I really cant help with this one. Maybe you should talk to a doctor to see what your options are

I'm sorry idk the whole story, but why would you want to have a child with someone who's locked up?? It's not fair to the child. Unless he'll be out before the baby's born and won't be going back.......

Now, im not here to judge, but why is he going to prison, or there if you don't mind me asking. And I agree, it's not fair to the child.

He robbed a engagement ring 4 me

and he wont be going back

I think you are very brave to stand by your man I hope everything works out for you both.

I thank you I love him and I aint going no where I love him so much.....................
And we have a very strong bond btwn us that noone can ever try to break.......
:lol:

Well thx for everyone's opinion good or bad.............
I will speak w/ my doctor and see what he says.........

hopefully no one ever will try........ Good luck to you hun. My mom stood by my dad. When you love someone you love them no matter what they do or have done. Stay strong it will be okay

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Okay, so how long will he be in? I mean, are you asking about getting preg when he gets out...Or are you trying to smuggle out some sperm?? Or conjugal visits?

My man is locked up also, but I seem to get pregnant before he goes in and I end up raising the kids alone :cry:

My man is locked up too but he got locked up when I was pregnat so im not quite sure what to tell you! How old are you?

Im going on 24
i have a great job, im moving to a area where if I have a baby he/she will grow up in a better enviroment than I idid... I have a wonderful mother 2 support me and a mother in law that would help also..

A man who would kill 4 me he works and sends me a check every 2 weeks from jail......... So u know what I aint going in the wrong direction..............
Thx everyone.........

And its true when u love someone u will do what ever for them.............. :lol: :d :wink: :p :p :p

really i'm not trying to be negative about your situation, i'm just blown away that you seriously don't see anything wrong with it. Why didn't he use money that he earned to buy you a ring? And what if he really does kill for you one day and goes back to prison? Idk, it's just sad that us girls today are so desperate for love we will go for anyone. You should think about all your options like moving on and getting yourself through school or at least on a better track for your future. Then you could find a man who will work for a living. And take care of you and your children in the right way. Hope all goes well with you. Take care.

Look im a teacher I have a education
my man lost his job and thought I would leave him so he went and did what he did im not agreeing w/ it but what can I do I love him and im still gonna be w/ him.....

Thanks for ur opinion I hear that all the time and I ve thought about alot of stuff...

And eferything u guys r talking bout I already thought about..........


So thx ur voice was heard

Look im a teacher I have a education
my man lost his job and thought I would leave him so he went and did what he did im not agreeing w/ it but what can I do I love him and im still gonna be w/ him.....

Thanks for ur opinion I hear that all the time and I ve thought about alot of stuff...

And eferything u guys r talking bout I already thought about..........


So thx ur voice was heard

It would be conjical visits

how long is he going to be in? Why can't you just wait until he's home?

Nena if it feels right to you go for it girl you are the only one that truley knows how you feel.
Good luck