Sorry if this seems inappropriate but its
serious. I just tried to have sex for
the first time and it was the biggest
disappointment of my life. Not only
could I not keep it ...Up but it really
wasnt doing it for me. I was horribly
nervous and just seemed a little tense.
Is this a normal thing in guys or what?
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Endurance
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2003 Posts: 3 Location: Saskatoon Sk. Canada
Normal Posted: 10-31-03 03:05am
Its normal man... Not ment to be half
hour your 1st time... More you have sex
the longer u will go older the older u
get the more controle u have..
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Shadow_Saint
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2003 Posts: 13
Posted: 10-31-03 06:40am
This is just so messed up! This is
something that I have been waiting for my
whole life and it seems odd that I couldnt
do it. I think I was so hung up about
just doing it to do it that it took the
fun out of it. All my friends get some
and I was the only one who didnt. So I
guess it was sorta pressured and rushed.
Well there is always next time and next I
will buy different condoms because they
ones I had were like sandpaper rubbing
together....Yuck.
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freddiemac
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 4
Shadow Posted: 11-20-03 09:58am
Not unusual at all! Understand this ok:
our society paints this manly john wayne
(an old but good famous cowboy) shoot'm up
and ride'm hard gun-ho he-man or g.I. Joe
mentality that is 100% false, got it!!
Men are just as sensitive as women but
that is a lot to understand some times.
You just need to take your time -- as does
the lady. Some time go w/ her and just
spend time in a bed w/o sex. Don't make
it the number one showtime, ya know.
Take it easy. Take your time, forget
about it. Explain to her exactly your
feelings, i.E. It's number one on my mind
but it doesn't all work that way and that
you really need to take it slow.
