Ok so my bipolar boyfriend broke up with
me because he said that he couldnt handle
his head. We are so in love and I know he
just did it because he doesnt want me to
get hurt? Well he told me that he needs
to get himself sorted out and to fix
himself. So I said do what you need to I
am here if you need anything an I love
you. Well the other day he told me that I
should just give up on him and that I do
not deserve to be treated like this!! I
told him that I love him and when I fell
in love with him I fell in love with every
aspect of him, I am here for him no matter
what and something like this is not going
to turn me around and run from him. He is
in his depressive state, but he wont let
me help what do I do???! We love each
other so much but it is killing me that he
doesnt want me anywhere or part of
anything woth him right now. Is this
normal?? Please help
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Macias
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 48 Location: , Germany
You Should Call Him Posted: 02-05-05 07:21am
Hello loveabip, this is macias who has the
same pb as you, who was sending you
emails.
Look I read your message and your email,
I know he broke up with you, but he still
loves you, so I think you should call him
again and tell him that you r beside him
all the time, I think he should feel this,
he's so in depression so he can put
himself in a worst mood. But telling you
that he's afraid that he hurts you means
that he loves you so much as you said, so
you have to keep on your relation.
For me, my bf didn't break up with me, but
he wants to do it all the time, which
makes me so confused and don't know what
to do, I love him and wanna keep the
relationship but he doesn't want for the
same reason as yours : he doesn't want to
hurt me and that I don't deserve that.
:cry: what a bad situation!
Does your boyfriend take medications?
Mine doesn't till now:( but I hope he
could take them to fel better.
My bf told me that he hates himself and
want to suicide, so when he's in this
situation he can't love anyone, this
feeling makes me insane, but I know that I
have to manage all this.
So good luck for both of us
yours/
macias
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Macias
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 48 Location: , Germany
Posted: 02-05-05 07:29am
By the way, his father was a bipolar too
as your bf's father :( and he left his
mother too :( , you were telling exactly
my story. Exaclty the same story :( I
wish we could handle it.
Waiting for your reply.
Yours
