Non-gay Anal Question For Guys From Girl Posted: 10-29-03 20:57pm
Hello,
i am a woman and my boyfriend an I have
been together for 2 years now.
We are pretty open to trying new things
sexually.
I have always wanted to analy stimulate
him. I find this very sexy and
erotic. Wheter it be with my finger
my tounge or a dildo. I would love
to do it how ever he likes it. My
only problem is how do I ask if he would
like me to do it with out it being an
awkward situation?
My boyfriend will lick my anus, penetrate
it with his finger, dildo or his penis.
He knows I can't get enough of it, I
want him to experience the same thing
how many guys out there enjoy this and how
did your girlfriend approach you with it.
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LAWRENCE
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Man, Why Can't My Girl Be More Like That Posted: 11-01-03 04:03am
Me and my girl are pretty much into all
sorts of sex...I especially love doggy
style and while having sex that way, I
like to stick my finger in her anus. She
however doesn't like it. She allows me
to do it but does not get any pleasure out
of it at all. If she were to tell me,
while we are screwing, in a nasty way, to
put it (penis) in her anus...I would
probably get so excited i'd nut b4 I could
put it in...So in the heat of making
love/screwing, just tell him what you want
and how you want it...Probably more
exciting for him if you demand it.
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minerwater
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Posted: 11-04-03 13:51pm
My man love it!!
I never stick my finger in all the way but
play around in the opening...He goes
crazy.
Once I put in the vibe a little and he
orgazimed just from the vibrations.
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Seagreen Eyed Girl
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What to Do Posted: 11-05-03 15:45pm
Thanks for the suggestions. But can
anyone tell me how to approach it. How
do I do it, do I just do it or should I
ask him first. Should I give him oral
sex and then touch his anus what to do,
what to do.
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A-Lil'Mama*2
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Seagreeneyedgirl Posted: 11-06-03 17:04pm
I am in the same boat. The last
relationship I was in, the guy loved anal
sex, licking, dildos, viberators. We
both did. My now husband, however, does
not. I didn't know how to apprach him
either, so I said it jokingly. He
thought it was disgusting. I have
literally begged him, with no avail. He
love to lick my butt, and finger it and so
forth. I'm not sure if he realizes how
much i'd like to do the same to him. I
am only 20. I don't want to live with
these fantasies of what I want to do to
him forever. I guess what I am trying to
say is, don't just do it, because he truly
may feel offended. Maybe telling him in
the heat of the moment would be an idea.
But. What if he's about to get off, and
you are to, and you stick your finger back
there and he gets grossed out? That is
what i'm afraid of.
Marissa
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saraludlum
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Posted: 11-06-03 17:54pm
I am, as well in the same boat as the
other girls. My boyfriend and I are very
open, but I think they are afraid of
themselves being penitrated. I am still
working on that, but I learned that by
starting off slow may be the trick!-we'll
see. Maybe next time when you are going
down on him, keep licking lower and lower
and see what happens, that's what I did
and he loved it. He's still a little
freaked out with me sticking my finger in,
and definately wouldn't let me use a dildo
just yet, but i'm working on it. Good
luck and let us know if you find any
tricks :d
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bellybluesun
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Posted: 11-08-03 10:36am
My boyfriend now is the first one to lick
my butt. I really enjoyed it. I wanted
to see if he would like it. There is a
vein or tube or something that is just
below the sack, between the sack and the
butt hole. One day while you are 69ing
(its just easier this way), start to
fondle the balls with your tounge and
gently suck. Then, go lower and lower.
Lick that vein thing. He will definitely
enjoy that and his body will immediately
respond to your touch. Keep this up for a
while, and then go futher south. See how
he reacts. If he acts like he likes it,
but says he doesn't, tell him that you
know how his body responed and that he did
enjoy it. If he doesn't seem to like it,
then say you did it on an accident.
But, if he does...After a few times of you
doing this, get it really wet one day.
Grab his cheeks while he is on top of you
one day, and begin to move inward until
you have what you want. This is how I did
it to my boyfriend. He likes it every now
and then, but he thinks that it means that
he is gay, so he won't admit it, but he
lets me do it and I love his response.
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JamieMc
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Hey There Posted: 01-04-04 08:33am
Hey I have had a girl to that to me once
during the heat of the pation it felt good
but she would not let me go further with
her so she never got more then a half inch
in me. How ever I am inbaresed by
because I am guy and well hell its
somthing we are not that comfortible with.
My wife joked with me about it but she
said she was kidding now reading this
maybe she was not joking. We are very
open to new things and I belive fair is
fair. The only reason why I would let
her is cause if she wanted it and there is
a presure point there to. You might try
touching between his anus and his sack
because there is a presure point there and
you might be able to go further after that
let me jamie
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Diablo69
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Posted: 01-05-04 20:52pm
When I masterbuate, I like to put my
finger inside my anus and stimulate my
g-spot. It's a hell of an orgasm. I
cannot find a girl that will help me out
in this department. Any guys having any
doubts should try it at least once,
especially if they have a wife or
girlfriend willing to give it a run.
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cowboybob
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Re: Non-gay Anal Question For Guys From Girl Posted: 01-07-07 23:05pm
seagreen eyed girl
wrote:
hello,
i am a woman and my boyfriend an I have
been together for 2 years now.
We are pretty open to trying new things
sexually.
I have always wanted to analy stimulate
him. I find this very sexy and
erotic. Wheter it be with my finger
my tounge or a dildo. I would love
to do it how ever he likes it. My
only problem is how do I ask if he would
like me to do it with out it being an
awkward situation?
My boyfriend will lick my anus, penetrate
it with his finger, dildo or his penis.
He knows I can't get enough of it, I
want him to experience the same thing
how many guys out there enjoy this and how
did your girlfriend approach you with
it.
well my girlfriend just started massaging
my rectum and after a momet she just
entered her finger and we were off from
there. Asking may never get you there.
Just do it, if he likes it or not he will
let you know
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hornyjay
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Dear Seagreen-eyed Girl Posted: 10-18-07 17:46pm
My wife and I have been married happily
for many years, and have both benefited
from taking care of each other's needs. I,
like you, am VERY erotically stimulated by
her anus and butt, and wish she were more
attentive to mine. I keep my anus and
rectum EXTREMELY clean and lubricated (it
is easy to get in the habit of keeping
them clean!), and she will actually use
her finger on me if I ask, but she never
suggests it herself. I want her to
penetrate my anus every time we have sex,
and wish she could develop the desire for
me in that way. But alas, these things can
take time. To have a woman who is not
only willing, but WANTS to satisfy her man
in such a way is a real blessing, and I
imagine he will come to his senses and see
it that way before too long. Maybe you can
show him information about the health
benefits of prostate massage? If it is not
too unpleasurable to you, maybe help him
with a cleanout session in the shower? I
have no attraction to men, but my wife
objects to using any object that reminds
her of a penis, as it conjurs up doubts in
her mind about my masculinity and leaning
towards being gay (NOT an option for me,
and my wife is gorgeous, I just want HER
to do it to me). Any of you women out
there should take heed and partake of open
discussion about this. Take it from me,
having a clean anus and rectum and
enjoying sexual stimulation there does not
make you gay. And, from what I've read,
wives can really help their husbands'
health outlook by being open minded to
massaging their husbands' prostate glands
via the rectum. I hope you two are blessed
by growing open-mindedness and love!
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deebaby621
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Posted: 10-19-07 06:52am
i've messed around with my boyfriend's
area a few times & just recently i was
going down & him & just happened
to lick a little lower & a little
lower.. & he loved it. He realized
that i was getting really turned on by his
responses so i think that was his
motivation! i think it's really erotic
& i'm a bit of a freak in the bed so i
love it. i've got maybe 1/2 inch in with
him before but i truly doubt it will go
any further. some heterosexual men think
that this act downs their masculinity but
- i'm telling you - it truly is a turn-on
for me & i hope he will loosen up [no
pun intended] a little more in the future
& be more open to it.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-19-07 09:53am
This is a REALLY old topic!
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deebaby621
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Posted: 10-19-07 10:24am
well someone brought it back by posting
about it so i figured i'd add to it.
besides, when you post on an old topic it
allows for users to actually see it in the
list of latest topics.. so naturally,
people will read these old topics that
have been recently commented on. i don't
see why it's hurting anything..
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donb_fl
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Posted: 10-23-07 12:12pm
a nice prostate massage goes a long way...
lol.. especially since most males can
multiple O from it..
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woohoo71
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Look Before You Leap! Posted: 10-24-07 22:57pm
Having a tongue down there is the most
guaranteed way of picking up whatever
std's someone has, esp when it comes to
hep C. To get a finger in there, you have
to do the combo move during oral; it
requires both hands. My chick does it all
the time. Just make sure your nails are
trimmed; NO sharp edges! Also, make sure
you don't have any hang-nails or minor
cuts on whichever finger you'll use; you
could end up with a septicemia where you
get a crazy fever, chills, your arm swells
up, becomes very painful, and you'll be
stuck in a hospital bed receiving
megadoses of anti-bacterial/anti-viral
products by intravenous drip. Word to the
ladies: just because a sexual technique is
described in Cosmopolitan magazine,
doesn't mean EVERY guy out there likes it
or that you have to pressure your man into
doing it or that your relationship is any
less meaningful because you haven't tried
it already. Take it easy! Sheesh!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-24-07 23:29pm
As far as catching anything, you can
simply use a dental dam (like a condom,
but flat, usually used by lesbians for
safe sex) for the oral stimulation, and
then use a condom around your finger for
the physical internal deep stimulation.
There is a way to avoid contact, yay
condom!
