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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
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My Mom Knows
Posted: 02-03-05 19:02pm
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Ok so my mom just found out that me and my
boyfriend have been having sex. Im not
sure how and im not positive if she really
really knows because I think that she
would have reacted so bad if she knew I
was. Maybe I was wrong. I told her I
wasnt. And she said dont lie just dont
say anything and she was fine. Then she
said your not allowed to his house unless
you have your period. How do I get her to
change her mind? Sometimes I dont even
have my period on a weekend and during the
week we have school! Im really upset now!
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
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Posted: 02-03-05 19:49pm
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I am a little confused so she said as long
as you are on your period you can go over
there? I don't know what to tell you.
Judging from her reaction to your answer I
think she might know and if she does then
you should be open and honest with her.
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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
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Posted: 02-03-05 20:19pm
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Well I lied cause I could never tell her I
have she would never let me out of the
house. We talked and I told her I still
think of myself as a "baby" and I wouldnt
do that...She was jsut assuming
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
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Posted: 02-03-05 21:15pm
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Have you ever had a good relationship with
your mother. If you have you should tell
her. Of course your mother is going to be
upset if you are to young to be having
sex. But some mothers gets upset no
matter how old you are because they don't
want to think of their little girls as
young women. But I think your mom knows
that you are having sex. And she gave you
a chance to be honest with her. And you
didn't tell her the truth. So she isn't
going to change her mind about not letting
you go over to your boyfriend's house when
you are not on your period. But if you go
and talk to her she might change her mind.
I was 19 when I started having sex and I
talked to my parents about. And they
didn't get mad. Yes I know I was 19 but
my parents told me not to have sex until I
was married and I didn't. But you should
talk to your mom about it. And the is the
right thing to do.
I am going ask you something. How do you
think you would react if you asked your
daughter if you was having sex and she
told you the same thing you told your mom.
Wouldn't you want your daughter to talk
to you about it. Who knows your mom may
carry you to get bc. If you are not
already on it.
I hope I helped some. And I hope you can
make sense of it.
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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
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Posted: 02-03-05 21:23pm
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No see I would want my daughter to come to
me and tell me when shes ready and I would
tell her how I felt but I would put her on
something also. I dont feel as though I
can talk to my mom well about much at all
I never could...Sure simple things the
weather, family but nothing serious and
its not even like I have my older sister
to go to because she runs to my mom and
tells her everything...I want to be able
to talk to my sister but I cant. My mom
would never let me out of the house if she
knew I was having sex.
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mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 420 Location: Canada
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Posted: 02-04-05 13:52pm
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Ok well look here...
I was the same way with my mom...Now I
have a 3 month old son...You need to get
on bc if you are going to be sexually
active weither or not you tell your mom.
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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
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Posted: 02-04-05 14:37pm
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Would I have any signs as of 2 weeks?
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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
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Posted: 02-04-05 15:08pm
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Actually it seems like 2 if I got pregnant
on the 20th but would that be 3 weeks?
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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1528
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Posted: 02-04-05 15:20pm
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Depends on when you ovulated I think, but
generally 2 wks are added.
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