Please Can Some1 Give Me An Answer??!?! Posted: 02-01-05 16:59pm
Me and my bf have been together for about
a year and a half now and we've been
sexually active, but when we get down to
having sex and he goes really really hard
it hurts sometimes, and other times it
blows me off the wall!! Does anyone know
why it hurts when a guy goes hard?!? And
does this happen to anyone else?!? Is
there something wrong with me? Or can
something happen if he continues to go
hard??? Please can someone give me an
answer!!!!!!!
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Princess385
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2004 Posts: 407 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-01-05 17:04pm
Hmmm...He's probably hitting your cervix,
if that's possible!! He's probably going
to deep and maybe have him lay off a bit
of going that deep if it hurts. I've had
that happen to me as well before. You
also might be shorter from opening to
cervix than some other women reason it'
shappening to you!! Just have him go a
bit easier and you should be okay!!
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prettybabie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 17 Location: Texas
Posted: 02-01-05 17:11pm
Thanks! I've told him to stop some times
cuz it sometimes really hurts and I get
tingly feelings down my legs, I find it
odd, but I think i'll tell him to just lay
off going that hard! I also have another
question, i've never been able to make
myself have an orgasm, I don't know how to
get one!!! He's tried everything and
nothing happens. I try to think sexual
thoughts but it just doesn't work!! Can
someone tell me the best way to have an
orgasm?? I've heard from sooo many people
that you have to do it yourself and you'll
beable to get one everytime, is that true?
Cuz i've also tried to do it myself, and
my clit is really sensitive and I can't
get myself to get over the hill!!! Can
someone give me some pointers?!?!!
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Princess385
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2004 Posts: 407 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-01-05 17:18pm
prettybabie
wrote:
thanks! I've told him to
stop some times cuz it sometimes really
hurts and I get tingly feelings down my
legs, I find it odd, but I think i'll tell
him to just lay off going that hard! I
also have another question, i've never
been able to make myself have an orgasm, I
don't know how to get one!!! He's tried
everything and nothing happens. I try to
think sexual thoughts but it just doesn't
work!! Can someone tell me the best way
to have an orgasm?? I've heard from sooo
many people that you have to do it
yourself and you'll beable to get one
everytime, is that true? Cuz i've also
tried to do it myself, and my clit is
really sensitive and I can't get myself to
get over the hill!!! Can someone give me
some
pointers?!?!!
try doing kegels....That's where you
tighten the muscle down there by sqeezing
it. If it helps when you're peeing try
stoppign peeing to get the feeling, then
do it when you're not peeing. That did
it for me!! Lol :)
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prettybabie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 17 Location: Texas
Posted: 02-01-05 17:33pm
Wow, i've never heard of that one before!
I'll try it. So its like I have to try to
stop myself from peeing, so I get this
feeling and then do it while we are havig
sex? Do I have it correct!?!
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Princess385
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2004 Posts: 407 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-01-05 17:42pm
No don't do it while you're having
sex.....Do it during the day whenever
you're like sitting around or what not.
But while your peee try stoping the pee so
you can feel the muscles that you're using
to stp the pee from coming out. Then do
that during the day and you'll get tighter
and what not and it does something to help
with orgasms. Now it's not going to work
over night, ti's going to take a few
weeks. :)
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prettybabie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 17 Location: Texas
Posted: 02-01-05 17:47pm
Ahhh okay, now I gotcha! Lol, well i'll
try that out and i'll let you know!
Thanks for the tip!
