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Arghhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

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lil_blaze2004

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Arghhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!! Posted: 02-01-05 15:08pm


I think i'm gonna leave my bf. He's a good guy and all but I just can't stand this sh*t anymore. He's been unemplyed for a month and wants to go back to school next month to become a graphic designer. The thing he doesn't seem to get is that i'm gonna be on maternity leave which means less $$$. I can't pay for rent, bills, and support him on the salary i'm gonna be getting. I feel like all he cares about is his music, and himself. He keeps saying that he wants to better himself for the baby but if I can't keep a roof over my childs head how is that bettering things???? I just don't know what to do anymore. We're always fighting over money lately since I am the only one with an income. Right now it's fine but after I only get 55% of my salary. I'm sitting at work crying right now.. It's just great!!!! medical question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Princess385

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:11pm


Sorry to har about that, I hope everything goes well for you.

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:17pm


Poor lil_blaze!!!!!!! Talk to him. Make him understand your point!! You are totally right... It's not time for him to go back to school, unless he has money put aside to help you guys... Or can he get a school loan or bursery?

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:19pm

lexiee wrote:

poor lil_blaze!!!!!!! Talk to him. Make him understand your point!! You are totally right... It's not time for him to go back to school, unless he has money put aside to help you guys... Or can he get a school loan or bursery?

ya he has a loan for school but it only covers school. And even then there is still 125$ to left to pay for the program, and there's a 50$ fee for the entrance test. J'te dis j'suis fatiguée de ca....

lifeguard384

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:19pm


I agree, tell him what's up. He needs to know where you're coming from. If he wants to be better for the baby, then he needs to think about the baby, not himself! He needs to take responsibility! Good luck to you, girl!

Princess385

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:22pm


Maybe you leaving him will give him that reality check. He might straightne out and see what he's missing once you're gone. I left my hubby and spent the night at my dad's house....Tim got the picture and things have changed. :)

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:23pm

lil_blaze2004 wrote:

lexiee wrote:

i know!! :( sébas was going to go to university part-time (at night) after work... Just to keep himself up to date because he's a computer programmer.... But once I got pregnant he figured it wasn't time. I'm glad I didn't have to convince him.

Does he think he can still pay his half of stuff while at school? If he does go...And can't help out with the bills... Can you move back with your parents' or something (i know you probably don't want to)? At least if you have somewhere to go... If would take away some stress.

Donne-moi des nouvelles.

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:27pm

lexiee wrote:

lil_blaze2004 wrote:

lexiee wrote:

i can't move in with my mom as she lives in edmonton and it has to be the most boring city in canada--lol I also can't move back in with her as i;ve been on my own since 15 and now is not the time to move in with her. I love my house and could afford it if I really had to or I could go and get a 4 1/2 (2 bedroom apt for those that don't get it) we'll see after we have a talk tonight...

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:31pm


Good luck for tonight. And keep us updated!!!

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:34pm

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good luck for tonight. And keep us updated!!!

i will but remember I have the funeral tomorrow, so after... Hey are you in 450, 819 or 418 area code?????

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:37pm

lil_blaze2004 wrote:

lexiee wrote:

good luck for tonight. And keep us updated!!!

i will but remember I have the funeral tomorrow, so after... Hey are you in 450, 819 or 418 area code?????

ahh that's true!! I forgot :*| sorry.

I'm in the 450 area code

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Posted: 02-01-05 15:48pm

lexiee wrote:

lil_blaze2004 wrote:

lexiee wrote:

good luck for tonight. And keep us updated!!!

i will but remember I have the funeral tomorrow, so after... Hey are you in 450, 819 or 418 area code?????

ahh that's true!! I forgot :*| sorry.

I'm in the 450 area code

no prob!!!

Cool so your not extremelly(sp) long distance!!!! Lol

LeXiee

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Posted: 02-01-05 16:03pm


Heheh nope :)

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Posted: 02-01-05 16:16pm


Sorry bout your situation blaze!!! Good luck!

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Posted: 02-01-05 18:39pm


Hey hun im here