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jessied04

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My Mom Knows
Posted: 02-03-05 19:02pm

Ok so my mom just found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex. Im not sure how and im not positive if she really really knows because I think that she would have reacted so bad if she knew I was. Maybe I was wrong. I told her I wasnt. And she said dont lie just dont say anything and she was fine. Then she said your not allowed to his house unless you have your period. How do I get her to change her mind? Sometimes I dont even have my period on a weekend and during the week we have school! Im really upset now!
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sftbllchika06

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Posted: 02-03-05 19:49pm

I am a little confused so she said as long as you are on your period you can go over there? I don't know what to tell you. Judging from her reaction to your answer I think she might know and if she does then you should be open and honest with her.
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jessied04

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Posted: 02-03-05 20:19pm

Well I lied cause I could never tell her I have she would never let me out of the house. We talked and I told her I still think of myself as a "baby" and I wouldnt do that...She was jsut assuming
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littlered

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Posted: 02-03-05 21:15pm

Have you ever had a good relationship with your mother. If you have you should tell her. Of course your mother is going to be upset if you are to young to be having sex. But some mothers gets upset no matter how old you are because they don't want to think of their little girls as young women. But I think your mom knows that you are having sex. And she gave you a chance to be honest with her. And you didn't tell her the truth. So she isn't going to change her mind about not letting you go over to your boyfriend's house when you are not on your period. But if you go and talk to her she might change her mind. I was 19 when I started having sex and I talked to my parents about. And they didn't get mad. Yes I know I was 19 but my parents told me not to have sex until I was married and I didn't. But you should talk to your mom about it. And the is the right thing to do.

I am going ask you something. How do you think you would react if you asked your daughter if you was having sex and she told you the same thing you told your mom. Wouldn't you want your daughter to talk to you about it. Who knows your mom may carry you to get bc. If you are not already on it.

I hope I helped some. And I hope you can make sense of it.
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jessied04

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Posted: 02-03-05 21:23pm

No see I would want my daughter to come to me and tell me when shes ready and I would tell her how I felt but I would put her on something also. I dont feel as though I can talk to my mom well about much at all I never could...Sure simple things the weather, family but nothing serious and its not even like I have my older sister to go to because she runs to my mom and tells her everything...I want to be able to talk to my sister but I cant. My mom would never let me out of the house if she knew I was having sex.
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mommaashley

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Posted: 02-04-05 13:52pm

Ok well look here...

I was the same way with my mom...Now I have a 3 month old son...You need to get on bc if you are going to be sexually active weither or not you tell your mom.
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jessied04

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Posted: 02-04-05 14:37pm

Would I have any signs as of 2 weeks?
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jessied04

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Posted: 02-04-05 15:08pm

Actually it seems like 2 if I got pregnant on the 20th but would that be 3 weeks?
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SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 02-04-05 15:20pm

Depends on when you ovulated I think, but generally 2 wks are added.
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