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Q: Desperate...help
asked by: Shella on January 26th, 2005
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I was wondering how possible it would be to have sex 5 different times, to get pregnant with the withdrawal method. My boyfriend and I did that because we got caught up in the moment and had no protection near by. I am now 9 dayz late for my period. I am usually right on time. I have been getting period cramps and I would run to the bathroom with a tampon in my hand expecting to have it. I have had there cramps along with a clearish vaginal discharge for about 3 weeks now. I am getting really nervous. I think my nerves and stress are taking over my body and making me sick every day... My breasts have been hurting a little lately, and the worst part of all is the constant peeing. I was just wondering if you all felt this way when you first got pregnant. I am very scared, and have taken two preg. Tests, but they are negative, please help me im desperate..
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Tazzy D
replied on January 26th, 2005
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Yes there is a chance that you could be pregnant. But if it is saying neg. It might be to soon to detect or you took them to soon. I would wait a week and if it doesnt start by then I would re take a hpt or go to the doctors to get a blood test done to confirm... Good luck to you and oh by the way yes stress can delay your period.
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steen
replied on January 27th, 2005
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We do have a name for the people who rely on the withdrawal method. We call them "parents." (there is sperm in precum)

that aside, if the test is negative and it has been several weeks since you last had sex, you might not be pregnant. As tazzy said, give it another week or two and then try again, or go to your local clinic and get a real blood test.
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Shella
replied on January 28th, 2005
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Thankz Guyz
Thankz a lot guyz..I made a mistake I was only a week late actually..But still! When you are preg. Do u have period like crampz? And if the hpt is neg, would the blood test show so soon? C'mon guyz post some comments...Only 2 comments out of 50 views so far...Help me I can use anybodys opinion..Thankz guyz!1
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zelda2005
replied on January 28th, 2005
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Hi shella

i hope that you not being pregnant is what you wanted.


I am pregnant and I did a bloodtest on the 28th day of my cycle and it was strongly positive. I experienced period like cramping during the first 3 weeks but apparently this is normal because the uterus is adjusting/expanding for the growing embryo.


Of course, it is still possible that you're pregnant because quite a lot of women have "anniversary periods" especially during the first month or two. This period can last one day or 5 days but the blood itself shouldn't be too dark in colour.


I hope your time will come when you both are ready to start a family. Best wishes

zelda

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Shella
replied on January 28th, 2005
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Thanks
Thank you so much. I do want a child, so does my boyfriend. I think he just wants a kid so we will stay together, but I dont want our staying together to have anything to do with the baby I want it to be bc we love eachother. I want a baby though. I am only 17 and I think that i;m too young, but I am very responsible. I will find out soon and keep u all updated!! Thankz so much!!
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on January 28th, 2005
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Shella~ I applaud that you realize that you aren't ready for a child! Best of luck to you!
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jessamyn
replied on January 29th, 2005
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Have you tested? Why dont you get on birthcontrol if you easily get caught up in the moment?

Try to relax hun stress is no good in this situation!
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Shella
replied on January 29th, 2005
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I was on birth control for about 4 months, and I started gaining weight, it also made me sick, when I went back to change the prescription, turns out my insurance only covers one kind. I would rather not be on birth control anyways, it makes me feel sick. I havent gotten my period yet guyz!!! :( I made an appt for next week for a blood test...I want to be preg. But I dont...I have mixed feelings! I dont know if I should tell my boyfriend I might br preg or not. He will probably think I am just saying it to make him stay with me, we got into a fight : / should I tell him or just wait till I am positive if I am or not? :( I am so strssed! Help me!!! I am still cramping having discharge and vomiting (at wierd times) like before dinner everyday. I also get up numerous times in the night to urinate!! Wow, I am so paranoid, I thnk I am just so stressed out im making myself be late!
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l2at24
replied on January 30th, 2005
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I know it's easier said than done, but you need to chill out. Stressing is def making you feel worse. I know I have thrown up b/c of nerves before. Just try to stay calm until you get your test done. I would tell him that you might be. Maybe he'll think twice next time you guys get 'caught in the moment'. I would tell you from my experience if you're not sure if you want a baby or not, you don't. I felt the same way with my first baby and I def wish I would have waited.
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Shella
replied on January 30th, 2005
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Thankz, I hate it how everything everyone tells me always turns out right, and im always wrong. You guys are awesome people! Im scared to tell him though, I dont know how to bring it back up, I told him I wasnt a week ago to get him off my case...Big mistake though. If I am preg. I am not having an abortion or giving it up for adoption, I dont believe in abortion at all...I would never ever kill a baby, and I dont want to carry my baby for 9 months then give it away...I donno wish me the best though : /
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jessamyn
replied on January 30th, 2005
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Try switching birthcontrols there are so many different types I went thru 3 till I found one that suited me
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zelda2005
replied on January 30th, 2005
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Dear shella, I know how you feel cause the waiting is the worst!!! Best is to find something else to occupy your time..Play computer games or read a book. If you are pregnant you'll have 9 months and 18 years to worry about it and if you're not....You're not ;-)

and you know what...If this guy is the right one for you, he'll also enjoy and be happy with you (after the initial shock...) because it's his baby too...Wow!!!

Let us know your results please??
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Shella
replied on January 30th, 2005
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I will deff. Let you all know. This is my one group pf supporters. I do not get along well with my dad, and I lifve with him. I cannot live with my mom. I am trying to quit smoking and I dont drink anymore, just incase I am preggo...I dont now..Thanks a bunch girls you're awesome!
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