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Q: Please Help...am I Pregnant?
asked by: NuMbAwUnSh0rTii on February 3rd, 2005
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Im 15 years old. I had sex with a boy in the beginning of january(2005)
im pretty sure he had a condom on. Well I remember having my period during christmas, and I was soposed to get my period at the end of january. Well I didnt. Its february 3rd and no sign of my period. My friend amanda who has been pregnant before but had a miscarriage said its probably a period shift since I started my period at the age of 13 or 14. I really want to believe her. I havent had any symptoms of pregnancy. No vomiting, dizziness, headaches, tender breasts...Nothing. I cant tell my mom about my situation. I have no money for a pregnancy test. So I really need some help...Imediately
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Nikki n Rudy
replied on February 3rd, 2005
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Pretty sure he had a condom on?? You didn't see him put one on??? Lawdy....Take a test.
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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
replied on February 3rd, 2005
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Am I Pregnant
Im pretty sure he did because I heard a wrapper...I cant take a test because I have no way of getting to a store and I have no money to buy one. And besides im extremely scared to tell my mother
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l2at24
replied on February 3rd, 2005
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There are places you can go. Ask your school nurse where you can go. I don't know about the laws now, but when I was in school the nurse was very helpful and didn't have to inform my parents about my inquiries. You could also look online for your area. Or the phone book. I'm talking about places like planned parenthood, or a health clinic. They should be able to help you for little to no money. Also, the dollar store sells hpts and they are just as good as any. Btw, normally you wouldn't have any symptoms yet anyway.
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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
replied on February 3rd, 2005
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Am I Pregnant
What should I do if I am pregnant. I dont want to have a child. Im too young for that. Im only a sophomore in highschool...
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l2at24
replied on February 3rd, 2005
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Re: Am I Pregnant
numbawunsh0rtii wrote:
what should I do if I am pregnant. I dont want to have a child. Im too young for that. Im only a sophomore in highschool...


that's going to up to you babe. Try not to stress until you find out for sure. I know that's going to be almost impossible so find out asap. You can also ask planned parenthood, the health clinic or where ever you end up going for help for bc.
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helpplease152
replied on February 4th, 2005
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Sorry to hear about your situation, I know exactly how scary it is. I had a scare a couple weeks ago too and swore on my life I would wait until I was ready for the responsibilities. In my case I flipped out and stayed on line for about a week straight reading things, surfing google, crying..... Don't do it to yourself. You just delay your period and stress yourself more. As for the school nurse I never even thought about that...... But I did call 411 and ask to be connected to a teen pregnancy hotline. The first time I got hooked up with a guy that wasn't much help-the 2nd time I got this awesome woman who told me straight up my chances and things like that. The girl was through plannedparenthood..... Maybe you should look into it?

Good luck girl....I'll be praying for you.
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jessamyn
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Re: Please Help...am I Pregnant?
Hun you said it yourself: you had sex with a boy! Please give yourself a chance to grow up alittle pregnancy scares at 15 you shouldnt be going thru that... How do you not know if he had a condom on or not? Were you drunk? (not being mean or sarcastic just asking) remember stressing can cause a missed period... But I dont think its a pregnancy shift as your friend explains it... Are you into really active sports? You can schedule an appt for a pregnancy test at a free clinic such as planned parenthood... Why not have the guy cough up the cash... If you dont have money for a test.. You wont have money for a baby... Trust me hun... Have you told him yet? Even of the scare? Hes as much a part of this... Look up free clinics in your areas and please do let me know how it goes... I'm gunna have you on my mind now!


Aim :darlinjessa
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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Guess What
Hey everyone...I took a pregnancy test last night and the test said im not pregnant. I hope it wasnt too early to take a test. Yay I am sooo happy!!! I just want to thank all of you for giving me great advice. Thanks again.
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jessamyn
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Just wait out for your period and if it still doesnt come test agian or get in to see a doc!
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~*klo*~
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Ah good good, howed you get a test in the end btw?
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amwahw
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Take a Test
What about asking a friend or a friends older sister to help u get a test. Because guessing is not the thing to do...Im also 15 and have had this scare too. Trust me...The sooner u find out the better it is
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jessamyn
replied on February 5th, 2005
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She already tested look up two :)
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amwahw
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Sorry
Lol sorry guys my computer was being really slow and delayed. I guess by the time it got through it was kinda late....Haha my bad
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pinkbaby
replied on February 5th, 2005
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Re: Guess What
numbawunsh0rtii wrote:
hey everyone...I took a pregnancy test last night and the test said im not pregnant. I hope it wasnt too early to take a test. Yay I am sooo happy!!! I just want to thank all of you for giving me great advice. Thanks again.


now next time make sure he has a condom on. Or even better, get some bc, so you dont have to worry about the guy messing up. I know your scared to tell your mom, but look at it this way; would you rather ask your mom for bc or for a pg test?
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