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Shella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 12
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Desperate...help
Posted: 01-26-05 21:49pm
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I was wondering how possible it would be
to have sex 5 different times, to get
pregnant with the withdrawal method. My
boyfriend and I did that because we got
caught up in the moment and had no
protection near by. I am now 9 dayz late
for my period. I am usually right on
time. I have been getting period cramps
and I would run to the bathroom with a
tampon in my hand expecting to have it. I
have had there cramps along with a
clearish vaginal discharge for about 3
weeks now. I am getting really nervous.
I think my nerves and stress are taking
over my body and making me sick every
day... My breasts have been hurting a
little lately, and the worst part of all
is the constant peeing. I was just
wondering if you all felt this way when
you first got pregnant. I am very scared,
and have taken two preg. Tests, but they
are negative, please help me im
desperate..
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Tazzy D
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Posts: 3718
Location: , va
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Posted: 01-26-05 22:17pm
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Yes there is a chance that you could be
pregnant. But if it is saying neg. It
might be to soon to detect or you took
them to soon. I would wait a week and if
it doesnt start by then I would re take a
hpt or go to the doctors to get a blood
test done to confirm... Good luck to you
and oh by the way yes stress can delay
your period.
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steen
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Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 01-27-05 00:49am
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We do have a name for the people who rely
on the withdrawal method. We call them
"parents." (there is sperm in precum)
that aside, if the test is negative and it
has been several weeks since you last had
sex, you might not be pregnant. As tazzy
said, give it another week or two and then
try again, or go to your local clinic and
get a real blood test.
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Shella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 12
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Thankz Guyz
Posted: 01-28-05 01:05am
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Thankz a lot guyz..I made a mistake I was
only a week late actually..But still!
When you are preg. Do u have period
like crampz? And if the hpt is neg,
would the blood test show so soon? C'mon
guyz post some comments...Only 2 comments
out of 50 views so far...Help me I can use
anybodys opinion..Thankz guyz!1
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zelda2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2005
Posts: 61
Location: France
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Posted: 01-28-05 05:37am
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Hi shella
i hope that you not being pregnant is what
you wanted.
I am pregnant and I did a bloodtest on the
28th day of my cycle and it was strongly
positive. I experienced period like
cramping during the first 3 weeks but
apparently this is normal because the
uterus is adjusting/expanding for the
growing embryo.
Of course, it is still possible that
you're pregnant because quite a lot of
women have "anniversary periods"
especially during the first month or two.
This period can last one day or 5 days
but the blood itself shouldn't be too dark
in colour.
I hope your time will come when you both
are ready to start a family. Best
wishes
zelda
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Shella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 12
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Thanks
Posted: 01-28-05 17:11pm
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Thank you so much. I do want a child, so
does my boyfriend. I think he just wants
a kid so we will stay together, but I dont
want our staying together to have anything
to do with the baby I want it to be bc we
love eachother. I want a baby though. I
am only 17 and I think that i;m too young,
but I am very responsible. I will find
out soon and keep u all updated!! Thankz
so much!!
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SamiNSunisMa
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Joined: 27 Nov 2004
Posts: 1528
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Posted: 01-28-05 17:14pm
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Shella~ I applaud that you realize that
you aren't ready for a child! Best of
luck to you!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 01-29-05 05:48am
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Have you tested? Why dont you get on
birthcontrol if you easily get caught up
in the moment?
Try to relax hun stress is no good in this
situation!
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Shella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 12
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Posted: 01-29-05 23:39pm
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I was on birth control for about 4 months,
and I started gaining weight, it also made
me sick, when I went back to change the
prescription, turns out my insurance only
covers one kind. I would rather not be on
birth control anyways, it makes me feel
sick. I havent gotten my period yet
guyz!!! :( I made an appt for next week
for a blood test...I want to be preg. But
I dont...I have mixed feelings! I dont
know if I should tell my boyfriend I might
br preg or not. He will probably think I
am just saying it to make him stay with
me, we got into a fight : / should I tell
him or just wait till I am positive if I
am or not? :( I am so strssed! Help
me!!! I am still cramping having
discharge and vomiting (at wierd times)
like before dinner everyday. I also get
up numerous times in the night to
urinate!! Wow, I am so paranoid, I thnk I
am just so stressed out im making myself
be late!
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l2at24
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Posts: 1509
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Posted: 01-30-05 01:30am
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I know it's easier said than done, but you
need to chill out. Stressing is def
making you feel worse. I know I have
thrown up b/c of nerves before. Just try
to stay calm until you get your test done.
I would tell him that you might be.
Maybe he'll think twice next time you guys
get 'caught in the moment'. I would tell
you from my experience if you're not sure
if you want a baby or not, you don't. I
felt the same way with my first baby and I
def wish I would have waited.
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Shella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 12
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Posted: 01-30-05 04:21am
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Thankz, I hate it how everything everyone
tells me always turns out right, and im
always wrong. You guys are awesome
people! Im scared to tell him though, I
dont know how to bring it back up, I told
him I wasnt a week ago to get him off my
case...Big mistake though. If I am preg.
I am not having an abortion or giving it
up for adoption, I dont believe in
abortion at all...I would never ever kill
a baby, and I dont want to carry my baby
for 9 months then give it away...I donno
wish me the best though : /
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jessamyn
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Posted: 01-30-05 05:13am
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Try switching birthcontrols there are so
many different types I went thru 3 till I
found one that suited me
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zelda2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2005
Posts: 61
Location: France
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Posted: 01-30-05 07:38am
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Dear shella, I know how you feel cause
the waiting is the worst!!! Best is to
find something else to occupy your
time..Play computer games or read a book.
If you are pregnant you'll have 9 months
and 18 years to worry about it and if
you're not....You're not ;-)
and you know what...If this guy is the
right one for you, he'll also enjoy and be
happy with you (after the initial
shock...) because it's his baby
too...Wow!!!
Let us know your results please??
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Shella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 12
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Posted: 01-30-05 20:27pm
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I will deff. Let you all know. This is
my one group pf supporters. I do not get
along well with my dad, and I lifve with
him. I cannot live with my mom. I am
trying to quit smoking and I dont drink
anymore, just incase I am preggo...I dont
now..Thanks a bunch girls you're awesome!
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