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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
Posts: 12
Location: NEW JERSEY
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My Man Is Locked Up
Posted: 02-02-05 10:19am
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Hey is anyone in my shoes.....
My man is locked up and we r trying to
have a baby and we r wondering if any one
has any suggestions on how to get pregnant
quickly and being irregular at the same
time
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:23am
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I really cant help with this one. Maybe
you should talk to a doctor to see what
your options are
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l2at24
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:29am
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I'm sorry idk the whole story, but why
would you want to have a child with
someone who's locked up?? It's not fair
to the child. Unless he'll be out before
the baby's born and won't be going
back.......
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SamiNSunisMa
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Posts: 1528
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:38am
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Now, im not here to judge, but why is he
going to prison, or there if you don't
mind me asking. And I agree, it's not
fair to the child.
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
Posts: 12
Location: NEW JERSEY
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He Will Be Home Soon
Posted: 02-02-05 10:47am
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He robbed a engagement ring 4 me
and he wont be going back
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:48am
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I think you are very brave to stand by
your man I hope everything works out for
you both.
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
Posts: 12
Location: NEW JERSEY
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Thx
Posted: 02-02-05 10:53am
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I thank you I love him and I aint going no
where I love him so
much.....................
And we have a very strong bond btwn us
that noone can ever try to break.......
:lol:
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NENA24
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Joined: 02 Feb 2005
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Location: NEW JERSEY
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:55am
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Well thx for everyone's opinion good or
bad.............
I will speak w/ my doctor and see what he
says.........
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Tazzy D
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Re: Thx
Posted: 02-02-05 10:57am
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| nena24
wrote: | i thank you I love him and I
aint going no where I love him so
much.....................
And we have a very strong bond btwn us
that noone can ever try to break.......
:lol: |
hopefully no one ever will try........
Good luck to you hun. My mom stood by my
dad. When you love someone you love them
no matter what they do or have done. Stay
strong it will be okay
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:57am
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Last edited by Tazzy D on 02-03-05 11:05am; edited 1 time in total
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l2at24
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Posted: 02-02-05 10:59am
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Okay, so how long will he be in? I mean,
are you asking about getting preg when he
gets out...Or are you trying to smuggle
out some sperm?? Or conjugal visits?
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melanie18058
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Posted: 02-02-05 15:06pm
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My man is locked up also, but I seem to
get pregnant before he goes in and I end
up raising the kids alone :cry:
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005
Posts: 433
Location: Houston, TX
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Posted: 02-03-05 00:25am
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My man is locked up too but he got locked
up when I was pregnat so im not quite sure
what to tell you! How old are you?
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
Posts: 12
Location: NEW JERSEY
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Thx
Posted: 02-03-05 07:51am
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Im going on 24
i have a great job, im moving to a area
where if I have a baby he/she will grow up
in a better enviroment than I idid... I
have a wonderful mother 2 support me and a
mother in law that would help also..
A man who would kill 4 me he works and
sends me a check every 2 weeks from
jail......... So u know what I aint going
in the wrong direction..............
Thx everyone.........
And its true when u love someone u will do
what ever for them.............. :lol:
:d :wink: :p :p :p
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l2at24
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Re: Thx
Posted: 02-03-05 08:13am
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| nena24
wrote: | im going on 24
i have a great job, im moving to a area
where if I have a baby he/she will grow up
in a better enviroment than I idid... I
have a wonderful mother 2 support me and a
mother in law that would help also..
A man who would kill 4 me he works and
sends me a check every 2 weeks from
jail......... So u know what I aint
going in the wrong
direction..............
Thx everyone.........
And its true when u love someone u will do
what ever for them.............. :lol:
:d :wink: :p :p
:p |
really i'm not trying to be negative about
your situation, i'm just blown away that
you seriously don't see anything wrong
with it. Why didn't he use money that he
earned to buy you a ring? And what if he
really does kill for you one day and goes
back to prison? Idk, it's just sad that
us girls today are so desperate for love
we will go for anyone. You should think
about all your options like moving on and
getting yourself through school or at
least on a better track for your future.
Then you could find a man who will work
for a living. And take care of you and
your children in the right way. Hope all
goes well with you. Take care.
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
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Location: NEW JERSEY
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Posted: 02-03-05 09:03am
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Look im a teacher I have a education
my man lost his job and thought I would
leave him so he went and did what he did
im not agreeing w/ it but what can I do I
love him and im still gonna be w/
him.....
Thanks for ur opinion I hear that all the
time and I ve thought about alot of
stuff...
And eferything u guys r talking bout I
already thought about..........
So thx ur voice was heard
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
Posts: 12
Location: NEW JERSEY
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Posted: 02-03-05 09:03am
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Look im a teacher I have a education
my man lost his job and thought I would
leave him so he went and did what he did
im not agreeing w/ it but what can I do I
love him and im still gonna be w/
him.....
Thanks for ur opinion I hear that all the
time and I ve thought about alot of
stuff...
And eferything u guys r talking bout I
already thought about..........
So thx ur voice was heard
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NENA24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005
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Location: NEW JERSEY
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Posted: 02-03-05 09:32am
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It would be conjical visits
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1509
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Posted: 02-03-05 10:46am
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| nena24
wrote: | | it would be conjical
visits |
how long is he going to be in? Why can't
you just wait until he's home?
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK
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Posted: 02-03-05 10:58am
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Nena if it feels right to you go for it
girl you are the only one that truley
knows how you feel.
Good luck
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