamyn
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Posted: 01-29-05 06:26am
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Wait it out and test agian but have her
relax and calm down stress only makes
things worse and you need to relax too...
How old is she? And you can get pregnant
off of precum so no the pull out method is
not effective... Why did she have an 8
day period? Thats long
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-29-05 07:37am
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Actually she spotted for 4 days then her
period came but it was a little lighter
than normal which means she got a period
of 10 days-_- missmomma you said you
spotted for a few months but did you had
your period or jsut spotting?She had a
test on the 22nd which is about 4 days
past first day of her period and it came
back neg...But i'm still worried cuz of
her strange period
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MissMomma
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Posted: 01-29-05 16:30pm
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| scaredguy
wrote: | | actually she spotted for 4
days then her period came but it was a
little lighter than normal which means she
got a period of 10 days-_- missmomma you
said you spotted for a few months but did
you had your period or jsut spotting?She
had a test on the 22nd which is about 4
days past first day of her period and it
came back neg...But i'm still worried cuz
of her strange
period |
yes, I did spot, mistakenly thought it for
my period, because it came at the same
time every month...
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-29-05 21:59pm
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Missmomma you mean you only spotted and it
was short?
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scaredguy
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Posted: 01-29-05 22:46pm
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Btw she took a hpt today which is about
the 10th-12th days of her period and the
test came back negative....I guess she's
not pregnant rite-_-
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