Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
I Hate Drama!!! Posted: 10-30-03 11:56am
Hey yall!! I know its been a long time
since i've been on here but i've been
really concentrating on my school work. I
am a senior and this is my last year!!
Ok...Let me tell you about this stupid
drama!! Me and my boyfriend have been
together for almost 8 months; but we've
known each other for about 2 years now. I
always liked him..I had the (in caps)
hugest crush on him since I first laid
eyes on him!!! Anyways...I am deeply in
love with him and would (in caps) not do
anything to hurt or disrespect him in any
way. Well, about a week ago his dads
girlfriend got on this site and told his
father that I was writing "nasty" things
about his son on the internet. Now, I
know that many of yall know what I have
written and barely any of it was about
him. It was all about me. If I did write
anything about him it was how much I loved
him or how great he was!! Me and his dad
got along great!!! I considered him to be
like the father that I don't have. (i
have a father..But we never speak) for him
to believe that I wrote "nasty" things
about his son on the internet is obserd
and it really hurt my feelings!! It
doesn't really bother me anymore because I
know what I wrote and I know that none of
it was degrating to (in caps) anyone! My
boyfriend told me not to worry about it
because everyone was going through a lot
right now. And I was very well aware of
what was going on. It just seems to me
like they are trying to take everything
out on me.
It has been about a week now and we havent
spoken to his dad. I really miss going
over there and hangin out with him. I
swear to yall...He was the coolest dude
you will ever meet. Hopefully they
unnderstand that everything I wrote on
here was informative and educated.
Nothing I wrote was degrating to anyone.
Why would I write "nasty" things about my
boyfriend?!?! Wouldn't that make me look
like a promiscuous person !?!?
Sorry for making this sooo long...But its
just really been bothering me! It's like
they don't even care. They questioned me
about it and I told them the truth. I (in
caps) never wrote anyting "nasty" about
your son...I am not the type of person to
lie to anyone. My life moddo is...I don't
lie so I expect not to be lied to.
Thanks for listening!! Ps: I have been
reading everyones posts!! Good luck to
all of the november babies that are
due!!!
Sarah
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Approach His Dad... Posted: 10-30-03 13:32pm
And see what he says. Tell him exactly
how you feel and do this with your
boyfriend present. He won't be able to
lie then, and also bring them both on the
sight.
Good luck,
jennifer
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rscherer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2003 Posts: 1 Location: norfolk va
There Might Be Posted: 11-13-03 19:28pm
There might be another underlying problem
or cause for his dad's anger or
misconception. Be careful you don't open
pandora's box and find out he may have
developed feeling for you and may be
ashamed about it. Or that some one else
does not like you and purposely askewed
the information. Just take everything
that is said with a grain of salt. You
are two young to put every all your eggs
in one basket.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-13-03 19:31pm
Just explain to your dad everything. Be
like I wouldnt say anything nasty except
that we were unprotected! Lol. No, but
let him know that you didnt say that.
Keep going around and dont let it bother
you because thats what the girlfriend
wants. For them to not like you. But you
wont let that happen so ignore it.
