Joined: 27 Sep 2007 Posts: 44 Location: Long Beach, Ca USA
Posted: 10-02-07 18:45pm
girl,
he is a psycho forreal and you better
learn to love you first. leave him alone
before he leaves you somewhere in the
woods, dead or something. he is obviously
crazy and you know it. LEAVE HIM ALONE,
and notify the police. so that if
anything happens they'll be aware that it
might have been him. you don't want your
parents to end up on the late night news
looking for their daughter. please leave
him alone.
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blondie_e
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2007 Posts: 159 Location: ,
Posted: 10-02-07 18:54pm
u have to leave him . Honestly people
never ever change. and if he is attacking
you for no reason basically image what he
can do if something serious were going to
happen. This is not a good relationship to
be in, it sounds like a plot of a scary
movie. U need to leave him before its too
late. I understand you love him, but the
question is do you love him enough to
sacrifice your life? If i was you i would
leave him, it would hurt, but time heals
everything.
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MMAFighter
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 378 Location: WA, USA
Suzy Posted: 10-02-07 21:56pm
Suzy, thank you, honestly thank you. I
glad you recognize my achievements and
make me feel important. I kind of wish
you were my big sister or something, it
would sure beat my sour mother who
probably has said less good things about
me than you already have. Thank you for
your encouragement, and thank you for
giving me the will to keep going so that
someday I can give back to those who need
it. Thank you again!
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Makoto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 287 Location: Japan
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Posted: 10-04-07 17:11pm
Quote:
He went to jail
yesterday, for stabbing
someone
Hey stupid, one of these days it will be
you?? Listen to all the advice given to
you here and get the help of your parents,
police, and what not to make a break from
this guy.
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whitetiger22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 74
Re: Get Out!!!! Posted: 01-21-08 17:17pm
suziec
wrote:
I am married to a man with
bipolar disorder so I know what it is like
to care for someone that can be very
unlovely. The nture of an abusive
relationship is that the victim becomes so
entangled in the relationship that he/she
finds it incredibly difficult to leave.
Some call it love; rescuing or
whatever...I just call it an incredibly
awful place to be!
You said it yoursel...You are only a kid
yourself, so make the most of your life
and believe me there is definately a
future out there for you with someone
better than this. You were not put on
this earth to be a matyr for this guy and
your are not responsible for him...
Regardless of what he does. Get out get
out get out and make the most of your
life...Don't hang around and live to
regret it...It will get worse.
Sorry to sound so hard but I cant' help it
...You are crying out for help and for
someone to say get out!
Regards and be safe
suziec
I was married to a guy with bipoler,
sicavania(SPELLING WRONG), suicadal, and
depression. I got out after he abused me.
I even divorced him. I am now better off
with out him so i know where u are coming
from
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whitetiger22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 74
Posted: 01-21-08 17:20pm
I hope you are sill alive out there. If u
get this can u please update so we can all
know whats happening
i just hope that somebody can give ne some
tactful advice on my psycho boyfriend! I
have tried almost everything 2get rid of
him! i am 18 years old..i sholud be
enjoying my life...having fun with
friends...instaed im struggling to get
through each day and battling with a
horrendous relationship in which i feel
totally TRAPPED!
i may sound like im exagerating but it is
serious!
Ive been dating him for 17 months...it
startd off perfect...until my 18th
birthday when he got extremely paranoid
and obsessive. He became so
controlling...he controls everything..what
i wear, who i hang out with...im not
allowed 2 have male friends, we fight
everyday because we have opposite views!
we fight everyday and i cry myself
2sleep.
i cant end it because he threatens me and
only yesterday he demanded £10'000 by
monday if i left him.
im a student studying for my final exams
and i am hoping to study at university
later this year. He is affecting
everything.
i just feel like dieing...honestly because
its getting realli bad.
if my phone is off im in trouble and he
flips.
He blames me because i changed and am not
the same girl he met...well does he blame
me after what he's put me through??
somebody out ther may hav experienced
somthing similiar or may hav some advice
4me...i appreciate it soooo much!
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harmony1
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Joined: 18 May 2008 Posts: 390 Location: , Australia
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Posted: 05-30-08 05:07am
He asked for what??.. Is this guy for
real. When i was younger i was in abusive
relationship like you are. It doesn't get
better hun. Trust me. You know this deep
inside because everytime he does or says
something stupid
WARNING bells go off insideyour head.
listen to yourself.... You're instinct is
right about him... He's no good for you.
Tell your parents. He's a control freak
and to the point where he's completely
wrong in where he's coming from. What i
had to do when i was with my ex Loser of a
boyfriend was put a intervention order on
him. I don't know if you're living with
him or at home but if you're living with
him, move back home and if you're living
at home ...tell you're family whats going
on...Don't reply to phonecalls.. tell him
to stay away and if he doesn't... do the
intervention thing and if he still
doesn''t stay away...he gets locked up.
You're going to be going to uni soon...
Don't let a loser sc*** this up for you.
You must be a smart girl. stop denying
what you know is true...
What..you..know..is...wrong...
I get it.. you probably love him. But he's
not worth your love... AND he doesn't know
how to love you.
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stressed OUT!
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2008 Posts: 2
Update from stressed OUT! Posted: 06-06-08 08:05am
Thankyou sooo much 2 everyone for their
advice! just an update on my situation..i
am now in the middle of my exams and they
are going well thankfully. I have told him
that i want to end it but he is not
allowing anything. So i am not prepared 2
allow him 2 ruin my exams. As he has
threatened 2 prevent me from attending any
exams if i "go on like a bad girl"!!! so
im keeping shut and taking it until my
exams are over. After all, once ive got my
grades i can go to university (cambridge
uni) and hopefully move on from him. By
that time im hoping he gets the message!!
thanks agen! really appreciate it! xx
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harmony1
Supporter
Joined: 18 May 2008 Posts: 390 Location: , Australia
