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Ducky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 31
Location: foley
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Posted: 02-07-05 21:24pm
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Hey thanks everyone. I know some of you
got the wrong impression of what I was
getting at about raising my sister as
mine. What I meant was that I raised her
by being with her and taking care of her
all the time. I didnt mean buying her
things and stuff so I was just getting at
I know I would know how to take care of a
little one just fine. But thanks for
everyones advice it really did make me
think and I really do want to wait until
forsurely outta school and hopefully when
we are finacially ready. But I have
another question. Could I be not fertal
yet? I mean I have had many chances of
where if I were to get pg I would of, by
meaning mostly from breakage of the
condom. So could I not be fertal yet? Or
should I already be fertal and its just a
sign im not ready? Thanks everyone
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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Posted: 02-07-05 21:30pm
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I've read that it takes an average couple
up to a year to succesfully conieve even
when they are trying. That means doing
it all the time while ovualting etc....So
don't worry hun! When it's your time,
you will know and your body will know!!
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mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 420
Location: Canada
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Posted: 02-07-05 22:18pm
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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for
9 months then I got pregnant, and he cam
in me everytime. ( iknow all you girls
are sayin you asked for it lol)but my
point is I didnt get pregnant for those 9
months just becuase you didnt get pregnnat
the first time doesnt mean it isnt going
to happen and that you are infertile.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1509
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Posted: 02-08-05 08:22am
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No, you don't want a baby.
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: San Antonio TX
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Posted: 02-10-05 19:57pm
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I got pregnant when I was 14 years old
and had my baby when I was 15 my son is 6
months now and im barely turning 16. My
boyfriend was 17 when I got pregnant now
hes 18 turning 19 it kind of surprised me
when you said your boyfriend wants a baby
cause when I told my boyfriend he told me
he didnt want me to have it. It really is
kind of hard for us since we both werent
ready for a baby and we both dont have a
job. Alot of things have changed for me
since I had a baby im frusterated all the
time, I dont get enough sleep, and I
never can do anything by myself anymore
cause I have my baby and worst of all
everytime I need something for my baby
like pampers or something I have to ask
my mom to buy them for me and I really
feel bad cause its mine and my boyfriends
responsibility to do that but since we
dont have jobs its hard . I love my
baby more than anything but honestly if I
can go back in time I would cause now I
know how hard it is to have a baby at the
age I am right now so really my advise for
u is to wait u really dont need a baby
right now .
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
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Posted: 02-11-05 00:54am
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Why cant either of you get jobs?
Especially him! Are you atleast both in
school still?
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:18am
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Ya, why can't you get jobs???
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:29am
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I mean, he's going to be 19 years old!!
Even if he's still in school, he can get a
part time job to help cover some of the
expenses!!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:30am
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Dude seriously I mean even my friend jonny
hes a full time student and works 2 jobs!
Hahah
this dude has no excuses
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: San Antonio TX
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:36am
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Well the reason why I cant get a job is
cause im not 16 yet but trust me when I do
turn 16 I will get a job and support my
baby by myself. As for my boyfriend he
has been trying to get a job he puts
applications everywhere and no one ever
calls him back. And yes I still go to
school my boyfriend already graduated.
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:41am
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Getting a job takes more than just filling
out applications.....Places are hiring all
the time....There really is no
excuse....He needs to call the businesses
like a week after he turns in applications
to ask about it. That's how I have got
all my jobs. I call them if they don't
call me....Some places will hire at 15 and
a half...
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:45am
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Yeah and get online turn in resumes...
Look in the newspaper... Not just local
stores... Go to large corportations... I
mean he could be a flippin janitor
somewhere if he applied... Any job is
better than no job... Hes not going to
college? Whos supporting you until you do
get a job? Do your parents know? Are
they going to?
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: San Antonio TX
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:50am
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He does do that but they always tell him
they havent looked at it and that goes on
for like weeks, even the places that say
that there hiring do that. And I do t
know where u live at but over here where I
live I do have to be 16 in order to work I
have tried getting applications at alot of
places and calling alot of places and they
all said I had to be 16 in order to work.
Its not like were lazy or anything.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 02-11-05 08:53am
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I understand you waiting till 16 but him
there are jobs hes just not finding them..
Go to an emplyment office or somethign!
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: San Antonio TX
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Posted: 02-11-05 09:03am
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He does go online and fill out
applications and stuff. You dont know
half of the stuff hes tryied doing to get
a job. I dont know why but for him its
just not that easy hes not slow or nothing
I just dont know how come no one will hire
him. I live with my mom still and shes
the one who supports me . I honestly dont
know if my boyfriend is going to college
or not . And yeah I do agree with u when
u say any job is better than no job its
money he dosent care where he works the
point is no one will hire him.
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: San Antonio TX
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Posted: 02-11-05 09:07am
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Yeah I know hes going to be 19 and hes the
one that suppose to be suppoting me and my
baby but u cant really say its his fault
for not getting hired somewhere . What
is the unemployment office for?
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 02-11-05 09:08am
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Emplyment office can hook you up with
jobs!
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005
Posts: 18
Location: San Antonio TX
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Posted: 02-11-05 09:11am
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O ive heard of it before I just didnt know
what they did .
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