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SacredxBabyxEyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 9
Location: Pa
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******help! How Can I Tell My Dad?******
Posted: 02-01-05 23:13pm
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Im only 16...And im scared shittless....I
had been having unprotected sex with only
one guy (of course...Hehe) and I think im
pregnant. I thought I was like 3 times
before but I was stressed, and my
boyfriend was right I wasnt pregnant. I
want a baby so bad and I know I could
handle it cuz I raised my little
brothers...But if I am pregnant...Which I
think I am ...Like 89% chance...Which is
alot..How can I tell my dad? He would
disown me...Hate me...Never wanna see me
again...Im scared...Im ready to cry just
htinkin of it...Please help me...I need
it...Thanx...
<3 sacredxeyes
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 02-01-05 23:25pm
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Are u or are u not preg????? How old are
u ? How old is yr b/f do u or him have a
job?
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SacredxBabyxEyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 9
Location: Pa
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Um...
Posted: 02-01-05 23:30pm
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Thats the thing...Im not sure if I am
pregnant but I looked up signs and I have
like almost all...And im 16 and my
boyfriend is 18....Hes in the army after
he graduates and I work for wendys and a
dry cleaners...
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SacredxBabyxEyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 9
Location: Pa
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Um...
Posted: 02-01-05 23:31pm
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Thats the thing...Im not sure if I am
pregnant but I looked up signs and I have
like almost all...And im 16 and my
boyfriend is 18....Hes in the army after
he graduates and I work for wendys and a
dry cleaners...
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cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
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Posted: 02-01-05 23:31pm
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U need to not stress ur self out!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 02-01-05 23:36pm
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Edo not stress makes yr period come later
ive had plenty or preg scares and have
been told that the more u stress the
longer its gonan come .. When is yr
period do????
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SacredxBabyxEyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 9
Location: Pa
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Period
Posted: 02-01-05 23:41pm
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Its due this coming 12th...How can I tell
my dad if I am prego?
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Jocelyne
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003
Posts: 121
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Posted: 02-02-05 09:18am
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Hi you just going to have to tell him
there really is no easy way!! Maybe you
should go on the pill and use
protection...If your this worried and feel
like your going to be in trouble because
your pregnant maybe your not ready to have
a baby. Being scared your in trouble will
be the last of your worries it'll be
mostly how are you going to raise a baby.
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a2ck418
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2004
Posts: 146
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Posted: 02-02-05 09:23am
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Sweetie I think you are ovulating right
around this time, if thats the case its
89% yet, use protection or refrain from
sex-at least until you get your period and
then see a doctor about the pill, patch or
shot! Good luck!
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004
Posts: 618
Location: Arizona
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Posted: 02-02-05 16:53pm
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So shes not on birth controll, and doesnt
use condoms because she wants a baby, but
shes afraid to tell her dad if she is
pregnant...
You could do it in a cute way...(this is
what I did) I bought a baby bib that says
"i love my daddy" and put the pg test
inside the tag.
You could write him a letter if you think
hes gunna explode on you, I get my
feelings out better on paper.
Or just tell him, face to face. Ask him
"what would you do if I told you I was
pg?" he will ask you why (and then tell
him) or state his opinion (and then you
still have to tell him) but at least youll
have an idea of how he is going to react.
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005
Posts: 268
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Posted: 02-02-05 19:20pm
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Hate to sound like I am judgeing but I am
trying not to. If you are 16 years old.
You should want to have a baby right now.
You should be a teenager first. I know
you said you helped raised your brothers
but that should show right there what it
is like to have a baby at a young age. (
don't really know how old your brothers
are ). Don't you want to go to the prom.
If you had a baby there is a chance that
you might not get to go.
But if you are pregnant you need to tell
your dad. You may think that you dad
would do all that you said but it may turn
out that he won't. There is dads out
there who say stuff like but the reason
why they say that is because they think
that if they tell their daughters that
they won't go out and get theirself
pregnant. But like pinkbaby said if you
think he is going to explode on you then
write him a letter.
I hope I helped you some and I am sorry if
I sound like I was judgeing you. I try
not to judge people but sometimes that is
what it sounds like and I really ain't
judgeing you. Just try to give you some
advice. And be some help.
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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004
Posts: 1528
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Posted: 02-02-05 19:25pm
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You need to chill. You don't even know,
you haven't even missed your period yet.
If you're this stressed after having sex,
maybe you aren't ready for sex.
Definitely not for a baby.
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SacredxBabyxEyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 9
Location: Pa
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Well...
Posted: 02-03-05 18:14pm
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First off I wanna thank you all for tha
support...I feel relieved...But my bf and
I talked and its ok now...We made our
decision ....Um...I am starting the pill
by the way too after I get my
period...Thats if I get it...Well thanx a
bunch everbody...Gots to go now... <3
me
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