Ok you guys this is quiet a story, about a
year ago I met my ex at this party we both
were getting out of relationships so in a
sense we both were vulnerbale. We started
to date and fell in love it got to the
point we were never seen apart- I loved
him and still do! A couple of months past
and we broke up because he felt that we
needed some space that things was getting
deep and he needed time to think so I
respected that and left him alone although
I was still having sex with him- we
eventually got back together things were
looking pretty good a couple of months go
by and we break up again over a bad
misunderstanding. So after that yes we
still was having sex but he also had his
lil friend girls so doubtedly that hurted
me. Altercations happened with him and
other girls, but not sex...... We've been
broken up since april I still love and yes
he loves me and yes we still have sex and
now I think i'm pregnant so I dont know
what to do, he does know about the whole
situation about thinking I might be
pregnant.... My ex has hurt me in a lot
of ways and I dont know if I trust him
anymore
baby blue
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 144 Location: CALI
to Baby Blue...... Posted: 10-30-03 16:42pm
Whats up im lildreamer.......How old are
you?.....If u dont mind me asking. How do
you know he loves you if he broke up with
you? If you still have sex w/him....Then
probably he is w/ others..Or maybe not.
Maybe he just messing around w/ girls and
doesnt sleep with them. Why do you say he
hurt you? In what ways? I think you
should stop sleeping with him just to make
sure he doesnt keep coming back for
that.(dont be offended) maybe if you dont
give it to him..He might somewhere else.
I know what your saying cuz ive been
through it and im only 17. What does he
say about u being pregnant? Take a test
and find out for sure. Take a blood test
too. If he loves you he should be with
you. Why wouldnt he be? I dont know the
whole story between you too but I feel
u..Im going through a heartache myself.
Trust is
something...............Huge....If theres
no trust , theres no relationship.
Take care!
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shey
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003 Posts: 1 Location: sydney
Baby Blue Posted: 11-08-03 03:41am
Hay ya im new, im shey
i feel really sad for you, take a test and
go from there, there is no point worrying
about it if your not, but if you are then
take action. My thought is that if he has
been doing what he has been doing then
whos to say if you are pregnant hes not
gonna continue with the same habits
throughout the pregnancy and after the
baby is born. I am 20 and am gonna have a
baby in 5 weeks the father is 24, we were
together 2 months when I found out I was
pregnant, he was happy and all was good
but within 3 weeks of him finding out he
was gonna be a father he started dwelling
and doing all that he did be4 we met,
going out drinking chatting up girls
getting numbers and all that a single guy
does, I put up with till 2 days ago then
moved out I am now going through the whole
thing alone with my mum, so think about it
and prepare yourself for that out come,
make sure its what you want and dont rely
on him, if hes there then good but but
prepare yourself to do it alone, it doesnt
hurt as much that way, good luck, sorry if
it sounded harsh, I no how you feal im
deeply in love with the father of my child
, and just always remember that if its
ment to be it will find a way. Youll make
it believe me......
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-13-03 13:33pm
Im with shey. You really have to be
prepared for anything that might come
along because you were a booty call. You
broke up and you were still having sex.
And he was with other girls...I think you
meant accompanying other girls because
altercation means he was arguing with him
and other girls. Anyways. Sorry for
that. But it looks like hes been using
you for sex and because you were
emotionally tied, you accepted it. But
you should find out if you are pregnant
and then let him know. But be prepared
for a let down incase. Because he might
leave you and say its not his, after all
you were just having sex. There is no
reationship without trust either.
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Trina252
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Durham,North Carolina
Posted: 12-02-03 20:49pm
I know exactly what you are going through.
I'm currently in the same situation but
me an my ex never got back together. We
still are having sex though and he still
has a girlfriend or whatever. I know
how hurting it can be when you are put in
a situation like that especially when you
believe you are in love. All I can say
is I wish for the best and good luck!!!
~trina~
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-03-03 00:22am
Yeah, you should definately stop sleeping
with him. And if you are pregnant, do
you really want to get back together with
him? It seems to me that you and the
baby (if you are pregnant) would be better
off with you as the full time mother, and
him as the father, but only a friend to
you. You don't want to take the
relationship further and have him end up
cheating on you, or leaving you and the
baby later on in life. Just don't do
anything drastic. If you turn out to be
pregnant it is not just your life anymore.
You will be responsible for another
life.
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