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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Boynton Beach Florida
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Please Help...am I Pregnant?
Posted: 02-03-05 18:15pm
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Im 15 years old. I had sex with a boy in
the beginning of january(2005)
im pretty sure he had a condom on. Well I
remember having my period during
christmas, and I was soposed to get my
period at the end of january. Well I
didnt. Its february 3rd and no sign of my
period. My friend amanda who has been
pregnant before but had a miscarriage said
its probably a period shift since I
started my period at the age of 13 or 14.
I really want to believe her. I havent
had any symptoms of pregnancy. No
vomiting, dizziness, headaches, tender
breasts...Nothing. I cant tell my mom
about my situation. I have no money for a
pregnancy test. So I really need some
help...Imediately
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 642 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted: 02-03-05 18:26pm
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Pretty sure he had a condom on?? You
didn't see him put one on???
Lawdy....Take a test.
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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Boynton Beach Florida
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Am I Pregnant
Posted: 02-03-05 18:33pm
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Im pretty sure he did because I heard a
wrapper...I cant take a test because I
have no way of getting to a store and I
have no money to buy one. And besides im
extremely scared to tell my mother
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l2at24
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 02-03-05 18:37pm
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There are places you can go. Ask your
school nurse where you can go. I don't
know about the laws now, but when I was in
school the nurse was very helpful and
didn't have to inform my parents about my
inquiries. You could also look online
for your area. Or the phone book. I'm
talking about places like planned
parenthood, or a health clinic. They
should be able to help you for little to
no money. Also, the dollar store sells
hpts and they are just as good as any.
Btw, normally you wouldn't have any
symptoms yet anyway.
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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Boynton Beach Florida
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Am I Pregnant
Posted: 02-03-05 18:41pm
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What should I do if I am pregnant. I dont
want to have a child. Im too young for
that. Im only a sophomore in
highschool...
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l2at24
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Re: Am I Pregnant
Posted: 02-03-05 18:56pm
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| numbawunsh0rtii
wrote: | | what should I do if I am
pregnant. I dont want to have a child.
Im too young for that. Im only a
sophomore in
highschool... |
that's going to up to you babe. Try not
to stress until you find out for sure. I
know that's going to be almost impossible
so find out asap. You can also ask
planned parenthood, the health clinic or
where ever you end up going for help for
bc.
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helpplease152
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 4 Location: SC
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Posted: 02-04-05 22:17pm
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Sorry to hear about your situation, I know
exactly how scary it is. I had a scare a
couple weeks ago too and swore on my life
I would wait until I was ready for the
responsibilities. In my case I flipped
out and stayed on line for about a week
straight reading things, surfing google,
crying..... Don't do it to yourself. You
just delay your period and stress yourself
more. As for the school nurse I never
even thought about that...... But I did
call 411 and ask to be connected to a teen
pregnancy hotline. The first time I got
hooked up with a guy that wasn't much
help-the 2nd time I got this awesome woman
who told me straight up my chances and
things like that. The girl was through
plannedparenthood..... Maybe you should
look into it?
Good luck girl....I'll be praying for you.
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jessamyn
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Re: Please Help...am I Pregnant?
Posted: 02-05-05 11:11am
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Hun you said it yourself: you had sex with
a boy! Please give yourself a chance to
grow up alittle pregnancy scares at 15 you
shouldnt be going thru that... How do you
not know if he had a condom on or not?
Were you drunk? (not being mean or
sarcastic just asking) remember stressing
can cause a missed period... But I dont
think its a pregnancy shift as your friend
explains it... Are you into really active
sports? You can schedule an appt for a
pregnancy test at a free clinic such as
planned parenthood... Why not have the
guy cough up the cash... If you dont have
money for a test.. You wont have money
for a baby... Trust me hun... Have you
told him yet? Even of the scare? Hes as
much a part of this... Look up free
clinics in your areas and please do let me
know how it goes... I'm gunna have you on
my mind now!
Aim :darlinjessa
email :jessamynleesha@yahoo.Com
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NuMbAwUnSh0rTii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Boynton Beach Florida
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Guess What
Posted: 02-05-05 11:32am
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Hey everyone...I took a pregnancy test
last night and the test said im not
pregnant. I hope it wasnt too early to
take a test. Yay I am sooo happy!!! I
just want to thank all of you for giving
me great advice. Thanks again.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-05-05 11:45am
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Just wait out for your period and if it
still doesnt come test agian or get in to
see a doc!
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~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 353 Location: eng
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Posted: 02-05-05 11:45am
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Ah good good, howed you get a test in the
end btw?
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amwahw
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 22 Location: Ohio
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Take a Test
Posted: 02-05-05 19:32pm
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What about asking a friend or a friends
older sister to help u get a test.
Because guessing is not the thing to
do...Im also 15 and have had this scare
too. Trust me...The sooner u find out the
better it is
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-05-05 21:00pm
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She already tested look up two :)
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amwahw
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 22 Location: Ohio
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Sorry
Posted: 02-05-05 23:08pm
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Lol sorry guys my computer was being
really slow and delayed. I guess by the
time it got through it was kinda
late....Haha my bad
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
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Re: Guess What
Posted: 02-05-05 23:21pm
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| numbawunsh0rtii
wrote: | | hey everyone...I took a
pregnancy test last night and the test
said im not pregnant. I hope it wasnt
too early to take a test. Yay I am sooo
happy!!! I just want to thank all of you
for giving me great advice. Thanks
again. |
now next time make sure he has a condom
on. Or even better, get some bc, so you
dont have to worry about the guy messing
up. I know your scared to tell your mom,
but look at it this way; would you rather
ask your mom for bc or for a pg test?
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